Cheating, When third parties arise |
 Mar 20 2004, 02:22 AM
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 jesus freak  Group: Member Posts: 378 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,748  |
People get cheated on once in a while.. some are always cheated on.
I was... three times, with the same guy. He cheated on me with a close friend. And other friends. And I was soo blind I accepted him back. Three times. Imagine that. I honestly didn't know what to do until my closest friend yelled at me saying I was so weak and that I had to leave him. But I loved him too much. And I loved my friends too much. So I forgave all of them. It wasn't til mai guy best friend threatened me that he'd go and kill the guy that I broke up with him. It hurt so badly. And honestly, I didn't know wtf to do.. And when I look back at it now... I realize that I still wouldn't know what to do if it all happened again... So... what are you supposed to do when you get cheated on? |
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Mar 20 2004, 02:35 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 176 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,556 |
Well to be honest even in worst time a 2nd chance wont hurt (in my view that is) but if it happen a again then i'll probably just forget it and move on cuz you'll never kno if he'll do it a 4th time rite?
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| *krnxswat* |
Mar 20 2004, 07:05 AM
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You're supposed to call him a bastard and move on.
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Mar 20 2004, 10:12 AM
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QUOTE(krnxswat @ Mar 20 2004, 6:05 AM) You're supposed to call him a bastard and move on. wow okay ill remeber that in my opintion u give him a secound chance but not a third!!! he has got to prove his worth and when he cheats on u like that he isnt worth anything |
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Mar 20 2004, 10:47 AM
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 wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
kick the cheater to the curb and remind myself that i deserve more respect than that and that there is someone else out there who will treat me better.
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Mar 20 2004, 11:33 AM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
Consider the fact that he cheated on you, and second chances are only WORTH it if he truly was sorry. I agree with KrnxSwat. BUt maybe while you do that, like if you were on a date with him and you did what krnxswat said, take a glass of soda and pour it in his face and move on. That would spice up the break up
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Mar 20 2004, 02:41 PM
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QUOTE(krnxswat @ Mar 20 2004, 7:05 AM) You're supposed to call him a bastard and move on. thats a good idea  its kinda personal so i'll be vague... but my aunt was once married to this guy that my grandparents hated n all, but she wouldn't listen to anything they had to say. so 3 years after they got married, they got divorced. i was 6 at the time and didn't understand why, cuz i liked that guy...heck he was even the clown for my 5 year old b-day party. so just a week ago (a lotta years later), i found out that he had cheated on my aunt, stole money from his restaurant, and fooled around with the waitresses at his restaurant. and i even found out that my aunt had given him so many chances. i felt so bad ever complaining abotu them getting a divorce b/c this aunt is my favorite family member and i love her so much, and it really hurts me that she could get hurt so bad like that. so if i ever found that my boyfriend was cheating on me... there would be NO second chance. |
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Mar 20 2004, 08:21 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 90 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,426 |
u gave him a chance and he did it again and again?! 3 times??!?!
are u kidding me?!!!!??!? DUMP HIM! |
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Mar 20 2004, 08:40 PM
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 advanced newbie... S2 Group: Member Posts: 3,504 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 752 |
go get ur guy best fend to kill him. dass wwhat i wuold do. those selfish young little bastards dont deserve more than a second chance. i mean, if they cheat on you once, that proves that they dont hold the relationship as strong as you do, and it means you desrve better. But heck, if you give him a nother chance and he cheats again, its time to take ACTION and KILL HIM!! MWAHAHAHAHAH
 you deserve better. not a mesed up unappreciative guy like him... so move on dear. plenty of hot, kind, sweet, and NONCHEATING guys out there. only like a few are rotten like him.
