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 Dec 30 2004, 01:39 AM
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well...2 weeks before me and my guys 8 month anniversary, he told me that his parents wanted us to break up [okay, explanation- his parents are damn strict, and REAL SCARY, call you up and everything, not allowed to use phone, or go on9...and prolly dun get to choose what to eat since his dictators are being so ARGHH about it...]....and i was like WHAT?! i waited months for him to overcome his shyness, i did so much for him, i wait on him all the time and everything and i was like "all i did for you in nearly a whole year wasn't worth ONE THING you parents said?" so now...we're kind aforced to be really really really good frends...
just wanted to see what you guys think...is it really his parents or...is it him...? |
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Dec 30 2004, 01:41 AM
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 ThePinkPanda Group: Member Posts: 760 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,168 |
Ouch. You should really talk to him about it.. or keep your relationship a secret.
How old are you guys? I mean.. his parents are stupid if they're THAT strict. Ask him if its just him too. |
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Dec 30 2004, 01:48 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,626 |
we're both 14...well he truned 14 last week, i turned 14 in september...i did ask him, he insisted it was his parents and i...believe him? but i cant be so sure?....and theres no way we can keep a relationship a secret, he has an older bro who spies...
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Dec 30 2004, 01:51 AM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
i'd say its him... if he really wnated to be with you, he'd find a way... and what his parents don't know, it wont hurt them. and you went out for 8 months u say? how did it last that long in the beginning?a nd why stop now?... wern't the parents ALWAYS strict form start anyways...
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Dec 30 2004, 01:54 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,626 |
his parents didn't know until ages..but when they did they interrogated us...alot? we are kind of...together...still do pretty much the same as when we were still titled 'bf and gf' but yeah...more...careful 'cause of...you know...and you can see the whole school from his house and so yeah his parents can see pretty much everything since the school is so wide spread and layed out
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Dec 30 2004, 01:54 AM
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ThePinkPanda Group: Member Posts: 760 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,168 |
QUOTE(177emories @ Dec 29 2004, 10:51 PM) i'd say its him... if he really wnated to be with you, he'd find a way... and what his parents don't know, it wont hurt them. and you went out for 8 months u say? how did it last that long in the beginning?a nd why stop now?... wern't the parents ALWAYS strict form start anyways...  Agreed. He'd find a way if he really cared about you. |
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Dec 30 2004, 01:56 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,626 |
=S i still cant decide...we're still doing the same stuff together only we're under a diff. title...and it took him DAYS to "confirm"...cause he said he dint wanna let go or sumthing...
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Dec 30 2004, 02:22 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
QUOTE i'd say its him... if he really wnated to be with you, he'd find a way... and what his parents don't know, it wont hurt them. and you went out for 8 months u say? how did it last that long in the beginning?a nd why stop now?... wern't the parents ALWAYS strict form start anyways... ditto. talk to him.. u've been together for so long now. u'll probably find out that he doesn't deserve to be with u?  then again.. his parents would ALLOW u to do the same stuff gf/bf does but under a diff title?? is it like a title thing?? |
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Dec 30 2004, 02:26 AM
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ThePinkPanda Group: Member Posts: 760 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,168 |
I was thinking a while..
Maybe he broke up with you but still does stuff with you so he would have no guilt in cheating on you because it wouldn't really be cheating..?  I don't know him.. so I wouldn't know. But I do know guys who have done that before.So.. just be careful, k? There's not a lot to do in a situation like this. Sooner or later you will find out if he is really worth all this. And if he isn't, don't fret-forget! |
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Dec 30 2004, 02:29 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,626 |
cheating...dont think so..hes not really into girls and he doesnt flirt.....anyways thanks for advice and sharing your thoughts.had this thing stuck since the start of this month just wanted to let this thought go...
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Dec 30 2004, 02:35 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,626 |
um...update? kay, i just got a voicemail from him and it went like this [translated cuz he was speaking chinese]: heya nat...how are you? i miss you...i want school to start sooner so i can see you again...okay then...i'll see you then, *mwah* byebyeee....
=S whats that supposed to mean? |
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Dec 30 2004, 03:04 AM
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=.= lol
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Dec 30 2004, 06:43 AM
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 You make me sad. =( Group: Member Posts: 158 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,818 |
uhmm that voice message is kind of weird.. but it's more of a friend's way than a lover's way. =/ i'm not really sure.. but my friends do that to me.. haha
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Dec 30 2004, 09:14 AM
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Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
erm.. on second thought maybe he likes u? lol. it's still weird why he couldn't for once disobey his parents for someone he apparently should "love". but since he sent u a voicemail telling u how much he misses u and stuff.. maybe he does still like u. i mean, he wouldn't bother sending it if he doesnt, right? im confused
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Dec 30 2004, 03:01 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
"you can't help who you fall in love with" if he's honestly committed to your relationship, then he's going to find a way to be with you (related to what 177emories said), parents, friends, whoever should not be able to stop him
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Dec 30 2004, 03:39 PM
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dont forget to smiLe today Group: Member Posts: 336 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,095 |
ouch. pretty strict. you talked to him aboutit?
goodluck wiht him! |
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Jan 3 2005, 12:40 AM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
QUOTE i'd say its him... if he really wnated to be with you, he'd find a way... and what his parents don't know, it wont hurt them. and you went out for 8 months u say? how did it last that long in the beginning?a nd why stop now?... wern't the parents ALWAYS strict form start anyways... I agree. What kinda guy would be willing to break up with his g/f becuz his parents said so? |
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