How do you deal with haters? |
 Dec 30 2004, 09:18 AM
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 You make me sad. =(  Group: Member Posts: 158 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,818  |
Dun Dun Dun.. I'm bored, I like making topics... sue me. Noooo.. Don't sue me, I'm kidding. =) Anyways...
My best friend has a hater-- and I dunno how to help her =/ The 'hater' spreads lies and junks about her. =/ Making other people hate her too. -Sigh- It all started because there's this guy..... right? That my best friend liked for a long time... and he likes her back... but that hater likes him too... so yeahs. =/ Well.. answer the question =D... How do YOU deal with haters? |
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Dec 30 2004, 09:26 AM
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 banned Group: Member Posts: 1,589 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,768 |
i go up to them and deal with it. hehe
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Dec 30 2004, 11:35 AM
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 wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
Strut your stuff to make them even more mad.
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Dec 30 2004, 11:36 AM
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 [*]i AM your star!![*] Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,520 |
QUOTE(xquizit @ Dec 30 2004, 11:35 AM) Strut your stuff to make them even more mad.  Couldnt have said it any better 
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Dec 30 2004, 11:37 AM
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 Smile Like a Retard =D Group: Member Posts: 1,350 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,186 |
well, it depends on your best friend's personality. If she's fearless, then she should go straight to that hater's face and warn her to get a life. If she's a bit shy, tell her to use her brain and set some traps
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Dec 30 2004, 11:38 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
QUOTE Strut your stuff to make them even more mad. .^^haha yep! my best friend is going through that now, because some girl is jealous that my friend is going out with her boyfriend..she makes comments about my friend, Melissa all the time, but Melissa just keeps on walking, and the people who who really are her friend, don't believe that nonsense! or she could handle it on her own, yet that comes with consequences.. |
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Dec 30 2004, 11:39 AM
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 old school member Group: Member Posts: 1,796 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 843 |
1) Brush shoulders off
2) Perform the Harlem Shake and say "HATABEGONE!" I swear to you it always works. |
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Dec 30 2004, 12:18 PM
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wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
QUOTE(Yemmerz @ Dec 30 2004, 12:39 PM) 1) Brush shoulders off 2) Perform the Harlem Shake and say "HATABEGONE!" I swear to you it always works. LMAO! 
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Dec 30 2004, 12:19 PM
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 白人看不懂 !!!! Group: Member Posts: 3,838 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,824 |
^ omg #2 hilarious!
I had to deal w/ a hater. -_- for 3 years...till i finally blew up and threw him at a wall. THat was an ordeal. Kill him. <--Off the record. |
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Dec 30 2004, 12:28 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
i ignore, or i bitch back
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Dec 30 2004, 12:30 PM
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 Day's Nearly Over Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 |
To tell you guys the truth, all I did was be an ass to the guy who hated me. Hahah, it was funny.. because he said I used too many big words!
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Dec 30 2004, 12:34 PM
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 Oh you'd be surprised Group: Member Posts: 2,406 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,886 |
dont talk to them and act like you dont care about their business
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| *xcaitlinx* |
Dec 30 2004, 01:03 PM
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i either:
go up and ask what their problem is..and if they deny it cuz they're scared, then i curse them off. or i just ignore them, and laugh in their face cuz people lyk that are just jeal0us for whatever reason. |
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Dec 30 2004, 01:22 PM
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 je suis une noix de coco <33 Group: Member Posts: 1,242 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,768 |
forget them.. sh*t haters are just jealous.. so just walk around showing off your fine self.. *mwah*
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Dec 30 2004, 01:24 PM
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 i`M N0T A TEASE; JUST A REMiNDER 0F WUT U CAN`T HAVE!! Group: Member Posts: 153 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,700 |
hmmm maybe she should just ignore her. the hater will back off if she knows she's not getting to your friend anymore.
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Dec 30 2004, 02:00 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
just ignore them and go on with your life, they're just hating on you because they can't have what you got
it's all so stupid, with me, this one girl didn't like me because this guy she liked liked me, i had a boyfriend at the time and she was telling people that i liked him back while i had a boyfriend, so all her friends don't like me, but whatever, you see how people really are when they get jealous |
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Dec 30 2004, 02:04 PM
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 :hammer: Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,849 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,700 |
QUOTE(Yemmerz @ Dec 30 2004, 8:39 AM) 1) Brush shoulders off 2) Perform the Harlem Shake and say "HATABEGONE!" I swear to you it always works. ROFLMFAO!!
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Dec 30 2004, 02:47 PM
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You make me sad. =( Group: Member Posts: 158 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,818 |
HATABEGONE? lol. nice. =D maybe, I'll tell her to go yell that or something.
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Dec 30 2004, 03:26 PM
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 you wish... Group: Member Posts: 187 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 273 |
dont be a hater, be a lover
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Dec 30 2004, 03:31 PM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
I spread rumours about them ahahaha. And if they say something, I just talk back to them =D it works every damn time.
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Dec 30 2004, 03:37 PM
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My name is Jason, not imafreakinazn D: Group: Member Posts: 2,008 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,432 |
i hate them back.
=] just kidding. i just rant until i get it out of my system. |
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Dec 30 2004, 04:22 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 219 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,958 |
confront, ignore, or bitch back.
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| *instantmusic* |
Dec 30 2004, 04:38 PM
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love your hate as thou love thy neighbor. i like that. write that down.
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Dec 30 2004, 05:14 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
i walk up to them and talk shit to them. sterotype, sarcastic, lying, cussing, bitching, shouting, judge them, be shallow to them, and i sometime threat them
 . it depends, if they pour milk on me, i'll use my milk and pour in that person face or head. if that person push me, i'll push that person against the wall, push them to the puddle of water, street, pole, and etc.
