person u love or da person u like?..., errrrr.. Options

[dorkifiedxpunk]

hello... i need help. weel ok. i have an ex-boyfriend who i still love. and dere`s dis other guy in my skool who i like alot. both of dem r acting different to me dese days. i dunno y. my ex is nicer nicer nicer to me. n i now go to skool with him every morning since yesterday [monday]. dis morning he waited for me until i get on my bus infront of his skool. i dont really wanna tink that there's a reason y he's doing all dis. so... anyway da other guy ..that i like . ok 411: he's really good looking. every1 in my skool likes him! weel he talks to me n we're friends. one time he jus started asking me about hu i tink the hottest guy in skool or da guy i like dat im talking about in my xanga. he kept bothering me!! i mean he wuldnt stop!!! until da nxt day.. he still didnt stop. he even blackmailed me!.. so yeh. does dat mean he likes me or wut?.. n he sed he will not stop asking until i tell him hu it is....my friends tell me he does like me.. but i can never imagine him liking me. oh yeh. n i asked him if he likes any1 he said no. so?? dat means he doesnt.....rite??.. so yeh. both of dem r really nice to me. n im happy... but i noe its rong. coz i cant have both of dem. .... i hab to pick one.. i hab to focus on ONE ONLY...

[pikimoo]

Um.. it doesn't sound like you love either of them...

But.. go with what your heart says, no?

[MrElsewhere]

if you love your ex, then why aren't you with him? if you guys both loved each other(mature love) then you would find some way to make it work. But this 'hot guy' seems nice. and it does seem like he likes you. so tell him you like him. it's not biggy. you have two guys liking you, what girl wouldn't be happy?

[*krnxswat*]

I THINK YOU SHOULD GO STUDY.

[dorkifiedxpunk]

if you love your ex, then why aren't you with him? if you guys both loved each other(mature love) then you would find some way to make it work. But this 'hot guy' seems nice. and it does seem like he likes you. so tell him you like him. it's not biggy. you have two guys liking you, what girl wouldn't be happy?

i do love my ex. im not with him coz tings didnt work out. our relationship is like a lightswitch. its on n off. if we get back together again. this is gonna be the 3rd time. if i had to choose. i wuld probably go wit my ex. but im not sure. and dis hot guy is really nice but i jus cant imagine me n him like dat. can u imagine walking in da hallway holding hands with him n every1 is staring at u n hating u. n its impossible. i wuld definitely be happy if both of dem likes me. but dats da least thing i wuld wanna happen. den it'll be more complicated.

[lilJdawg]

I think you should move on with your lifes & go learn how to spell.

[espionage]

was the "lifes" on purpose? >_<

and yeah, go study. =]

[bad_girl]

tell that new guy u like him. get over mr.exe.

edit.// but if u really love ur exe and only LIKE the new dude. then pick the one u love. (like duh)

i do love my ex. im not with him coz tings didnt work out. our relationship is like a lightswitch. its on n off. if we get back together again. this is gonna be the 3rd time. if i had to choose. i wuld probably go wit my ex. but im not sure. and dis hot guy is really nice but i jus cant imagine me n him like dat. can u imagine walking in da hallway holding hands with him n every1 is staring at u n hating u. n its impossible. i wuld definitely be happy if both of dem likes me. but dats da least thing i wuld wanna happen. den it'll be more complicated.

u sed it yourself. u want ur exe, see? so leave the poor new guy alone becos even if u went out, u would feel guilt and u just cant imagine u both together now, can u?

[_sarcastic_]

i do love my ex. im not with him coz tings didnt work out. our relationship is like a lightswitch. its on n off. if we get back together again. this is gonna be the 3rd time. if i had to choose. i wuld probably go wit my ex. but im not sure. and dis hot guy is really nice but i jus cant imagine me n him like dat. can u imagine walking in da hallway holding hands with him n every1 is staring at u n hating u. n its impossible.i wuld definitely be happy if both of dem likes me. but dats da least thing i wuld wanna happen. den it'll be more complicated.

you sound like you prefer your ex. and you look like you only like that guy cause the rest of the school likes him and you just want to get together so that you can make them jealous.

i'd say like everyone else, move on and and go study

[dorkifiedxpunk]

no. i do not like him cause i only wanna go out wit him coz he's popular or whatever and i want every1 to be jealous. him being popular and every1 liking him is bad. and i dont want dat at all. that's da problem with him.

[callie828]

So he's good looking and really nice but everyone else likes him so you can't date him? Right. That's a fantaaaaastic reason for not dating someone. /sarcasm "I don't want to hurt you, but this just isn't going to work. You're just... too well liked." wtf? Hey I know. Why don't you stop caring about who will h.ate you or stare at you or what everyone else thinks and just do what you want? Hell, date them both. That's what I'd do. Who says you have to choose?

Or you could just go study. Perhaps if your biggest life problem is that two different people are nice to you and you're not sure how to handle it, then I'd say focusing on schoolwork is the best route for you. *cough*


Callie

[xquizit]

I THINK YOU SHOULD GO STUDY.

Haha, i concur.

[Shattered_Hope]

I THINK YOU SHOULD GO STUDY.

I agree. ....

[inthemudhole]

-______________-
"Hab"
What's with "hab" meaning "have"?
Do you have a cold, or something?
At least type so it's somewhat similar to the actual word.
But you know what would be even better?
IF YOU JUST TYPED NORMALLY.

T_T

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Kay. So I agree with someone up there that said it seems like you don't love any of them very much..

[giggl3s]

i kinda feel that you're not really in love if you have room to "like" someone else, know what i mean? but I'm not you so do what you think is right

[lyin_in_wait]

wow that was kinda hard to read...anywho just becareful because maybe your ex feels bad about the whole breakin up thing, and maybe the other guy is just really friendly but just ask him and who knows maybe the other guy likes you back...but i would go with my heart

[lulu424]

[expoised]

I THINK YOU SHOULD GO STUDY.

mmhmm. i think you're right.

i think they're both using you to get to each other. ditch both of them and let them get together.

[pinayprincess]

'follow your heart' haha thats all i can say lol

[Chii]

don't choose either of them, people are you ex's for a reason, i think he's trying to get your attention and whatnot because he knows you like that other guy...

[MrElsewhere]

i do love my ex. im not with him coz tings didnt work out. our relationship is like a lightswitch. its on n off. if we get back together again. this is gonna be the 3rd time. if i had to choose. i wuld probably go wit my ex. but im not sure. and dis hot guy is really nice but i jus cant imagine me n him like dat. can u imagine walking in da hallway holding hands with him n every1 is staring at u n hating u. n its impossible. i wuld definitely be happy if both of dem likes me. but dats da least thing i wuld wanna happen. den it'll be more complicated.

go with the more dependable one, the new guy. your ex does not have the best track record.

[KissMe2408]

THere's not a commandment that says you have to choose either of them....I think that you should focus on NO boys for a while. Pardon me on sounding like a mother, but i think you are making this a bigger deal then it has to be. Next time this "hott' guy asks who you like, then tell him the truth. You do like him. But i don't understand why you would even care what this guy is thinking if you "love" your ex boyfriend. lol, it sounds like a big ol complicated mess to me, and i think you should just chill and say no to both guys

[ArChAn9eL]

kinda in same situation except with opposite sex (duh) well i chose other's opinions and study. i cant choose so i choose neither....till college!!