Asking them out..., what do you do? |
 Dec 29 2004, 05:18 PM
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 asiu  Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,760  |
i've always wondered, HOW do you ask someone out. do you just go up to them ask say "hey, want to go out with me?" doesn't that seem a little awkward?
feel free to include your own experiences 
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Dec 29 2004, 05:31 PM
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 your sweetest sin. Group: Member Posts: 416 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,960 |
um. yes? all the people that asked me were like "hey, want to go out?" or "will you go out with me?" or something. that's an interesting question. how else do people ask?
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Dec 29 2004, 06:18 PM
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 damn u got owned! Group: Member Posts: 215 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,850 |
i always ask it a differnt way when ever i ask a girl out. like my last one i was like
"you know i really like you. and i was just wondering if you would go out with me?" but yeha always do it a differnt way. |
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Dec 29 2004, 06:28 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
hmm. just straight askign them out like that is sorta is weird. i usually get to knwo the person ya know be friends with them. and say, like yeah i think our friendship is going great, but i would like to be more then friends. so would u like to go out with me?" somethign like that i guess.
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Dec 29 2004, 06:36 PM
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 I'm not mean; You're just a sissy. Group: Member Posts: 796 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,520 |
i agree with the above. if i were to ask a guy out, id get to know him and his personality better first and see if he's worth it. and then maybe id drop teeny little hints and stuff like "oh you know that new movie? heard it was good! wanna go see it sometime?". subtle yet its always worked for me so that they'd ask me out =).
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Dec 29 2004, 07:14 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
well, i've never asked anyone out. but i guess, you get to know them better and then ask them, "hey, want to see a movie tomorrow" or something like that.
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Dec 29 2004, 08:34 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
well i haven't asked anyone out before, but i think if i did i would get to know that person better first then ask them to the movies like linke3 said.
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Dec 29 2004, 09:06 PM
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 The Bone Collector Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162 |
Never asked anyone out before, but just asking them like that is kind of odd. I suggest something creative? Or something besides, "Want to go out with me?!". =P
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| *Kathleen* |
Dec 29 2004, 09:32 PM
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"GO OUT WITH ME NOW, BITCH, OR I'LL IMPALE YOU WITH THIS SPORK!" Oh yeah. They'd have to say, "Yes," to that.
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Dec 29 2004, 09:42 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
Very assertive, I like it.
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Dec 30 2004, 12:57 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
lol yeah.. will u go out with me sounds less awkward and more of a pleading sort of way. agree?
QUOTE "GO OUT WITH ME NOW, BITCH, OR I'LL IMPALE YOU WITH THIS SPORK!" Oh yeah. They'd have to say, "Yes," to that. lovin' it. |
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Dec 30 2004, 01:55 AM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
ask them to go to a movie with you "one on one" as freinds of course and if she agrees to go with u then she must not mind bbeing with you... then see if u get a long... and then if you like how that dat is going during the middle of the movie ask her to be ur gf and if she agrees then hold her hnads and if not then you don't have to talk anyways since ur watching the movie and fater the movie u'd forget it to rmb that u got rejected, or you can ask her if she lieks u first then THEN if she says yes or is shy and giggly about it then ask her to be ur gf. it works, she has no where to run hehehe
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Dec 30 2004, 03:09 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 78 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,359 |
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Dec 30 2004, 03:49 AM
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 I'm slooow Group: Member Posts: 61 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,538 |
QUOTE(177emories @ Dec 30 2004, 1:55 AM) ask them to go to a movie with you "one on one" as freinds of course and if she agrees to go with u then she must not mind bbeing with you... then see if u get a long... and then if you like how that dat is going during the middle of the movie ask her to be ur gf and if she agrees then hold her hnads and if not then you don't have to talk anyways since ur watching the movie and fater the movie u'd forget it to rmb that u got rejected, or you can ask her if she lieks u first then THEN if she says yes or is shy and giggly about it then ask her to be ur gf. it works, she has no where to run hehehe  Thanks! I should try that.... |
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Dec 30 2004, 04:56 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 360 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,174 |
They way I do it takes three easy steps
Me: What would you say if I were to ask you out? Her: Umm yes? Me: Alright cool were going out. actualy Ive never done that, I should try 
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Dec 30 2004, 06:37 AM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
QUOTE(asiu1990 @ Dec 29 2004, 2:18 PM) i've always wondered, HOW do you ask someone out. do you just go up to them ask say "hey, want to go out with me?" doesn't that seem a little awkward? feel free to include your own experiences lol that seems akward...i'd be all "Are you busy [someday at sometime]?" Then they'd answer and I'd be all "Oh, would you want to go out to [somewhere] with me?" lol yeah..[: not that I've actually done it, though. haha |
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Jan 3 2005, 12:43 AM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
somewhere on that line I'm gonna assume? Well....err...that's normally how you would do it if you wanted to....meh. yepps....I think that's it. And I don't think it's an awkward thing??? well if it is now..it wasn't until you brought it up....
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| *stephinika* |
Jan 3 2005, 05:57 PM
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yeah those are the usual lines but you can always make it more special...like with the environment and have good timing and whatnot...hard to explain but yeah.
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Jan 3 2005, 06:01 PM
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 baby, be good to me Group: Member Posts: 592 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,358 |
I don't like the whole "Will you go out with me" thing. I mean technically you guys aren't going to go OUT, considering you are young and can't drive and whatnot. I think a better way would be to just express how you feel to the person and if the feeling is mutual, give it time and spend more time with the person and there's your relationship.
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Jan 4 2005, 08:36 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 78 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,359 |
        
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