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 Jan 13 2005, 02:14 PM
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I've posted in here a couple of times about past relationships and situations I have been going through. I haven't had the chance to get online in the past month or so regularly. So here it is..
Keith and James were two ex-boyfriends I kept going back to for what reason.. I couldn't tell you because I have no idea myself. I think it was because I couldn't find someone I liked well enough so I settled for less. And just to let you know- that's not fun, don't do it! NEVER settle for LESS. We just started a new year- 2005! I'm excited, I graduate this year- I turn 18 this year!! Yay!! Anyways, my new years resolution was to move on. Forget about the two of them, don't talk to them, don't go see them, nothing. It's going pretty well. I see James every night because we work at the same place (but I just quit.. Jan 29 is my last day!!) and I haven't said a word to him. I know he found out about the resolution because I told Nathan. Nathan is good friends with him so he obviously said something. I have been tempted to talk to him, but I haven't so far! And with Keith.. I was online one day (off from work and bored). I was going through various livejournals seeing if I knew anyone through friends journals and such. I found this girl Molly's journal and she was talking about Keith. I read a few of her entries and she dated him. They dated shortly after him and I broke up the first time. So this whole time, Molly's been around and I never knew about it. It made me angry at first but then I thought 'he's not my boyfriend' so what can I really do about it. Anywho- I felt the need to write this because I'm proud of myself. Comment if you'd like. <3* |
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Jan 13 2005, 02:22 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
i was like that except with one guy, i was in little relationships but alwaus bounced back to that guy...he was horrible to me but i stayed anyway...many months later, i left him without a goodbye, i finally made myself realize he didn't deserve me or anything from me
 i'm glad you got out of those relationships  
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Jan 13 2005, 02:27 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 66 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,918 |
i know exactly what you're talking about. that's how it was with james. i must have gone back to him a million times but i'm glad it's over with. i need to stop torturing myself by doing that. and he can finally move on and date someone else. i hope.
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Jan 13 2005, 03:10 PM
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 [*]i AM your star!![*] Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,520 |
Good for you for not going back to either of them anymore. I know its hard but just keep it up!
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Jan 13 2005, 03:29 PM
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I commend you.
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Jan 13 2005, 03:50 PM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
i wish i had your mentality (i probably spelled that wrong or something)
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Jan 13 2005, 06:27 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Hey, congratulations!
That's a big step to take, and it's definitely not an easy one.  Good luck with school and future relationships and such! |
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Jan 13 2005, 06:43 PM
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 je suis une noix de coco <33 Group: Member Posts: 1,242 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,768 |
good luck..... i support you!
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Jan 14 2005, 12:20 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
Good Luck!
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Jan 15 2005, 01:07 AM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
I think it's great you're moving on..
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Jan 15 2005, 01:22 AM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
OOOh. and I'm proud of you for finding courage to move on. =)
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Jan 15 2005, 04:47 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
move on!! wheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!! connnngratsss.
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Jan 15 2005, 10:16 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
congrats and good luck.
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Jan 15 2005, 10:20 AM
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 Brown hand smash Group: Member Posts: 654 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,582 |
QUOTE(cmgchica717 @ Jan 13 2005, 3:10 PM) Good for you for not going back to either of them anymore. I know its hard but just keep it up!  right, thats a very good idea 
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