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post Jan 1 2005, 09:37 PM
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hmm what do you look in "fatboys/men"?? would you ever go out wit one?? this isnt an insult.. just something my friends are talking about in a chat right now..
 
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post Jan 1 2005, 09:39 PM
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maybe...the personality matters. i mean...once u get out of school, you wouldn't care really what people think. people usually dont go out with 'fat people' cause they're afraid what their friends would say, or how your rept would really screw up...but once your ready to get married and what not, you wouldn't really care about their apperence. PeRoNaLiTy is all that matters.
 
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post Jan 1 2005, 10:23 PM
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Ew of course not! I'm shallow!
 
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post Jan 1 2005, 10:24 PM
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not fat boi/men but chubby. I looooove chubby azn guys...its my fetish XD. I went out with one chubby like guy. loved it. I will do it again in a second
 
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post Jan 1 2005, 10:39 PM
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i never dated one & i won't be.
 
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post Jan 1 2005, 11:05 PM
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I guess it matters on their personality, but i mean i would like to be attracted to them outwards too....you can't just go for a guy if ur not attracted to them outwardly...lol i dated too many guys that i thought had a great personality, but i had no attraction torwards them. It always ends bad
 
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post Jan 1 2005, 11:06 PM
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i prefer men with good bodies....i've never dated a chubby/obese guy so i can't really judge..
 
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post Jan 1 2005, 11:07 PM
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im going to tell the truth.

i would never date a big person.

maybe chubby

but i want to have a physical attraction to him.
 
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post Jan 1 2005, 11:13 PM
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i have and i swear no one stops making fun of you or like they dont believe it. "omg are you really going out with >>name<<???" like that. it makes you feel really bad for your boyfriend. it sucked.
 
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post Jan 1 2005, 11:18 PM
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well, i have dated a fat guy before. he was sweet. he's alright. he still likes me and stuff. and one of the reasons i broke it off with him was because of that. pinch.gif which was wrong of me. but yeah... but, unless i really like a guy, i probably won't date him if he's over weight.
 
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post Jan 1 2005, 11:43 PM
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But if I did, and got married with one, it wouldn't be pleasent having sex.
 
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post Jan 1 2005, 11:48 PM
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Sure...personality is what matters unless he was a guy that was really big becuz he didnt take care of himself.
 
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post Jan 1 2005, 11:54 PM
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like him...

http://www.funpic.hu/swf/numanuma.html ?


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post Jan 1 2005, 11:56 PM
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Weight isn't an issue in a relationship for me.
 
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post Jan 2 2005, 11:25 AM
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depends how fat youre talking.

but yeah i juts dont feel so confident being with a fat dude
 
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post Jan 3 2005, 01:46 AM
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hahha ...hmm CHUBBY is cute ..but FAT ??
 
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post Jan 3 2005, 02:33 AM
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wut is your borderline betw fat and chubby??
 
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post Jan 3 2005, 06:29 AM
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i probably won't date a fat guy, maybe a chubby one
 
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post Jan 3 2005, 07:01 AM
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eww. dis fat arse at skool.. weighs 170. and he's 12. fatt all over... today, he turned yellow. 'cawse he was in da sun. but yeah, fat and yellow. ewwie!!
 
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post Jan 3 2005, 11:45 AM
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Oh come on ladies....fat people need lovin too geez cool.gif laugh.gif
 
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post Jan 3 2005, 11:51 AM
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wow..i didnt know there were that many SHALLOW people in cB comeone, personality people.
 
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post Jan 3 2005, 12:57 PM
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now i see why ppl wont go out w/ me...and I'm only a lil bit chubby!..if the girls are this bad, just imagine how bad the guys are....
 
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post Jan 3 2005, 02:20 PM
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QUOTE
maybe...the personality matters. i mean...once u get out of school, you wouldn't care really what people think. people usually dont go out with 'fat people' cause they're afraid what their friends would say, or how your rept would really screw up...but once your ready to get married and what not, you wouldn't really care about their apperence. PeRoNaLiTy is all that matters.


I agree with this.
 
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post Jan 3 2005, 09:58 PM
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Uh.. slighty meater guys yeah but that happens by accident. IDK why though. Broad shoulders... hmmm.
 
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post Jan 4 2005, 01:17 AM
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umm not really. it actually depends on their personality actually.
 
