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 Jan 11 2005, 05:26 PM
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 shake it  Group: Member Posts: 245 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,171  |
ik this sounds just like the rest of the girls that post on here but..
ive never had a boyfriend, and i feel soo left out. i atleast wanna know someone likes me :( ughhh i dont know what to do |
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Jan 11 2005, 05:28 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Eek..
I'm sorry. Eh, I've only had one. How old are you, by the way? You won't wait forever, so don't worry. Sometimes you just have to make the first move. |
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Jan 11 2005, 05:34 PM
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shake it Group: Member Posts: 245 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,171 |
im 14..yeahh ik kinda young
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Jan 11 2005, 06:10 PM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
It's not like you graduate high school yet, right? I mean I would feel depressed and sad if I never dated anyone and I'm already a graduated high school student --
Well I'm not a graduated student, just setting examples. I'm a junior in high school right now. Still have 1 or 2 years more to go. |
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Jan 11 2005, 08:12 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
giirrrlll well b4 having a bf, it was all guud kus i was all free nd got to "be wit nybody i wanted'' like i got to flirt with all of the others boys haha..but now that i gots a bf, its all guud kuz u only showin luv to him nd stuff ...so being single is as guud as having a bf...dnt be kry over that, you have many things in life to cry bout than this...keep ur head up!!
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Jan 11 2005, 08:20 PM
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If it'll make you feel better, I've never had a boyfriend either.
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Jan 11 2005, 08:25 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Jan 11 2005, 8:20 PM) If it'll make you feel better, I've never had a boyfriend either.  hehe, you're silly  it doesn't matter if everyone around you has a girl/boyfriend, most of those relationships (from what i see) are empty, some are with the person just to have someone and others are just together because they think it's love... just wait, you'll be swept off our feet someday 
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Jan 11 2005, 08:49 PM
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 »»»»»»»»»»» Group: Member Posts: 557 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,261 |
Oh, that's stupid... i thought you had a real reason to be sad.
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Jan 11 2005, 09:59 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
Sometimes I feel like that too...like no one likes me, but that's not true! There are plenty of people who like and appreciate you. And when the right guy comes along for you, all that waiting will be well worth it. You don't want a guy to like you just to say someone has a crush on you!
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Jan 11 2005, 10:15 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
Dont' feel that way. Your love will come sooner or later. Love takes time so be patiante(sp?)
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Jan 11 2005, 11:17 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
awww dont feel sad. im sure that the perfect guy for you is somewhere out there and that you'll find him soon
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Jan 11 2005, 11:21 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Just becuz you've never had a b/f doesnt mean no one likes you..it's just they havent notice you yet or the fact that they're scared to know how you feel about them; fear of rejection....
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Jan 11 2005, 11:23 PM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
Being 14 is kinda young, but i can understand about feeling left out. These days girls are pressured to get a boyfriend at such a young age, when they hardly know who they are themselves. I got my first boyfriend at 13, and yah that was wayyy to young. I really wish i never had a boyfriend before, because even at 16 i am still way to young to just give my heart out like that, and i regret lots of things i did with guys. So it's not exactly a bad thing...in a way be grateful that you haven't had a boyfriend yet. Just wait and be patient
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Jan 12 2005, 12:01 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 40 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,357 |
i haven't exactly had a bf either.. just that this guy i liked, liked me back... lol but we didnt go out.. im a wimp lol i was DARED to hug him... i wouldn't just go up to him.. lol i didnt talk to him much either.. so yeah don't feel left out im like 12.. come to think of it i dont really want a bf either lol
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Jan 12 2005, 01:04 AM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Jan 11 2005, 8:20 PM) If it'll make you feel better, I've never had a boyfriend either. lol. yea, anyway, im sure theres people who like you, but they're just too scared to tell their feelings to you. just keep looking. |
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Jan 12 2005, 01:50 AM
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 je suis une noix de coco <33 Group: Member Posts: 1,242 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,768 |
you will find someone some day..... i mean i really can't help because i've had many.. but i had to make the first move in most cases.... just don't be scared
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Jan 12 2005, 02:43 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
dont worry.. the right guy is probably just around the corner.
QUOTE If it'll make you feel better, I've never had a boyfriend either.  .. that's so sadd. my friend here... wants to find a good girlfriend, are u interested????
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Jan 12 2005, 03:17 AM
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 hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
QUOTE(xo_rock @ Jan 11 2005, 3:34 PM) im 14..yeahh ik kinda young i'm not trying to be mean but don't worry about it, it's fine. you are only 14. you will get someone. and you know what, i'm sure someone DOES like you but the guy who does has no balls so you have no clue that he likes you because he hasn't said anything about it, y'know?? but please don't be those girls who complain about not having a boyfriend because they are annoying. i should know. i was one of those girls. then i finally got my first boyfriend at age 16. and sure i was happy but it wasn't this great amazing wonderful experience that was worth all the complaining i did for it. y'know?? so don't worry about it. don't stress out and complain about it. plus 14 is kind of young. and having a boyfriend, isn't all that. haha. but yeah, what i was trying to get across is that it's not that big of a deal. it might seem as if everyone around you is hooking up, and it's hard not to feel left out, but look on the bright side. by the time you have a boyfriend you will probably be able to actually handle the relationship because you will be older and more mature. so be patient =) and remember, there probably is someone out there who does like you, but for reasons like they haven't said anything or the fact that you might be overlooking them, are why you don't know they like you. be confident. that is supposedly a huge turn on for guys (; |
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Jan 12 2005, 03:20 AM
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 wannabe an official member! Group: Member Posts: 266 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 751 |
you just started high school right? don't worry bout it, i'm sure things will work out for you
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Jan 12 2005, 06:20 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
QUOTE(i_liek_sushi @ Jan 12 2005, 9:49 AM) Oh, that's stupid... i thought you had a real reason to be sad. me too  . jeeez. i'm a junior and i've never had a bf but i don't feel sad abt it. i mean seriously, the world does not revolve around guys and boyfriends.
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Jan 12 2005, 06:52 AM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
you just have to learn to be patient...
someday, your mr.right will come to you. and it will be worth it... ^ ^* you're only 14, for god's sakes. enjoy life, while you're at it. |
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Mar 13 2005, 03:23 AM
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 my pet rock doesn't like you Group: Member Posts: 258 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,866 |
boyfriends are overr.ated. they aren't as great as they seem. I was just like you - i really wanted a bf too. Then when i got one i missed being able to talk to other guys, and always debated over if i really liked him enough to stick with him. Don't be in a rush - its not worth it.
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Mar 13 2005, 03:27 AM
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 Food. Group: Member Posts: 667 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,545 |
Well, you're lucky.
That's just my opinion. I think it's better to wait until that "perfect" one comes a long. Why feel so down? 
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Mar 13 2005, 03:41 AM
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QUOTE(x__forever @ Jan 12 2005, 3:20 AM) i mean seriously, the world does not revolve around guys and boyfriends. agreed. there's no rush. just relax. |
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Mar 13 2005, 07:44 AM
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 go go power rangers<3 Group: Member Posts: 321 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,457 |
I can't say much as to where to find a boyfriend, I met mine in mandatory group therapy.
BUT. I think it's good to wait for the perfect guy to come along. And that's found out best by if you're friends. If he's a truly amazing friend, he will probably be the same as a boyfriend- if not better. Maybe try to make a few more guy friends. But don't let your self be considered "one of the guys". Not having a boyfriend is not the worst thing in the world, but I remember how you feel. You just have to wait and find out what destiny has in store for you. |
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