don't you hate it |
 Jan 12 2005, 06:27 AM
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 omw to be an offical member  Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,817  |
ok i know a couple of ppl this had happen to them and my self but i guess this is the best way i can explaine it
dont you hate it when you talk to someone and you to click so well and your really liking the person your talking to and you hope they feel the same to you ya'll talk more and hang out more and then you pop the question " hey i see that we both click and i like you and i was woundering if you would like to go on a date" and she/he turns around and says lets just be friends! honestly... how does that make you feel, also have you ever had that? i was bored and felt like talking about this type of matter :) |
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Jan 12 2005, 09:04 AM
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 Brown hand smash Group: Member Posts: 654 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,582 |
yeah, l will surely hate it if that happens to me but hopefully it doesn'nt coz l've never tried to say those words to a girl before. My friend tried it and when the girl dump him or say that its good if they remain friend, l told him to be ok. why?
maybe because he doesn't have a feeling for you. be happy that you can stil be her friend. my advice is if you love that person let her go. no matter how painful it is. its her right to refuse if she does'nt like you. loving someone is giving her the freedom to choose towhere she want to be happy even if that means your out if the picture. There are alot of girls there, you will find someone else again 
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Jan 12 2005, 03:27 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
oh yeah i've been through that
 me and this guy were really close, we talked all the time in class, he would do things for me, chase after boys (physically, he wasn't gay) who would jokingly take my stuff, make people stop annoying me etc he even wrote the chinese character for "heart" on my hand i admitted to him one day that i liked him...but it turns out, he only saw me as his lil sis, his "mui mui" (i think it's like that) i was so heartbroken 
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Jan 12 2005, 04:17 PM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
i'd be pissed.
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Jan 12 2005, 04:40 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
It's simply an easy way of letting someone down...it's better than saying "Omg! I'd never even consider going out with someone such as yourself! How could you ask such a thing? yuck!" or something along the lines of that..lol i suppose it would get annoying after awhile..however i have used that line a few times before...
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Jan 12 2005, 04:45 PM
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omw to be an offical member Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,817 |
QUOTE(XKali_chik_4_lifeX @ Jan 12 2005, 4:40 PM) It's simply an easy way of letting someone down...it's better than saying "Omg! I'd never even consider going out with someone such as yourself! How could you ask such a thing? yuck!" or something along the lines of that..lol i suppose it would get annoying after awhile..however i have used that line a few times before...  u said this? " Omg! I'd never even consider going out with someone such as yourself! How could you ask such a thing? yuck!" ?? wow |
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Jan 12 2005, 08:13 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
of course but it happens to everyone...
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Jan 12 2005, 09:27 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
I would be like uhh. okay. Go screw yourself.
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Jan 12 2005, 09:41 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
ugggh its effing annoying!! i wish boys would make it way more obvious as to who they want to just be friends with and who they want to have a relationship/date with!!!
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Jan 12 2005, 10:35 PM
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omw to be an offical member Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,817 |
QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ Jan 12 2005, 8:13 PM) of course but it happens to everyone... ive never had that said to me wow mmmmmmMMMM lol thank god! lol 
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Jan 13 2005, 12:11 AM
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 The Bone Collector Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162 |
I thought she was giving me signals, but it was, of course, mix signals. It's really sad, but i guess friends would be better.
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Jan 13 2005, 12:15 AM
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 Want fries with that? Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,652 |
Never happened to me..thank goodness.
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Jan 13 2005, 12:34 AM
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Stalking Createblog... Group: Member Posts: 155 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,300 |
QUOTE ugggh its effing annoying!! i wish boys would make it way more obvious as to who they want to just be friends with and who they want to have a relationship/date with!!! so friends can't do stuff for you, write characters of love on your hand, defend you, and talk to you all the time? that's a depressing thought for us guys... it's mei mei. |
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Jan 13 2005, 12:40 AM
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Your fault.
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Jan 13 2005, 12:41 AM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
I guess I'd be a little ticked off.. but I've never been in that situation before, and I'm definitely not that out-going.
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Jan 13 2005, 12:44 AM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
that's horrible, never happened to me though, but I'd sure hate it.
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Jan 13 2005, 04:44 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
dude, u have really weird grammar.
anyway, SLAP HER. (sorry girls, had to tell the truth) |
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Jan 13 2005, 07:20 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
well i wouldn't know. it's never happened to me.
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Jan 13 2005, 09:19 AM
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Brown hand smash Group: Member Posts: 654 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,582 |
QUOTE(LadyXTor @ Jan 13 2005, 12:15 AM) Never happened to me..thank goodness. same here
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Jan 13 2005, 07:08 PM
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 je suis une noix de coco <33 Group: Member Posts: 1,242 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,768 |
that has happen before... i really hate it... you start to fall in g"like" witht that people. but know you can't have him... it just hurts
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Jan 16 2005, 08:38 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
never happened to me
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Jan 16 2005, 10:11 AM
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 This is me.....Then. Group: Member Posts: 78 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,512 |
Yeah, thats happened to me before. Its f**king annoying lol but i get over it
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Jan 16 2005, 05:50 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
never happened. how lovely.
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Jan 16 2005, 05:59 PM
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 Day's Nearly Over Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 |
It's not in me to ask.
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Jan 17 2005, 01:29 AM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
That never happened to me before; but I have felt that way about a person. And we clicked and all but he didn't like me..
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