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post Jan 4 2005, 01:30 AM
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umm actually chubby guys are ok..I definitley have to be attracted to their personality if they were..but honestly I am quite shallow and tend to need to have a lot of attraction to their outer appearance! wahh sorrie~ pinch.gif
 
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post Jan 4 2005, 02:18 AM
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umm i would like da guy to b medium but chubby is okai? jus dun want him to be like fat and nasty like 500 pounds lol
 
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post Jan 4 2005, 03:33 AM
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It depends on their personalities. If he's not that FAT -- it's okay. Like size as Jay Z's body guy is okay. heh
 
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post Jan 4 2005, 10:25 PM
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i once dated a fat guy because he had a great personality but when it came with his grubby hand touching me and his flabby belly against me.....i just wasn't comfortable with that. So i told him i don't like you the way you like me and on.

well...i know im shallow.
 
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post Jan 4 2005, 10:27 PM
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i think personality is more important .. but also i agree with other ladies that we should also have an attraction of their physical apperances as well <3
 
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post Jan 4 2005, 10:29 PM
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hmm..i realli dunno...i like guys who have the personality and the looks but i noe none of them exist today...
 
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post Jan 5 2005, 12:09 AM
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QUOTE(bad_girl @ Jan 3 2005, 7:01 AM)
eww. dis fat arse at skool.. weighs 170. and he's 12. fatt all over... today, he turned yellow. 'cawse he was in da sun. but yeah, fat and yellow. ewwie!!
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ROFLLL...hahaha...sorry, I just found that funny.

I know it's wrong of me, but I'll probably never date a fat person...chubby is okay with me, but like most of you guys, I'd rather date someone who's more physically attractive...
 
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post Jan 5 2005, 05:28 AM
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it doesnt matter, if the boy/men were fat maybe 300lb and he RICH, girl will want him for the ??? yes money
 
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post Jan 5 2005, 05:32 PM
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depends on the dude & how he acts...a lot of fat dudes act sooo retarded
 
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i dont like really skinny lanky guys, but most of the time they can be hekkkkka fine too. i usually find myself more attracted to buff/chubby guys with dark hair and bold features....and scars. i love scares. theyre my fetish in boys. and booty.and eyes.

yeahh i`d go with a buff/chubby guy but usually there also has to be a physical besides mental attraction for me.... sometimes ``fat`` boys are cute tho. but usually not.
 
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post Mar 5 2005, 12:09 PM
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it's all about what he's like inside, if people don't understand that and just think he's fat, screw them.
 
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post Mar 5 2005, 01:50 PM
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QUOTE(i_liek_sushi @ Jan 1 2005, 6:54 PM)
like him...

http://www.funpic.hu/swf/numanuma.html ?
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lol...i guess their personality and then apperence...like i wouldnt want to go out with someone hus like really big...
 
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post Mar 5 2005, 02:08 PM
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personality comes first.
 
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post Mar 5 2005, 03:39 PM
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as others said, their personality is what matters the most.
if i really liked the guy and even fell in love with him, then of course i wouldn't care what others say.
you shouldn't let other people judge your relationship with a guy; skinny or fat.

but... we are all shallow inside.
 
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i wouldnt mind...but if they are like pigs stuffing themsleves i would
 
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post Mar 5 2005, 06:04 PM
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personality is more important but if the guy was really like -____________- then it would def. be a turn off
 
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post Apr 16 2005, 03:23 AM
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QUOTE(cmgchica717 @ Jan 3 2005, 11:45 AM)
Oh come on ladies....fat people need lovin too geez  cool.gif  laugh.gif
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I totally agree, my bf is, well, I don't want to say fat, but he's carrying extra baggage, I personally think they can be better for relationships because they don't expect too much from you, and my bf has the biggest heart, yeah I didn't want to date him cuz of his waist size, but when I really got to know him, I feel in love with him, and I don't care about that anymore.

Most of the time I notice a guy can be so unattractive physically, but when you get to really know that person, they physical appearence becomes enhanced, I dunno if thats the right word but you get what I mean
 
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their personality is the most important part.
but if there are two choices,
i'll prefer a fit men/boy.
 
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post Apr 16 2005, 10:00 AM
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personality matters, but looks matter as well. buff guys are fine, but not fat as in huge-fat.
 
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i actually have a little bit of a crush on one of my friends at school.

and he's sorta chubbby. i more or less find my PHYSICAL attraction in a person on the persons face.

but the REAL attraction, the the real LOVE i find in their heart. wub.gif
 
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i`m sorry, but i like them muscular boys. no six pack = no love. tongue.gif
 
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post Apr 16 2005, 01:00 PM
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i_liek_sushi-- lmao, that was the funniest thing I've seen all day x]

gawsh..