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Dec 30 2004, 05:18 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
ingore them or kick them haha
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| *x____duckii* |
Dec 30 2004, 05:22 PM
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QUOTE(Yemmerz @ Dec 30 2004, 12:39 PM) 1) Brush shoulders off 2) Perform the Harlem Shake and say "HATABEGONE!" I swear to you it always works. ^ Haha Well, I just ignore them, but if they continue with their bs, I'll just tell their asses off. |
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Dec 30 2004, 05:25 PM
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 RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
QUOTE(Yemmerz @ Dec 30 2004, 10:39 AM) 1) Brush shoulders off 2) Perform the Harlem Shake and say "HATABEGONE!" I swear to you it always works. omg i was JUST thinking that. brush dem shoulders off!!! |
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Dec 30 2004, 05:26 PM
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 damn u got owned! Group: Member Posts: 215 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,850 |
wat a stupid question. wait for them to leave their house and jump them. it's that easy.
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Dec 30 2004, 05:28 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 903 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,665 |
Haters.. pfft.
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Dec 30 2004, 06:48 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
Well, I've known of a few haters... And I really don't know how to deal with them. There's different ways. You can BE AS LOW AS THEM and start hating on them too, or you can just ignore them. They tend to take away your friends by talking smack and bleh. I wish all the hating would stop, but hey, we don't live in a perfect world. And a perfect world would be boring. I've had a hater.. I believe she's sort of stopped. But even so, I had to dea with it for almost 3 years. I told people that I hated her for talking smack and whatnot about me, and they would tell her and she even confronted me about it. The irony was, she believe that she was ALLOWED to hate on me, yet I wasn't ALLOWED to hate her. Or that I had no reason to hate her. Confused? Me too.
But remember, Karma will hit those people in the back and give them a reality check. What goes around comes around, right? Yea, in the end, there's a few people that don't like her. So that girl isn't little miss popular that people are scared of. High school sure gave her a reality check =P |
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Dec 30 2004, 06:50 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,025 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,051 |
QUOTE(xquizit @ Dec 30 2004, 11:35 AM) Strut your stuff to make them even more mad. ^exactly. Eventually i will get pissed off and either scream at them or smack them. Always works
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| *Kathleen* |
Dec 30 2004, 06:52 PM
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Just ignore 'em.
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Dec 30 2004, 07:08 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
Until they slowly creep up on you and kidnap you in the middle of the night.
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Dec 30 2004, 08:41 PM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
i usually ignore them...or if it gets me really ticked off, I'll stare 'em straight in the eyes next time they b!tch at me
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Dec 30 2004, 08:43 PM
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 ¢¾ Wanting it. ¢¾ Group: Member Posts: 2,060 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,234 |
go up to tha bitch and tell them how i really feel, then bitch slap them afterwords.. the best method!
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Dec 30 2004, 09:03 PM
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 your sweetest sin. Group: Member Posts: 416 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,960 |
QUOTE(xquizit @ Dec 30 2004, 11:35 AM) Strut your stuff to make them even more mad. QUOTE(xj_liana_tx @ Dec 30 2004, 12:28 PM) i ignore, or i bitch back Yep. Those^^. |
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Dec 30 2004, 09:10 PM
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 RAINingONyourPARADE Group: Member Posts: 16 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,886 |
have you ever seen the movie "Mean Girls?" If so, you know what I mean by: Give her a call from 'Planned Parenthood.'
After that, she wont think twice about messing with your friend's head. ... and one more thing   do a victory dance on her front lawn while she's grounded  !~
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Dec 30 2004, 09:12 PM
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loch her in a cage for a while... feeding is optional
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Dec 31 2004, 05:51 PM
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 Yes, I do have an Abercrombie booty. Group: Member Posts: 698 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,057 |
Ignore them and if they continue on hating, do something to piss them off.
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Dec 31 2004, 08:20 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
Go up to them, confront them, FIGHT, then it's dealth with.
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| *Azarel* |
Dec 31 2004, 08:21 PM
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.. jump them.
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Jan 1 2005, 10:27 PM
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 I'm not mean; You're just a sissy. Group: Member Posts: 796 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,520 |
give them the evil eye.
if that doesnt work, id come up to them and ask them what was their problem. ..but no catfights for me! im peacefull 
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Jan 1 2005, 10:38 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
i'd HUNT her down with my girls and kick her ass harddd, even her mama wont reconize her.
if its a guy i get my boys to cut his d**k off, i swear! cause that happen to my best girl but the guy was his ex so he just was messed up badly... scars still on him everywhere. |
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Jan 2 2005, 05:30 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Deal with it..go up to her and straighten things out...ignore her like she doesnt exist or get your friends on her...lol...*ahem* but seriously...your friend should deal with it..before it gets out of hand...haters hate you becuz you are something that they'll never be, they're jealous of you...
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Jan 2 2005, 08:25 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,993 |
QUOTE(Wishful Thinking @ Dec 30 2004, 9:18 AM) Dun Dun Dun.. I'm bored, I like making topics... sue me. Noooo.. Don't sue me, I'm kidding. =) Anyways... My best friend has a hater-- and I dunno how to help her =/ The 'hater' spreads lies and junks about her. =/ Making other people hate her too. -Sigh- It all started because there's this guy..... right? That my best friend liked for a long time... and he likes her back... but that hater likes him too... so yeahs. =/ Well.. answer the question =D... How do YOU deal with haters? if i were here i would of been 'kussin' that girl/boy out rite bout now...this person must be jealous of something ...[whole other story], but what i would do is 'tell her/him off'...with a whole lotta 'kussin' to bakk it up..haha |
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