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Jayembe
post Jan 3 2005, 09:32 PM
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I like a guy and he's almost 17 in march and, im 13 we are very alike and i talk to him alot and he's cool and hott. dribble.gif He thinks i'm cool and its weird cus sumtimes i feel like he's way too much like me and, we might clash but it never happens. I don't really know if he has feelings towards me the way i do for him. I'm afraid that if i tell him he might think i'm kinda weird but then i dunno. Is there a way i can ask him or find out without him not knowing or having suspision that i do. And do you think he might think i'm too young or him?
 
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Angel_Cece
post Jan 3 2005, 09:33 PM
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hmm.. well i guess its not that bad.. eww its like me dating my brother pinch.gif totaly grossed out now. anyway yeah just control it i guess.. dont let him abuse u, be careful
 
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post Jan 3 2005, 09:38 PM
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have someone else ask him who he's interested in?
 
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post Jan 3 2005, 09:41 PM
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post Jan 3 2005, 09:42 PM
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umm...
older guys at that age...
no-no.
 
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post Jan 3 2005, 09:43 PM
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Age isn't really the issue in a relationship unless it's like 10 or 15 years apart. So go ahead and tell him how you feel, you might never know what might happen. Just becareful, he's 17 and you're only 13 _smile.gif

anyways i'm 14 my bf's 16 going 17
 
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post Jan 3 2005, 09:44 PM
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Well, age isn't a big deal when you're older.
But, at 13 liking a 17 year old.. eh..
 
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post Jan 3 2005, 09:46 PM
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I'm 14. My boyfriend is 17. We don't think it's weird.

But.. I am turning 15 in a few days.
 
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post Jan 3 2005, 09:49 PM
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Umm Sorry but that isn't good. I think you might want to reconsider it... in a year he'll be legal and might not be interested in you.
 
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post Jan 3 2005, 10:17 PM
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right. i like an 18 year old im 14. he likes me i like him, i duno. we never see each other though so we decided to wait..
talk to him i duno
 
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post Jan 3 2005, 10:20 PM
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umm i guess it can happen..it will be awkward when he turns 18 though and ur still..barely in hs and all..but i guess anything can happen. I always just go for a guy thts 2 yrs older then me tops..(which is 15-16 or 15-17)
 
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post Jan 3 2005, 10:21 PM
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QUOTE(emptyminded @ Jan 3 2005, 9:49 PM)
Umm  Sorry but that isn't good.  I think you might want to reconsider it...  in a year he'll be legal and might not be interested in you.
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I agree. There's not much to say about it. If any of my guy friends ( who are also 17 ) were to date a 13 year old.. I would just be like *cough*gross*cough*.

No offense. mellow.gif
 
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post Jan 3 2005, 10:34 PM
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Not all guys are like how many of you are thinking this one is. Honestly, just go for it. You only live once, right. And...four years isn't that bad. If you're mature enough to handle it, then go right ahead.
 
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post Jan 3 2005, 10:34 PM
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mmhmm...i think it wouldnt be good...i mean, 4 years and how long is this going to last. and it wouldnt be good if he decided to take advantage of you either...
 
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post Jan 3 2005, 11:15 PM
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yes go for it...mai friend and i were tlking about this this morning..this 15 yr old grl is pregnate with this 22 yr old..ugh..and it is legal rite?? 4 years apart..think lindsay and wilmer..she had to wait when she was 18 to prove that she was dating wilmer and hes 24..but hey that may just be for 18 yr olds..i duno but go for it..it could happen..it could not and if it doesnt im sorry.. console.gif ..but GOOD LUCK!! biggrin.gif
 
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post Jan 3 2005, 11:24 PM
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QUOTE(aznangel4lyfe357 @ Jan 3 2005, 11:15 PM)
yes go for it...mai friend and i were tlking about this this morning..this 15 yr old grl is pregnate with this 22 yr old..ugh..and it is legal rite??
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Are you serious...
Pshh that is not legal.
 
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post Jan 3 2005, 11:29 PM
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QUOTE(aznangel4lyfe357 @ Jan 3 2005, 11:15 PM)
yes go for it...mai friend and i were tlking about this this morning..this 15 yr old grl is pregnate with this 22 yr old..ugh..and it is legal rite??


well yah..THAT'S actually not legal..cuz he's over 18 and she's only 15..she's still a minor and yah..having sex with a minor (if you're 18 and older) is illegal..eh

but yah..onto the topic..i would say go for it..that's not a huge age difference..i'm 15 and my bf is 17..age really shouldn't matter unless it's crazy (i.e. 15 years older or so)
 
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post Jan 3 2005, 11:33 PM
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Wow, i think that's kinda' old for you. Anyways, ask a friend to ask him how he's feeling towards you. _smile.gif
 
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post Jan 3 2005, 11:33 PM
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a lot of the times it wont work out well... and if where you live is like where I love he can go to jail when he reaches 18.
 
