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 Dec 27 2004, 11:53 PM
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so this guy and i have flirted alot and stuff.
but one day wen i went over to his house, as we were watching tv. he reached for my hand, and we were holding hands. we were on the couch and sharing a blanket and just watching tv. but i want to ask where this is going becuz we havent really talked about wat happened. should i talk to him about it? and how? or should i just let wat happen happen? help please! im also really nervous. i dont know how to start the topic. and i dont want to lose this friendship. i just don tknow wat to do. im in a rut. |
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Dec 27 2004, 11:55 PM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
if you like him, talk about it.
o.o well, either way, talk about it. if you really like him, ask him out or w/e. |
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Dec 28 2004, 12:03 AM
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 Gackt owns you. Group: Member Posts: 81 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,953 |
QUOTE so this guy and i have flirted alot and stuff. but one day wen i went over to his house, as we were watching tv. he reached for my hand, and we were holding hands. we were on the couch and sharing a blanket and just watching tv. but i want to ask where this is going becuz we havent really talked about wat happened. should i talk to him about it? and how? or should i just let wat happen happen? help please! im also really nervous. i dont know how to start the topic. and i dont want to lose this friendship. i just don tknow wat to do. im in a rut. OMG.. THIS HAPPENED TO ME TOO!!... omg.. i didn't do anything about it.. today, we still flirt with each other.. but we don't talk about "what" happened.. i'm too scared.. and i can't ask a guy OUT!!.. gosh.. how can u guys do that?? i don't even know how to answer this topic..gosh.. 
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Dec 28 2004, 12:16 AM
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 You Kicked My Dog. Group: Member Posts: 305 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 69,782 |
uhh isn't this supposed to be in relationships? oh well i don't know if it is or not.. well i think that is really cute.. ^__^ but why did he hold your hand? men are so weird..
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Dec 28 2004, 01:04 AM
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 Turn your lights down low... Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,472 |
Talk to him about it...or you might regret you didnt do anything later. It sounds like he likes you. So build up some courage and talk to him. It may be hard but if u like him and something happens it will have been worth it.
 good luck!
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Dec 28 2004, 02:16 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
sit down & talk to him about it.
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Dec 28 2004, 10:13 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
1. take a deep breath
2. sit down in a place where it's just you and him 3. stare at him like you're very nervous and scared 4. tell him how you feel about him 5. ask him if he's interest in you 6. ask him if he wants to date you (say it in a generous way) 7. then shut up, wait for him to answer you back. |
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Dec 28 2004, 11:57 AM
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 it's our chemistry Group: Member Posts: 1,151 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,775 |
That's really cute. ^_^
But how do you feel about him? You should first figure out your own feelings before trying to figure out his. Does this guy already have a gf or a girl he likes? Because he could just be being friendly and flirty. A lot of guys will act flirty around girls who they like just as a friend. Dunno why, but that's just the way they work. 
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Dec 28 2004, 11:45 PM
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 I'm slooow Group: Member Posts: 61 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,538 |
QUOTE(angel_roh @ Dec 28 2004, 10:13 AM) 7. then shut up, wait for him to answer you back. haha
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Dec 29 2004, 02:20 AM
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yeah depends how brave you are. you could ask him out. or just ask flat out if he's only flirting or if he wants something else to happen, like going out. cause yeah...he could just be flirting or he could really like you.
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Dec 29 2004, 02:34 AM
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 Can't have the hand without the cock. Group: Member Posts: 2,481 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,622 |
Just go with the flow.
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Dec 29 2004, 03:21 AM
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dont forget to smiLe today Group: Member Posts: 336 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,095 |
talk about it? hints wont exactly help..you can try though
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Dec 29 2004, 03:49 AM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
that sounds cute [= buy anyhoo..yes, you should talk to him about him. be all "I want to know if we're beginning to be more than just friends" or something...lol find out how he feels about you [= ooh, or ask him out
 good luck with that! :flwoers:
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Dec 29 2004, 11:35 AM
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 your signal fades away, and all I'm left with is noise. Group: Member Posts: 2,099 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,110 |
i think you should talk to him - it seems like there's already something there and you should definitely talk to him about it.
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Dec 29 2004, 03:54 PM
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 [*]i AM your star!![*] Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,520 |
Definitley need to sit this dude down and talk about it. Ask him where its going
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Dec 29 2004, 04:03 PM
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 damn u got owned! Group: Member Posts: 215 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,850 |
o i know where it's going. he wants some....
cake. duh.
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Dec 30 2004, 12:08 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
u've got to talk to him about it. otherwise, it's ur lost.
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