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 Dec 22 2004, 12:01 AM
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 Want fries with that?  Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,652  |
I have two "friends" who made plans with me, then broke it off and went instead with this one guy. They call me at the mall telling me they broke the plans off. So I'm stuck at home knowing my friends don't care anymore because one of them wrote me an email with a "apology" which also includes breaking off the friendship. So they screwed up my christmas and left me home crying. I dunno what happened..one second we're making plans..the next i'm crying writing an email back to her. One of the friends, a guy didn't even try to contact me. No I am not clingy or anything...but i feel ditched...what do i do?
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Dec 22 2004, 12:16 AM
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I know how you feel. Just don't give up. Usually these things blow over in a couple days. What was the reasoning they gave you?
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Dec 22 2004, 12:22 AM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Ask yourself this...:
What kind of f r i e n d would ditch you? And you should have the right answer. |
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Dec 22 2004, 12:23 AM
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Want fries with that? Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,652 |
She said there was no reason... yeah...that's true about the true friend thing...but i thought they were my true friends...
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Dec 22 2004, 12:26 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
Here's what you do. You go up to them..and smack them. Then you say, Thanks for showing me what a bad friend you are. And then go find some new friends.
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Dec 22 2004, 12:34 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
Find new friends. Go up to them and say THANKS ALOT and walk away. you deserve friends better than this
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Dec 22 2004, 01:36 AM
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Dont stoop to their level. Stand guard and just move on, if they did that to you then they're not real friends. Hang out with some new people, get out of the house, have fun, fake friends are not worth any tears.
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Dec 22 2004, 01:40 AM
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 白人看不懂 !!!! Group: Member Posts: 3,838 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,824 |
ask them why, accept it, and show them up by getting better friends.
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Dec 22 2004, 01:53 AM
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what did you write?
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Dec 22 2004, 08:47 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
i kno how u feel. my friend just broke plans with me this morning. i spent the whole day wondering if she made plans with someone else. anyway. u can always find new friends =].
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Dec 22 2004, 02:41 PM
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 You're a blue eyed lightning bolt. Group: Member Posts: 318 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,896 |
my advice..you don't need them..they are obviously not your true friends..cause a true friend would never "ditch" you..i would try to find some better friends that you can actually trust and make plans with
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