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hmm what do you look in "fatboys/men"?? would you ever go out wit one?? this isnt an insult.. just something my friends are talking about in a chat right now..
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![]() >>LILY<< ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 276 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,632 ![]() |
maybe...the personality matters. i mean...once u get out of school, you wouldn't care really what people think. people usually dont go out with 'fat people' cause they're afraid what their friends would say, or how your rept would really screw up...but once your ready to get married and what not, you wouldn't really care about their apperence. PeRoNaLiTy is all that matters.
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Ew of course not! I'm shallow!
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![]() Blasian, Asian, INVASION! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 ![]() |
not fat boi/men but chubby. I looooove chubby azn guys...its my fetish XD. I went out with one chubby like guy. loved it. I will do it again in a second
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#5
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i never dated one & i won't be.
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![]() Yawn ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 ![]() |
I guess it matters on their personality, but i mean i would like to be attracted to them outwards too....you can't just go for a guy if ur not attracted to them outwardly...lol i dated too many guys that i thought had a great personality, but i had no attraction torwards them. It always ends bad
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#7
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 ![]() |
i prefer men with good bodies....i've never dated a chubby/obese guy so i can't really judge..
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#8
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![]() Somethin' bout the way you shine... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 577 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,223 ![]() |
im going to tell the truth.
i would never date a big person. maybe chubby but i want to have a physical attraction to him. |
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#9
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![]() wake me up when september ends ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 281 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,381 ![]() |
i have and i swear no one stops making fun of you or like they dont believe it. "omg are you really going out with >>name<<???" like that. it makes you feel really bad for your boyfriend. it sucked.
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#10
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![]() Live Your Own Party ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,261 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,489 ![]() |
well, i have dated a fat guy before. he was sweet. he's alright. he still likes me and stuff. and one of the reasons i broke it off with him was because of that.
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![]() define our lives for us. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 ![]() |
But if I did, and got married with one, it wouldn't be pleasent having sex.
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![]() Turn your lights down low... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,472 ![]() |
Sure...personality is what matters unless he was a guy that was really big becuz he didnt take care of himself.
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![]() ťťťťťťťťťťť ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 557 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,261 ![]() |
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#14
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Brie ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 ![]() |
Weight isn't an issue in a relationship for me.
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![]() Oh you'd be surprised ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,406 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,886 ![]() |
depends how fat youre talking.
but yeah i juts dont feel so confident being with a fat dude |
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#16
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hahha ...hmm CHUBBY is cute ..but FAT ??
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![]() 白人看不懂 !!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,838 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,824 ![]() |
wut is your borderline betw fat and chubby??
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![]() <3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 ![]() |
i probably won't date a fat guy, maybe a chubby one
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![]() Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 ![]() |
eww. dis fat arse at skool.. weighs 170. and he's 12. fatt all over... today, he turned yellow. 'cawse he was in da sun. but yeah, fat and yellow. ewwie!!
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#20
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![]() [*]i AM your star!![*] ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,520 ![]() |
Oh come on ladies....fat people need lovin too geez
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![]() love sucks...big time jessir.. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 661 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,644 ![]() |
wow..i didnt know there were that many SHALLOW people in cB comeone, personality people.
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I love you <33333 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 ![]() |
now i see why ppl wont go out w/ me...and I'm only a lil bit chubby!..if the girls are this bad, just imagine how bad the guys are....
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![]() ...and this is me.. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 ![]() |
QUOTE maybe...the personality matters. i mean...once u get out of school, you wouldn't care really what people think. people usually dont go out with 'fat people' cause they're afraid what their friends would say, or how your rept would really screw up...but once your ready to get married and what not, you wouldn't really care about their apperence. PeRoNaLiTy is all that matters. I agree with this. |
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![]() Afflicted: Hurt. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 443 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,295 ![]() |
Uh.. slighty meater guys yeah but that happens by accident. IDK why though. Broad shoulders... hmmm.
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![]() Hi! I'm Dani :) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 ![]() |
umm not really. it actually depends on their personality actually.
