Lost and Confused, wanna give me some advice? |
 Dec 22 2004, 11:49 PM
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 thanhnie  Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,059  |
Okie, I know this is in the wrong 'category', but like I feel weird posting it for like EVERYONE to read in the Relationship thing instead of just girls in the Girl's Locker.. So, I wanna see how long I can get away with this being in the wrong spot before they move it. >_<
Anyways, there's this guy that I think is kyoote in my school. Last year, one of my friends said that he liked me since he was always hanging around me and stuff.. but I didn't really think twice about it other than that she was wrong. Well, this year, it still continued and I ended up sharing a locker with him. Then, after awhile.. [and one of my other friends teasing me about it] I think I like him. BUT the thing is, we have nothing in common.. at least I don't think so, and iunno.. he doesn't seem interested?? What should I do? My friend just tells me that I should just go for it and tell him straight out.. but then he doesn't seem like the type to talk about those things ya kno? Well damn.. I wrote like an essay.. [sarcasm] >_< hehe.. I doubt that I made much sense.. but what do you think I should do? =\ |
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| *Kathleen* |
Dec 22 2004, 11:51 PM
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Honestly, just...tell him how you feel. Don't let the opportunity slip between your fingers as sand does. I mean...you'll never truly know how he feels towards you if you don't ask. Communication is a key aspect in relationships, you know.
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Dec 22 2004, 11:53 PM
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thanhnie Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,059 |
Thanks =] I'll try that.. but that's if I can bring up enough courage.. o_O hehe
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| *Kathleen* |
Dec 22 2004, 11:58 PM
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Don't worry, it'll come to you.
 *Hug* Go get 'im.
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Dec 23 2004, 12:03 AM
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thanhnie Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,059 |
lol
 He did hug me today afterschool since it was vacation.. o_O haha jk.. Maybe I will say something.  Hopefully I won't back out once I go back to school.. That would suck.. 
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Dec 23 2004, 12:38 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
You didn't write like an essay. But anyways... I don't think your friend was kidding about it. Just try and listen to your friends for once and go for it. Don't be shy... Just ask him if he really liked you and try to get to know him. Become friends for the first. If you think he's the person who's not really interest on talking that much, then make him the person to sound like he can really talk with people well. ok? there's a lot of guys who are like that meaning they are shy and quiet. But you can make a change you know? so try it for once. good luck!
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Dec 23 2004, 01:16 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
haha same case here. except that i kno who he likes and i dont have any courage. nill, zero.
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Dec 23 2004, 10:13 PM
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thanhnie Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,059 |
Awwz.. >_< For me, I feel like I have no chance because like.. he's Hispanic and all.. and I'm Asian. The Hispanic girls at my school are PRETTY.. and then there are certain Asian chicks who are even MORE pretty.. and I feel like .. well ugly. o_O and then like I'm afraid he doesn't go for Asian chicks you know? =\
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Dec 23 2004, 10:26 PM
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 Oh you'd be surprised Group: Member Posts: 2,406 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,886 |
just tell him your feelings and be completely honest
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Dec 24 2004, 02:02 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
i think you should just tell him straight up & yeah. ask him how he feels & maybe he will like you back. talk about random things & maybe you can find out something you have in common. i guess, try it out, take a chance, you won't know unless you try.
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Dec 24 2004, 08:55 AM
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thanhnie Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,059 |
Thanks everyone. ^_^ I now have like 9 days before I go back to school to not be scared to ask.. >_< lol.. I'm like such a wuss..
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Dec 24 2004, 09:03 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 193 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,964 |
oiy. i hate how like...everyone posts the same thing (i think this guy is cute and i really really really like him...). well if that's so true, then why don't you just ask him out. major duh right there. seriously...the least he can do is say no. how is that going to hurt you?
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Dec 24 2004, 09:41 AM
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 SHUT UP, FIG NUTS! Group: Member Posts: 56 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,161 |
ya know what they say.. Opposites attract. ^-^
much luck.
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Dec 24 2004, 09:45 AM
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 I'm not mean; You're just a sissy. Group: Member Posts: 796 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,520 |
go for it. what've you got to lose anyways
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Dec 25 2004, 09:42 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
go for it ..life is about taking chances.
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Feb 21 2005, 12:58 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 734 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,507 |
QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ Dec 25 2004, 6:42 PM) go for it ..life is about taking chances.  What she said; took the words right out of my mouth. |
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Feb 21 2005, 06:05 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE The Hispanic girls at my school are PRETTY.. and then there are certain Asian chicks who are even MORE pretty.. and I feel like .. well ugly. o_O "You are beautiful, no matter what they say~"
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Feb 21 2005, 06:28 AM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
QUOTE(iloveyourname @ Dec 24 2004, 6:41 AM) ya know what they say.. Opposites attract. ^-^ much luck.agreed.  I think you should tell him!
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Feb 21 2005, 02:00 PM
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thanhnie Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,059 |
Wow.. I didn't think people would post in here anymore, but thanks girls for the replys. =] I sort of didn't tell him at all.. only because now I don't like him anymore.. o_O LoL.. There is this other kid that likes me though and I like him too.. but he's like 6 months younger than me. I don't really care about that.. but for other people who still read this.. What do you think?
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Feb 21 2005, 02:06 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 558 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,872 |
Well.. first you should talk to him more and see if you can find anything you have in common. Maybe ask about bands or somthing? Then you should just tell him!! Go for it!
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Feb 21 2005, 03:33 PM
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 Live Your Own Party Group: Member Posts: 1,261 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,489 |
well, i'm bad at giving this kind of advice because i'm a very spontanious person and i usually don't mind telling people upfront how i feel. so that's what i'd do. but if you're not comfortable doing that, i duno what to tell you. sorriez. =/
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