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 Jan 11 2005, 03:10 PM
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okay well i have a lot of friends...but like non eof them invite me places except my 1 besterest friend in the world....but like r they really not my friends?
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Jan 11 2005, 03:14 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
maybe because they just met you or they have a llittle problem with you
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Jan 11 2005, 03:22 PM
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 uoyevoli Group: Member Posts: 177 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,430 |
maybe its cuz they feel they dont know you as well...sometimes that happens to me...i want to go somewhere but realize i can only ask a couple of them instead of all of them...
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Jan 11 2005, 03:34 PM
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I'm a sexy beast Group: Member Posts: 410 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,103 |
Sometimes you have "school" friends "out of school" friends and "everywhere" friends. Maybe they just consider you as a school friend.
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Jan 11 2005, 03:41 PM
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They're still your friends... you just haven't connected with them as much.
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Jan 11 2005, 03:49 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
You can have a lot of people considered your friends, but some other people may not feel they are as close to you as they are with their other friends they go places with. Try asking them somewhere instead of waiting for them!
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Jan 11 2005, 03:55 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 775 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 45,754 |
you can ask them to go places also
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Jan 11 2005, 04:06 PM
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 wannabe an official member! Group: Member Posts: 266 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 751 |
you can consider them friends...but who knows how close of friend they consider you
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Jan 11 2005, 04:35 PM
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leenie <3 Group: Member Posts: 318 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,816 |
i guess they are you friends but mayb your not as close to them as you think you are .. i know i dont invite some people but that was only bc i didnt knoe them .. then i started to iinvite em and stuff
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Jan 11 2005, 04:55 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Hmm.
Maybe they aren't as social as you'd like them to be. Maybe you should invite them places every once in a while, and if they had fun they might start to invite you places, too! |
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| *islandgirl4eva* |
Jan 11 2005, 04:57 PM
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I'm very anal about who I call "friend". I have lots of associates, but there are very few people who I consider friends. It might be the same case with you.
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Jan 11 2005, 06:01 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
maybe because they either don't really like you or hardly know you yet.
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Jan 11 2005, 06:04 PM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
Probably you were being the brat girl to them? It happens, so if you want to get the attention from there. Treat them to a nice place and make sure you pay for them? But don't use a lot of moneys on them, cause then they will think like "Oh I have a slave..Hmmm
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Mar 11 2005, 08:38 PM
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 Hey my name is Jessica. I'm abnormally happy! Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,911 |
I sooo know that feeling. when this person started to say things about me, my friends just started to slip away. . .
 Maybe you're just not talking to them as much, or maybe they just don't like you. But I really don't think it's that. You should ask them right straight out loud, "Why don't you guys ever ahng out with me?" You'll pretty much get your answer then.
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| *salcha* |
Mar 11 2005, 09:35 PM
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hang out and get to know them more
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Mar 11 2005, 09:37 PM
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 TOISU!! Group: Member Posts: 1,996 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,516 |
Well think about it..not everyone is your bestest friend in the whole wide world like the one who invites you places so they're most likey your friends..but not close friends...it happens though..
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Mar 11 2005, 09:50 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
don't wait for them to ask you, ask them if they want to go places. They could just be waiting for you to ask
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Mar 11 2005, 10:28 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 193 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,964 |
maybe they think of you just as a accuaintence or an in-school friend. i have people like that. they're great friends in school, i talk to them and hug them in the hallways, but i never really hang out with them on the weekends and stuff. instead of waiting to be invited places, why do you start some plans and invite people yourself? then you're automatically included.
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Mar 11 2005, 10:33 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 288 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,476 |
i think its not a problem...
i never invite my very best friends to my home also... |
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Mar 11 2005, 10:56 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
QUOTE(sw33t babii x33 @ Jan 11 2005, 4:10 PM) okay well i have a lot of friends...but like non eof them invite me places except my 1 besterest friend in the world....but like r they really not my friends?  besterest ? I blame the education system .. but anywhooo ask them to go with you somewhere maybe there not inviting you out because you dont invite them anywhere. |
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Mar 13 2005, 02:08 AM
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i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
You don't always need to bring you friend to your house to make a real friend. No ways. I call best friend when he/she hangs out with me a lot and talks to me a lot more than anyone.
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Mar 13 2005, 11:20 AM
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 hi Group: Member Posts: 1,478 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,897 |
maybe you consider them close friends, but they just consider you a friend from school and not someone they know all that well.
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Mar 13 2005, 11:21 AM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
get to know them better...talk to them on aim...maybe invite all of them, and your bff to the movies or something so you can become even closer to them
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Mar 13 2005, 11:28 AM
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 OMG! Group: Member Posts: 61 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,243 |
friends r the best things in life
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Mar 13 2005, 12:44 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
I say ditch them and you and your besterest friends go find new ones. ^___^
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Mar 13 2005, 12:56 PM
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 Live Your Own Party Group: Member Posts: 1,261 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,489 |
Ehhh... not necissarily. I have only a couple friends that actually invite me places. I'm usually the one who has to call up and ask, you know? They're probably still your friends but would rather hang out with they're closer/other friends.
 Okay... well, that probably doesn't make you happy enough to gring, but, yeah... It could be worse. 
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