IMPRESS A SKATER? |
 Dec 24 2004, 10:33 AM
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What can I do to impress a skater/goth/punk boy that I have liked for a long time..? Any tips?
  ~Melanie |
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Dec 24 2004, 10:53 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
umm well, you can't really make him like you.....maybe ask him if he'll teach you how to skate? that way you could get to know each other, and get closer...but if you already know how, impress him with your skills!
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| *xcaitlinx* |
Dec 24 2004, 11:02 AM
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-- i love skater boys -- <3 lol..sorry..just had to get that out.
what do u mean "how do u impress skater boys"? if ur saying that, then u must be a prep or something... idk just be urself? |
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Dec 24 2004, 11:02 AM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
well, talk to him more. u can ask him to teach u how to skate and all, but don't all of a sudden turn goth/punk cause then u might look like a poser to him.
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| *Weird addiction* |
Dec 24 2004, 11:13 AM
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learn how to skate
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Dec 24 2004, 11:22 AM
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yerp! Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454 |
^^ I was going to say that.
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Dec 24 2004, 11:23 AM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
omgosh?? I j/ went through that..lol.. but I found a better guy than him.. but yeah.. j/ .. try to learn to skate.. w/ him.. etc.. etc.. you know flirt and act like you don't know how to skate, maybe he'll show ya.. and if you do.. impress him w/ what you know =)
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Dec 24 2004, 11:26 AM
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 Physic Group: Member Posts: 117 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,700 |
QUOTE well, talk to him more. u can ask him to teach u how to skate and all, but don't all of a sudden turn goth/punk cause then u might look like a poser to him. If your a prep or somting then just get to know him better Goth and Punk is a hard thing to master and you will look like a total poser if you go off of sterotypes. Just ease into him say hi once in a wile then talk to him a little more eventually you will get to know him better and you will feel comfertable around him. |
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Dec 24 2004, 11:28 AM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
give him head, he's hardxcore like that,
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Dec 24 2004, 12:16 PM
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 BIOTCH!!!! Group: Member Posts: 121 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 59,655 |
QUOTE(airam @ Dec 24 2004, 11:28 AM) give him head, he's hardxcore like that, haha...you can do that too...LOL... you can do a shove-it to boneless.......if he didn't knoe how teach him...if he knoes how tell him to teach you...it worked for me...  DAMN THEY"RE HOT!!!!....well the ones that live aound here....which is probably the whole neighborhood...ok sorry off topic..... so yeah to what the other girls suggest you to do...and give him head...jk |
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Dec 24 2004, 12:40 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
AHa HAh aH aHa hA Ha hAh aH AH AHA hA.
You shouldn't be out to IMPRESS the guy that you like. You should be out to get to know the guy that you like. Don't be something that you're not.  Really. Don't. |
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Dec 24 2004, 12:49 PM
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 Your love is a razorblade kiss ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,794 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 9,959 |
u dnt wanna change urself to make him like u... u hav to get him to like u the way u are...
anyways, its cool if u wear skate brand clothes... independent/element sells girls clothing too... and same taste in music is always good  but really... just stay the way you are. if he doesnt like you the way you are... he's not meant for u 
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Dec 24 2004, 01:41 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
Don't change yourself to make him like you. For all you know maybe he already does like you and he hasn't told you. You could always learn about some of interests and talk to him about them so that way he knows you are interested ;]
Hope that makes sense. |
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Dec 24 2004, 03:14 PM
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 Seien Sie bitte mein Geliebter! Group: Member Posts: 660 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,436 |
Be real.
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Dec 25 2004, 09:02 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,016 |
Thanks you guys I am going to try these. Keep them coming!!
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Dec 25 2004, 09:08 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
learn how to skate and wear clothes from hot topic, act like you dont care about the government lol..this should work.
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Dec 29 2004, 04:32 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
dont impress...express
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Dec 29 2004, 04:39 PM
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catastrophic sweetness Group: Member Posts: 92 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 58,334 |
You shouldn't try and impress a guy, or change yourself for him. So you're a 'prep' and he's a 'skater' opposites attract. If you two are into each other, it's cause you like each other how you are.
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Dec 29 2004, 05:06 PM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,923 |
eeh, I learned to skate to impress the guy that I like, however, if you're aything like me, you'll be nursing bruises for a while. But, I do recommend learning how to skate, plus, it's christmas break, so if you live nearby, you could ask him to hang out/teach you how to skate. Also, try doing stuff you both like together...
And you don't have to be a prep to not know how to impress a skater/punk/goth. You could jut be new to this. Like Me! 
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Dec 29 2004, 05:33 PM
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 I'm not mean; You're just a sissy. Group: Member Posts: 796 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,520 |
dont change yourself just for him. thats just wrong.
get to know each other. just talk to him. if he likes you, then yay. if not, then owell. life goes on |
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Dec 29 2004, 05:36 PM
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 :hammer: Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,849 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,700 |
Do NOT ask to "see" his skateboard.