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post Jan 4 2005, 12:08 AM
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eh, i mean it's not that bad of an age difference, but he might just look at you like his younger sister...so i mean u gotta be careful on what you say. YOu can just simply straight out ask him, or get one of your friends to ask him
 
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post Jan 4 2005, 12:35 AM
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QUOTE(Jayembe @ Jan 3 2005, 9:32 PM)
I like a guy and he's almost 17 in march
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I turn 17 in March! laugh.gif
 
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post Jan 4 2005, 12:57 AM
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heh. I like an 16-17 year old too.
 
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post Jan 4 2005, 02:23 AM
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13 and a 17? uhh 4 years =/ wut if u get raped? mb u should get to noe him like alot and den u get older and den if u RILLY trust him den date him and say ur feelings to him
 
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post Jan 4 2005, 03:28 AM
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ehh are you sure he's the right guy for you? How long have you know him? mellow.gif huh.gif
 
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post Jan 4 2005, 03:31 AM
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Don't worry about it.
It all depends on how mature you are though for him to have an interest in you.
I'm 13 and the guy I like is 17 also.
But whatever.
 
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post Jan 4 2005, 03:38 AM
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post Jan 4 2005, 06:26 AM
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well i personally dont know that guy so i dont know what to say for you but i think he might say that youre a little too young.
 
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post Jan 4 2005, 04:27 PM
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QUOTE(Angel_Cece @ Jan 3 2005, 9:33 PM)
hmm.. well i guess its not that bad.. eww its like me dating my brother pinch.gif  totaly grossed out now. anyway yeah just control it i guess.. dont let him abuse u, be careful
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no its not like dating your brother. Don't give her that image, she really likes this guy and unless you have some liking for your brother then...

Well anyway, my boyfriend is 16 and is going to be 17 march 1st. I am only 14 and I'm going to be 15 on May 29th. Its not that bad because we are in the same school. I would wait until you are both in high school to give the relationship a go.
 
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post Jan 4 2005, 05:16 PM
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QUOTE(aznangel4lyfe357 @ Jan 3 2005, 11:15 PM)
mai friend and i were tlking about this this morning..this 15 yr old grl is pregnate with this 22 yr old..ugh..and it is legal rite??
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i didnt mean that the 22 and 15 yr old legal..i mean the 13 yr old wit the 17 yr old legal..gah..well then sry for da mix up.. stubborn.gif
 
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post Jan 4 2005, 10:35 PM
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hmmz ... at that age ... even though your not TAHT young considerin im only 14 t.t but i dont think its a dating situation .. more like a crush .. like a brotherly kind of person? i remember i used to crush on people older than me .. but they were just like a brother to me <3
 
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post Jan 5 2005, 04:55 AM
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when i was 10-11 i used to like a guy who was 15-16. now he's dating someone now, i think pinch.gif. lol anywayyy, age is not really a problem, is it?

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Age isn't really the issue in a relationship unless it's like 10 or 15 years apart.

umm.. no. ever heard of this 82 year old who recently married a 28?
 
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post Jan 5 2005, 05:22 AM
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be4 i start reply, how old is every1 on dis site? under 20???
 
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post Jan 5 2005, 06:59 AM
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ys im 13
 
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QUOTE(Kathleen @ Jan 3 2005, 10:34 PM)
Not all guys are like how many of you are thinking this one is. Honestly, just go for it. You only live once, right. And...four years isn't that bad. If you're mature enough to handle it, then go right ahead.
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I agree. If you think that you are ready and you really want to know if he feels the same, then why not? Whatever happens you both still might be close friends.
 
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post Jan 5 2005, 02:31 PM
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QUOTE(jr0h @ Jan 4 2005, 3:26 AM)
well i personally dont know that guy so i dont know what to say for you but i think he might say that youre a little too young.
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_dry.gif no she's not too young. It's not like she's dating a 27 year old guy lOL.
 
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post Jan 5 2005, 04:44 PM
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well dont lie about your age thats a big one. uhm a four year difference may not mean much but then again im kinda iffy about four years so yea its like r kelly plus he'll be legal and you wont....plus try explaining this to your parents pinch.gif
 
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post Jan 5 2005, 04:54 PM
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high school senior liking an eighth grader.. i'm sorry, but i highly doubt that he has any romantic feelings for you. i mean, maybe he thinks you're cool.. like a little sister or a best friend. but from my experience, a senior would NOT want to be caught liking or dating a junior high student.
 
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post Jan 6 2005, 06:07 PM
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i am 13 and the boy i like IS 17. yes, idk either. he goes to my church. soo i'm guessing, if you know the guy really well and can actually trust him (not raping you,abusing you, etc) then go for it. also, age difference matters sometimes. osmeones the older one thinsk differently when it comes to relationships.

yeah i think you should just talk to the guy about it or if you feel like its embaressing or something then umm.. yeah ask a friend lol.
 
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