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| *AngelicEyz00* |
Mar 20 2004, 11:30 PM
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QUOTE(psychoticangel @ Mar 19 2004, 11:22 PM) People get cheated on once in a while.. some are always cheated on. I was... three times, with the same guy. He cheated on me with a close friend. And other friends. And I was soo blind I accepted him back. Three times. Imagine that. I honestly didn't know what to do until my closest friend yelled at me saying I was so weak and that I had to leave him. But I loved him too much. And I loved my friends too much. So I forgave all of them. It wasn't til mai guy best friend threatened me that he'd go and kill the guy that I broke up with him. It hurt so badly. And honestly, I didn't know wtf to do.. And when I look back at it now... I realize that I still wouldn't know what to do if it all happened again... So... what are you supposed to do when you get cheated on? You don't deserve to be cheated on. You have to open up your eyes and realize that you deserve someone better |
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Mar 21 2004, 02:05 AM
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jesus freak Group: Member Posts: 378 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,748 |
QUOTE(xjjajeengx @ Mar 20 2004, 8:40 PM) go get ur guy best fend to kill him. dass wwhat i wuold do. those selfish young little bastards dont deserve more than a second chance. i mean, if they cheat on you once, that proves that they dont hold the relationship as strong as you do, and it means you desrve better. But heck, if you give him a nother chance and he cheats again, its time to take ACTION and KILL HIM!! MWAHAHAHAHAH you deserve better. not a mesed up unappreciative guy like him... so move on dear. plenty of hot, kind, sweet, and NONCHEATING guys out there. only like a few are rotten like him.Achshully... me and mai friends have this philosophy that out of the 100% of the male population, 60 of which is either gay or starting to be gay; 30% consists of those men who ARE men buh dun deserve the love and affection coz well.. they're bastards  and the 10%.. well that's pretty much the only amount of decent, worthy, selfless, hot, sexy, and loving guys.  madelein: Well.. yes, I did. And no, I'm not kidding. o.o; I guess I loved him way too much. Buh I dumped him anyway o.o;;; after the three times  just_dream and krnxswat:I aint that kinda gal.. o.o;; |
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| *CEP* |
Mar 21 2004, 02:15 AM
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You know he cheated on you because he KNEW that you'd take him back right?
( Just wondering) If a chick cheated on me, I would call her a lying skank and just move on. True I'll be hurt, but in the end she lost something more than what I did, she lost someone's trust. And worse, she lost my clique's trust too. - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Mar 21 2004, 10:45 AM
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cb=bullshit. Group: Member Posts: 1,783 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,793 |
umm 1 out of every ten people is gay, just so you know...
if a guy keeps cheating on you and you take him back three different times... do you really think he's going to just stop cheating? umm NO.... he's not apparently he doesn't care that much about you if he does it continuously and especially if he's done it three times he's going to keep doing it ... the guy just doesn't care... kthxbye |
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Mar 21 2004, 06:26 PM
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QUOTE(krnxswat @ Mar 20 2004, 7:05 AM) You're supposed to call him a bastard and move on. Agreed 
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Mar 22 2004, 12:52 AM
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jesus freak Group: Member Posts: 378 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,748 |
 Iono... guess I was stupid.. he was mai first damnit >.<chinkieeyedpnoi: That's what mai friends kept on telling meh.. buh I'm a stubborn person omg_melface: Well, that changes our perspective then. Thanks for the info 
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Apr 1 2004, 05:14 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
well u should dump the guy since he cheated on u that many times
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Apr 1 2004, 05:57 PM
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 :hammer: Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,849 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,700 |
if you honestly love him.. then i guess you should give him a second chance. but ONLY a second chance. i mean if he cheats on you for the SECOND time, FORGET THAT ! you don't need people like that in your life.. i'm sure you could do much better 8]
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| *lookitskim* |
Apr 1 2004, 06:01 PM
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QUOTE(dani41790 @ Apr 1 2004, 2:14 PM) well u should dump the guy since he cheated on u that many times It's easier said then done... I've been cheated on 3 times also with the same guy... I was weak. because of what he did.. it made me stronger. I know it sounds lame....  Just think of it as it's his LOST not YOURS. Now all u gotta do is... get all dressed up all prettyful and stuff...... get something of his so u can have an excuse to go over there... return it and just leave... he's goin to wonder... y were you all dressed up for. (only do this after you guys are broken up) Make HIM JEALOUS and make him REgret every little thing that he has done to u. hahah i dunno it worked for me.. Once a CHEAT always a CHEAT... the person is not goin to change over night. |
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Apr 1 2004, 06:14 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
welll if u are girls that got cheated on and always go bak to ur bf... think this way "i cant be weak i have to be strong i cant give it in to him that easily or he'll take advantage of the fact that im weak since im wiling to be with him even he cheated on me a couple of times" i dont know.. i hope it helps =)
also thats y u shouldnt give ur bf/gf 100% trust wen u jus begin the relationship.. trust is like a plant, takes time to grow =) |
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