Do NOT ask to ride his skateboard. Do NOT ask to him to teach you how to skate. |
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Dec 29 2004, 07:28 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
stop with the labels already people!!
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Dec 29 2004, 08:24 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
well, you can't really make him like you. just talk to him, get to know him, tell your feelings to him so that maybe his feelings would change towards you. just be yourself.
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Dec 29 2004, 08:25 PM
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 Can't have the hand without the cock. Group: Member Posts: 2,481 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,622 |
if you have to act like something you're not, or try to impress more than you need to, then he's not worth it.
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| *Kathleen* |
Dec 29 2004, 08:29 PM
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It helps to be yourself...he's just like any other guy...
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Dec 29 2004, 08:30 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
Except that he skates.
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Dec 29 2004, 11:45 PM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
QUOTE What can I do to impress a skater/goth/punk boy that I have liked for a long time..? Any tips? umm.. that's a bit of a mix. most of my friends are skaters so i might be able to help u with that. omg *drools* punks are hott =]. how about skateboarding in front of him?? or better yet.. if u want him to notice u then tell him u cant skateboard. if it were one of my "guy" friends.. they would come and "teach" u how. |
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Dec 30 2004, 01:13 AM
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 Oh you'd be surprised Group: Member Posts: 2,406 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,886 |
dont make it happen. wait for it to happen. like try to expect the worst..thats what i do but yeah what are you then, prep?
if youre seriously desperate, learn to skateboard. it'll turn him on im sure. |
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Dec 30 2004, 02:29 AM
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 BANNED Group: Member Posts: 2,419 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,387 |
QUOTE(x_angawhomps @ Dec 29 2004, 3:36 PM) Do NOT ask to "see" his skateboard. Do NOT ask to ride his skateboard. Do NOT ask to him to teach you how to skate.  Yeah don't. Also if he's interested in you then you guys would've most likely been dating by now. Just be yourself and never change who you are especially for a guy. NOTE: If a guy is interested in you, he will go out of his way to impress you. If he's not then he really won't "care" about you. You cannot make anyone love you if they're not interested. You guys can be friends but that's probably it. |
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Jan 16 2005, 10:17 PM
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 Romantic Soldier Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,422 |
my friend who is a girl is a punk/skater person. I think first off...you actually have to have the same interests as him...cuz it would REALLy suck if u didn't. But yeah, learn how to skate a bit. and ask him if he would teach you a little bit of his moves. And if he agrees...maybe start getting to talk to him and know him better and then make ask him out?
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Jan 17 2005, 03:16 PM
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 You Kicked My Dog. Group: Member Posts: 305 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 69,782 |
QUOTE(Despise @ Dec 24 2004, 12:40 PM) AHa HAh aH aHa hA Ha hAh aH AH AHA hA. You shouldn't be out to IMPRESS the guy that you like. You should be out to get to know the guy that you like. Don't be something that you're not. Really. Don't. yaah that's what i think if you do you'd be a poser... just get to know him and be yourself you don't have to be like him to impress him. |
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Jan 24 2005, 07:37 PM
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don't try to impress. He'll know your trying, which will turn him off to you. Talk to him! Be yourself, guys like that. If he's not interested, MAKE him interested. Find commonality and work off that...I promise it works
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Jan 24 2005, 07:42 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
be cool, carefree and at the same time sweet and attractive
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Jan 24 2005, 07:53 PM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
be yourself. and try talking to him.
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Jan 24 2005, 08:02 PM
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 Canadian Boyfriend, I think it's time Group: Member Posts: 450 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,705 |
If he doesn't like you for who you really are, then it's his loss. You shouldn't waste your time on him.
But you should go extreme. Wear weird clothes and crap, like....grab his attention. ^^ That's what I do. But then again, that's just me. |
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Jan 24 2005, 08:41 PM
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 skills to pay the bills... Group: Member Posts: 417 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,204 |
Well, here's a tip.....
I have this friend, and her name is Tiffany. Well she's liked me forever, and I've never liked her back, and I never will. But suddenly she starting buying all these volcom clothes, and her away messages say, "Skating, I'll be back later." And trust me, she can't even stand up on a board. So that's a major turn off, being a poser. I have a girlfriend anyways, but that's just a tip. |
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Jan 24 2005, 08:43 PM
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 cameraman swing the focus! Group: Member Posts: 1,880 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,328 |
just be yourself.
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Jan 24 2005, 09:00 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
i say forget the skaters, go for the hot azn boiz yummy..