Hmm, I don't want to lie. I'm honestly not into the whole concept of dating a slightly heavier guy... But since I've never dated one, I'll shut up ^____^
 
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post Apr 16 2005, 07:00 PM
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Erm, if i was honest i would prolly say no. ermm.gif I dun really know. Cuz i like this guy rite now and hes really sweet and nice and alla that. Like personality-wise he's awesome but then im not relaly physically attracted to him cuz hes kinda obese. sad.gif It makes me feel bad that im that shallow sometimes but at the same time i wouldnt feel confident going out with him wacko.gif
 
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lol
 
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i'm not really sure because i never dated one. i prefer guys that are fit and in shape only because sports are like my life..

although, it's what is inside that counts! wink.gif
 
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if i really got to know them and liked them, then why not? they're comfy to lay on. tongue.gif
 
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QUOTE(Kathleen @ Jan 1 2005, 7:23 PM)
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ya, well, I gotta admit I'm kinda shallow but I mean if I was budgy I woudlnt' mind goign out with soemone budgy...I donno...I'm really thin so I mean obviusly I'd PREFER someone who was thin too but I mean personaility matters the msot so I really dont' care _smile.gif as long as they eat healthy and get excercise, their weight doens't matter biggrin.gif
 
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nah.... i wont go out wiv fat guys... i juz dun like fat guys
 
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[FONT=Geneva][SIZE=7][COLOR=blue][I] Thick guys are whats up, i mean it doesn't really matter on size or shape as long as yall both like eachother its all good. Personally I don't understand the skinny guy, what do you got to wrap your arms around, just some skin and bones. When you give ya man a back massage you wanna feel his back not his bones but its whateva ya preference is. But guys who got that body thats not too muscular and not too flabby...yeah it just gets ya cry.gif biggrin.gif
 
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how FAT are you talking? like i don't care if hes a bit chubby or a little overweight (especially if he plays football i can make an exception) but its all on personality too. but it has to be a good one or i just cant over his looks. (yes maybe im superficial but aren't we all?) i mean even if he has a great personality and is like 800 pounds im not gonna go out with him. i just can't. simple as that

but we can be friends =)
 
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I would probably go out with him, but I don't think I could really marry someone extremely fat. It isn't healthy, so I would probably ask him to at least try and lose weight.

But one of my best guy friends weighs over 500 pounds, and he's awesome.
 
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I would date a chubby person but not a fat person lol
 
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if i really loved the guy..i wouldnt mind what he looks like..i mean yeah..if he was chubby enough to the point where he was unhealthy, i'd probably be like..um..babe..lets go work out..or something..but other than that..it wouldnt really effect me all that much..i mean..my guy right now aint the skinniest thing in the world, but i love him for his personality and we've been going out for 5 years in may happy.gif so excited!!
 
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yeah i think that if ur really in love with a guy its hard to get past that, but my type of guys are athletic and in-shape
 
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Yeah, definitely. And I have before. Several times. It made no difference to me. Everyone's different, so what if they're big? I go for the personality, myself.

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Well, from someone like me, it's a different situation. I think I'm bisexual. Or at least I think I am. Here's how it works:

Men for physical attraction
Women for mental stability

What gets me is if it is possible to have a relationship, purely of emotion, devoid of all physical tension. Sounds interesting to me.

Just a thought.
 
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hmmm daz kinda like asking a guy if he would go out with a fat girl/lady...i would say....they would have to have a really good personality....because first of all usually da looks are wat attracts a person..then when u talk to them u get to know thier personality...but in this case ....u just go straight to personality....so..they must be very convinceing..
 
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QUOTE(Kathleen @ Jan 1 2005, 7:23 PM)
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well my type is the scrawny and just a little chubby type, but the guy i'm with now is, well, you could say, fat. hes like a big teddy brea though, and although at first i thought he really wasnt attractive i found for some reason i was really physically attracted to him. you really never know, and if he has a good presonality you should give him a chance
 
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GAAAH!!! Now I know why no one likes me. sad.gif I'm chubby! Everyone hates chubby people!
 
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Depends on the guy. I've like this guy once who happened to be "big."
 
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depends on personality and all that. i dont always judge on appearance.
 

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