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 Jan 6 2005, 10:49 PM
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well i wanted to know if it was alright if i have a bf who is older then me. im 13 and he is 16...do you think that is okay or not?
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Jan 6 2005, 10:57 PM
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 ^say hello to my eye^ Group: Member Posts: 298 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,039 |
3 years is fine...altho i dont know at 13....
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Jan 6 2005, 11:01 PM
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gigi =p Group: Member Posts: 3,679 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,206 |
Hm. Well a 3 year difference doesn't really seem much when you're 30. But when you're 13, you shouldn't be dating anyone older than you. It's how date rape/abduction/pregnancy/abuse happens.
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Jan 6 2005, 11:01 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
Woah.. Well I'm 16 and over the summer I had to babysit a 13 year old guy
and his little sister who was 9. Hmm.. Enough said ? |
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| *krnxswat* |
Jan 6 2005, 11:07 PM
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Usually when you're 13, you should be dating someone around your age. I'd call that 16 year old pretty sick for going out with you.
Have fun. |
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| *Solipsist* |
Jan 6 2005, 11:08 PM
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I'd be laughing at him if he was my friend.
- Solipsist |
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Jan 6 2005, 11:14 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
...everybody says i look older then my age...
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| *krnxswat* |
Jan 6 2005, 11:15 PM
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^
And..? |
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Jan 6 2005, 11:23 PM
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 Change Gon Come Group: Member Posts: 2,286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,822 |
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Jan 6 2005, 11:15 PM) ^ And..?  agreed. |
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Jan 6 2005, 11:39 PM
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uh i think you're a bit young. but whatever, its fine.
as long as hes trustable |
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| *stephinika* |
Jan 7 2005, 01:04 AM
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yeah that seems a bit young...but its up to you. but usually 3 years isn't too bad.
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Jan 7 2005, 01:14 AM
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Hmm. That's okay i guess. But, i preferr to date boys 'round my age. 3 years ain't that bad. (: just think 'bout it carefully.
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Jan 7 2005, 05:38 AM
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it's ok if u can handle it. as long as u think he's not taking any advantages on u.
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Jan 7 2005, 06:02 AM
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3 years isn't that bad. my bf's 16 going 17 and i'm 14 going 15
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Jan 7 2005, 08:53 AM
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try to think of it when your kids then you see how sick it it... if you;re in yr 6 you could be dating someone in yr 3...no?
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Jan 7 2005, 09:55 AM
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Sure, why not?
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Jan 7 2005, 09:58 AM
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Yeah, what does a 16 year old want with a 13 year old? Hmmm. I wonder. That's basically a high school junior dating an 8th grader. Yeah that's wrong.
Oh but wait... you look older? Well that changes everything then...  Callie |
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Jan 7 2005, 02:21 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
yeah thats fine...I'm 12 and ive gone out with a 17 year old. its really not that bad.
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Jan 7 2005, 03:23 PM
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^say hello to my eye^ Group: Member Posts: 298 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,039 |
QUOTE(sunissed14127 @ Jan 7 2005, 2:21 PM) yeah thats fine...I'm 12 and ive gone out with a 17 year old. its really not that bad. woah... |
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Jan 7 2005, 04:18 PM
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 Seien Sie bitte mein Geliebter! Group: Member Posts: 660 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,436 |
He's either a looser who can't get anyone his own age, or jerk who wants to take advantage. Don't go out with him. Surely you can find someone your own age? There just too many stories of abductions etc. involving an older guy preying on a younger girl.
If you respect yourself, don't risk it. |
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Jan 7 2005, 05:35 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
well i look older then my age like i said before...he does not know how old i am so he probally thinks im his age or something
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Jan 7 2005, 05:37 PM
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 ThePinkPanda Group: Member Posts: 760 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,168 |
Would you date a 10 year old?
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Jan 7 2005, 05:39 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
Would you date a 10 year old?
well it would depend how they look..... |
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Jan 7 2005, 05:45 PM
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i think it's alright.....as long as you are both still in high school....i'm all for dating people who you can relate w/ and is at the same point in their life as you =)
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Jan 7 2005, 06:37 PM
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how long have you been going out, that he doesn't know how old you are? eh, i don't think that 3 years is that big of a difference when you're older, but at your age, it is weird.
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Jan 7 2005, 06:49 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
weve never gone out, yet..
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Jan 7 2005, 10:01 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
does anybody else wanna give there oppinion lol?
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Jan 9 2005, 12:50 AM
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umm. for a 13 year old, you should be going out with ppl your age or a year older
its okay, however, to marry people older htan you by 2-4+ years |
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Jan 9 2005, 04:50 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
O_o thats kinda not right if you're only 13. i suggest u dont. and that comment u made about dating a 10 year old... ewwwwwwwl
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Jan 9 2005, 11:02 AM
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 easily amused. Group: Member Posts: 189 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,094 |
QUOTE(Solipsist @ Jan 6 2005, 11:08 PM) I'd be laughing at him if he was my friend. - Solipsist Ditto. |
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Jan 9 2005, 11:43 AM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
QUOTE Hm. Well a 3 year difference doesn't really seem much when you're 30. But when you're 13, you shouldn't be dating anyone older than you. It's how date rape/abduction/pregnancy/abuse happens. agreed. |
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Jan 9 2005, 12:07 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 524 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,003 |
Try to keep it within the same school. Like wait until you are in high school with him, or else it just gets complicated.
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Jan 9 2005, 07:52 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
QUOTE ...everybody says i look older then my age... then it just proves that he is going out with you because he just want a lil somethin somethin.. QUOTE Would you date a 10 year old? well it would depend how they look..... haha u seem shallow |
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Jan 9 2005, 07:56 PM
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Personally, i think 13 is way too young...especially to be dating a 16 year old guy. Though 3 years may not seem like a lot, in teen years it's a whole lot of maturity differences. To play it safe, don't go for it.
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Jan 9 2005, 08:10 PM
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 free hugs Group: Member Posts: 188 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,202 |
i know 17 year olds that go out wit 12 year olds. i guess it can work, if the guy is a complete moron and on ur level. but u should try and go out wit someone closer 2 ur age
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