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![]() wishing for SIMPLE LOVE with Jay ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 708 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,601 ![]() |
umm actually chubby guys are ok..I definitley have to be attracted to their personality if they were..but honestly I am quite shallow and tend to need to have a lot of attraction to their outer appearance! wahh sorrie~
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![]() LiLaZnGurL ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 969 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,072 ![]() |
umm i would like da guy to b medium but chubby is okai? jus dun want him to be like fat and nasty like 500 pounds lol
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![]() i'm susan ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 ![]() |
It depends on their personalities. If he's not that FAT -- it's okay. Like size as Jay Z's body guy is okay. heh
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#29
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![]() me, myself & i ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 114 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,103 ![]() |
i once dated a fat guy because he had a great personality but when it came with his grubby hand touching me and his flabby belly against me.....i just wasn't comfortable with that. So i told him i don't like you the way you like me and on.
well...i know im shallow. |
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leenie <3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 318 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,816 ![]() |
i think personality is more important .. but also i agree with other ladies that we should also have an attraction of their physical apperances as well <3
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![]() Imperfect... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,064 ![]() |
hmm..i realli dunno...i like guys who have the personality and the looks but i noe none of them exist today...
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 893 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,217 ![]() |
QUOTE(bad_girl @ Jan 3 2005, 7:01 AM) eww. dis fat arse at skool.. weighs 170. and he's 12. fatt all over... today, he turned yellow. 'cawse he was in da sun. but yeah, fat and yellow. ewwie!! ROFLLL...hahaha...sorry, I just found that funny. I know it's wrong of me, but I'll probably never date a fat person...chubby is okay with me, but like most of you guys, I'd rather date someone who's more physically attractive... |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 199 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 79,534 ![]() |
it doesnt matter, if the boy/men were fat maybe 300lb and he RICH, girl will want him for the ??? yes money
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#34
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![]() RiKACHANtEL ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 ![]() |
depends on the dude & how he acts...a lot of fat dudes act sooo retarded
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![]() Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 ![]() |
i dont like really skinny lanky guys, but most of the time they can be hekkkkka fine too. i usually find myself more attracted to buff/chubby guys with dark hair and bold features....and scars. i love scares. theyre my fetish in boys. and booty.and eyes.
yeahh i`d go with a buff/chubby guy but usually there also has to be a physical besides mental attraction for me.... sometimes ``fat`` boys are cute tho. but usually not. |
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![]() 1000 Words..Have Never Been Spoken ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,204 ![]() |
it's all about what he's like inside, if people don't understand that and just think he's fat, screw them.
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![]() I'll never be who I was again.. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 ![]() |
QUOTE(i_liek_sushi @ Jan 1 2005, 6:54 PM) lol...i guess their personality and then apperence...like i wouldnt want to go out with someone hus like really big... |
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#38
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![]() insanitys contagious. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 ![]() |
personality comes first.
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![]() Ah, mon Dieu ! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 ![]() |
as others said, their personality is what matters the most.
if i really liked the guy and even fell in love with him, then of course i wouldn't care what others say. you shouldn't let other people judge your relationship with a guy; skinny or fat. but... we are all shallow inside. |
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![]() Hello There. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 ![]() |
i wouldnt mind...but if they are like pigs stuffing themsleves i would
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#41
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![]() 07 isz coming ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 333 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,490 ![]() |
personality is more important but if the guy was really like -____________- then it would def. be a turn off
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QUOTE(cmgchica717 @ Jan 3 2005, 11:45 AM) I totally agree, my bf is, well, I don't want to say fat, but he's carrying extra baggage, I personally think they can be better for relationships because they don't expect too much from you, and my bf has the biggest heart, yeah I didn't want to date him cuz of his waist size, but when I really got to know him, I feel in love with him, and I don't care about that anymore. Most of the time I notice a guy can be so unattractive physically, but when you get to really know that person, they physical appearence becomes enhanced, I dunno if thats the right word but you get what I mean |
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#43
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![]() //* imamix ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 97 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 126,148 ![]() |
their personality is the most important part.
but if there are two choices, i'll prefer a fit men/boy. |
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#44
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![]() yan lin♥ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 ![]() |
personality matters, but looks matter as well. buff guys are fine, but not fat as in huge-fat.
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![]() un cool. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 125,269 ![]() |
i actually have a little bit of a crush on one of my friends at school.
and he's sorta chubbby. i more or less find my PHYSICAL attraction in a person on the persons face. but the REAL attraction, the the real LOVE i find in their heart. ![]() |
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questions make me blue. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 ![]() |
i`m sorry, but i like them muscular boys. no six pack = no love.