 BUT, if you really want this skater kid..umm..u can try to skate urself and then ask if u two can go skating together? |
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Jan 25 2005, 01:01 AM
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go up to him, be like i like you a lot. i like you like i like lamps. dont ask me what that means, but i like you a lot. now show me how to ride these wheels, and maybe i'll show you some tricks of my own.
you can leave the lamp part out. my opinion is that it would be an icebreaker. |
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Jan 25 2005, 02:09 PM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
omg. DON"T try to impress that boy! lol i was in the same situation before. I like this aggressive skater once , so i learned all the skate terms and tricks and stuff...and i got into skating...and watched it on tv n' all..lol and he asked me what skates i had n all and i was like, "uh, solomons" and he was like yah so let's go to the skatepark. haha BIG mistake. def did not impress him. So just be yourself girl!!!!!
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Jan 25 2005, 06:19 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 139 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,985 |
THANKS YOU GUYS YOU ARE ALL SO AWESOME! I LOVE YOU ALL!!!! BUT JUST SO YOU KNOW I HAVE KNOWN HIM SINCE PRESCHOOL AND BEEN HIS BEST FRIEND SINCE PRESCHOOL AND KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM.. WHAT SHOULD I DO now..???
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Jan 25 2005, 06:43 PM
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omg, i had the same problem a few months ago. whatever u do.. dont try to skate.. yeah that dosnt work... ummm lets see.. basicly just be urself.. oh sh** i hate when people say that.. i didnt just say that.. ok.. just flirt with him and try to show him that ur intrested. that might work. hope that helps you out
<3 *marla* |
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Jan 25 2005, 06:46 PM
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 i'm thinking of luis naked... Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 80,850 |
If you've really known each other for w logn time liek that and you two are ebst friends, it would be much be better if you just casually bring up the subject of liking you or not. It's much easier than asking him if he could teach you to skate. That'll make you sound desperate.
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Jan 25 2005, 07:08 PM
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 wake me up when september ends Group: Member Posts: 281 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,381 |
if you have to impress him, he wont like you. i think that when you try to impress guys, they figure it out and think you are desperate.
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Jan 25 2005, 07:21 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,025 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,051 |
just be yourself damnit.
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Jan 25 2005, 07:25 PM
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 uoyevoli Group: Member Posts: 177 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,430 |
QUOTE(Despise @ Dec 24 2004, 12:40 PM) [font=georgia You shouldn't be out to IMPRESS the guy that you like. You should be out to get to know the guy that you like. Don't be something that you're not. Really. Don't. [/font] ^^yep, talk to him, leanr how to skate?? |
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Jan 26 2005, 08:25 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 |
learn to skate like a pro.
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Jan 26 2005, 08:33 PM
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 Loser Group: Member Posts: 1,101 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 67,558 |
Be yourself... -_- that's all there is to it, when it comes to love! No need to be what you are not!
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Jan 26 2005, 09:13 PM
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You Kicked My Dog. Group: Member Posts: 305 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 69,782 |
DO NOT LEARN HOW TO SKATE!!
I have a ton of guyfriends and they say that any girl that tries to impress them by skating pissess them off. They say just be yourself... And that's true. |
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Jan 26 2005, 09:32 PM
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 I'm just a little bit crazy... Group: Member Posts: 1,119 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,760 |
QUOTE What can I do to impress a skater/goth/punk boy that I have liked for a long time..? Any tips? i'm sorry about this but by saying that is so stereotypical... some people don't like being 'labeled.' if he doesn't like the way you are now... go on! shouldn't change[entirely or extremely] just for the one guy that you like. |
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Jan 26 2005, 11:22 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
to impress a skater/goth/punk boy, u must be a skater/goth/punk girl.
dont pretend to be what ur not, cuz they'll see right thru u |
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Jan 26 2005, 11:42 PM
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 tower over me Group: Member Posts: 1,190 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,717 |
be yourself.. because you'll have to be around him anyway.
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Jan 27 2005, 01:24 AM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
QUOTE(dahding @ Dec 24 2004, 11:02 AM) well, talk to him more. u can ask him to teach u how to skate and all, but don't all of a sudden turn goth/punk cause then u might look like a poser to him. yup it might be obvious you're just doing it to impress him... unless you skate already. but he must be a normal guy too, so just be really friendly and everything
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Jan 29 2005, 11:14 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 4 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,187 |
i'm a "prep". that's wat every1 classifies me as. i like a skater, so i just starting to talk to him and hang out with him and stuff. skater guys are usually even more excepting than most other guys. they're different in some ways, but i prefer them actually. they know wat they like, and don't change it b/c of some1 else's opinions. ok, but back to getting the guy. just hang out with him, and don't be a complete snob. they're kind of easily impressed. no offense. but ya. i got my skater, so u know! lol.
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Jan 29 2005, 11:17 PM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
Like everyone else said, be yourself.
When I was being myself, this dude who's a skater punk thinks I'm weird. But it turns out he has a girlfriend.
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