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I am Sandy. Hear me roar. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,152 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,896 ![]() |
i_liek_sushi-- lmao, that was the funniest thing I've seen all day x]
gawsh.. Hmm, I don't want to lie. I'm honestly not into the whole concept of dating a slightly heavier guy... But since I've never dated one, I'll shut up ^____^ |
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#48
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Erm, if i was honest i would prolly say no.
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lol
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i'm not really sure because i never dated one. i prefer guys that are fit and in shape only because sports are like my life..
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![]() WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 ![]() |
if i really got to know them and liked them, then why not? they're comfy to lay on.
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QUOTE(Kathleen @ Jan 1 2005, 7:23 PM) lmao ya, well, I gotta admit I'm kinda shallow but I mean if I was budgy I woudlnt' mind goign out with soemone budgy...I donno...I'm really thin so I mean obviusly I'd PREFER someone who was thin too but I mean personaility matters the msot so I really dont' care ![]() ![]() |
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![]() freakieee ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 241 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,779 ![]() |
nah.... i wont go out wiv fat guys... i juz dun like fat guys
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BIG PEOPLE NEED LOVE TOO DAMNIT!
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[FONT=Geneva][SIZE=7][COLOR=blue][I] Thick guys are whats up, i mean it doesn't really matter on size or shape as long as yall both like eachother its all good. Personally I don't understand the skinny guy, what do you got to wrap your arms around, just some skin and bones. When you give ya man a back massage you wanna feel his back not his bones but its whateva ya preference is. But guys who got that body thats not too muscular and not too flabby...yeah it just gets ya
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how FAT are you talking? like i don't care if hes a bit chubby or a little overweight (especially if he plays football i can make an exception) but its all on personality too. but it has to be a good one or i just cant over his looks. (yes maybe im superficial but aren't we all?) i mean even if he has a great personality and is like 800 pounds im not gonna go out with him. i just can't. simple as that
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![]() E=Fb Musicians Theory of Relativity ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 711 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,045 ![]() |
I would probably go out with him, but I don't think I could really marry someone extremely fat. It isn't healthy, so I would probably ask him to at least try and lose weight.
But one of my best guy friends weighs over 500 pounds, and he's awesome. |
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![]() The windmills of your mind .. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,317 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 83,699 ![]() |
I would date a chubby person but not a fat person lol
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![]() Serious As A Heart Attack. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,292 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,344 ![]() |
if i really loved the guy..i wouldnt mind what he looks like..i mean yeah..if he was chubby enough to the point where he was unhealthy, i'd probably be like..um..babe..lets go work out..or something..but other than that..it wouldnt really effect me all that much..i mean..my guy right now aint the skinniest thing in the world, but i love him for his personality and we've been going out for 5 years in may
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yeah i think that if ur really in love with a guy its hard to get past that, but my type of guys are athletic and in-shape
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Yeah, definitely. And I have before. Several times. It made no difference to me. Everyone's different, so what if they're big? I go for the personality, myself.
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![]() You can call me Jon ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Duplicate Posts: 878 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,806 ![]() |
Well, from someone like me, it's a different situation. I think I'm bisexual. Or at least I think I am. Here's how it works:
Men for physical attraction Women for mental stability What gets me is if it is possible to have a relationship, purely of emotion, devoid of all physical tension. Sounds interesting to me. Just a thought. |
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![]() *~*Yo IcY FrEsH AzN!!*~* ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 167 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,747 ![]() |
hmmm daz kinda like asking a guy if he would go out with a fat girl/lady...i would say....they would have to have a really good personality....because first of all usually da looks are wat attracts a person..then when u talk to them u get to know thier personality...but in this case ....u just go straight to personality....so..they must be very convinceing..
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well my type is the scrawny and just a little chubby type, but the guy i'm with now is, well, you could say, fat. hes like a big teddy brea though, and although at first i thought he really wasnt attractive i found for some reason i was really physically attracted to him. you really never know, and if he has a good presonality you should give him a chance
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GAAAH!!! Now I know why no one likes me.
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![]() kristin ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 ![]() |
Depends on the guy. I've like this guy once who happened to be "big."
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![]() SCHGEB!SCHGEB! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,786 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,217 ![]() |
depends on personality and all that. i dont always judge on appearance.
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