he has a girl, what to do? |
 Dec 21 2004, 05:11 PM
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 RiKACHANtEL  Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230  |
ok- theres this boy who wants to mess around with me and vice versa but, there is one small detail. He has a girlfriend. Now, normally I could care less about a dude having a girl but, for some reason it's bothering me. I don't like him in a boyfriend way (for now) . I just wanna f**k around w/ him...lol...like a booty call. His girl most likely would never find out (and if she did, she aint gon' do shit to me).
What would you do? I just have a sexual attraction to him. Do you think the sexual attraction could lead to me having feelings for him? Or do you yall think I'm a hoe...cause i aint |
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Dec 21 2004, 05:26 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
the reason your considering how he has a girl is probably because you think you will be attracted to him other then just his looks... but honestly thats just not right fcuking around with someone who has a gf....
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Dec 21 2004, 05:28 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
deff. a hoe
 haha i'm j/p w/ u. well if you and him keep up a sexual relationship, you may end up getting actual feelings for him. Which may lead to hurt feelings since he already has a girl. But who knows? he may feel the same way with you. You feelings about someone can change over time.. |
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| *tyedyefroggy* |
Dec 21 2004, 07:44 PM
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You two mess around and he has a girl?
Can we say hoe? j/k. Seriously, honestly I dont think you should mess around with each other since he has a girl. But if you two keep it up, then yeah, you might get feelings for him...but who knows? Try not to get too much into it, keep it 'low' for a while and just see what happens. Be careful though, who knows what his girl can do when she finds out, even if you say she cant do shit to ya, you never know. |
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Dec 21 2004, 07:47 PM
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 Day's Nearly Over Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 |
Get a male prostitute.
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Dec 21 2004, 07:49 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
You guys deserve each other. One's a slut (I didn't say hoe) and the other is like a player. Perfect in each other's arm.
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| *krnxswat* |
Dec 21 2004, 07:55 PM
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Yes, "hope" would be the correct term.
Or, since you didn't want us to call you that, perhaps slut, dirtbag? |
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Dec 21 2004, 08:07 PM
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RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
QUOTE You guys deserve each other. One's a slut (I didn't say hoe) and the other is like a player. Perfect in each other's arm. QUOTE Yes, "hope" would be the correct term. Or, since you didn't want us to call you that, perhaps slut, dirtbag? umm....i see no reason for the name calling. Its not like i do this all the time. This is the first time this has ever happened to me. Yall probably think i'm a "slut" or "dirtbag" because i said that i usually dont care..which it true but, that dont mean shit. oh and name calling doesnt hurt my feeling....sorry to bust your bubble |
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Dec 21 2004, 08:16 PM
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 Lauren loves YOU. Group: Member Posts: 2,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,793 |
i'm not going to say that you're a hoe... but if you "normally don't care about a dude having a girl"? that is pretty damn hoe-ish.
don't get involved with him if he has a girlfriend. how would you feel if you had a boyfriend and you found out he had a booty call? besides, everone deserves a meaningful relationship based on more than just sex. even YOU. acting like a ho. |
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| *krnxswat* |
Dec 21 2004, 08:18 PM
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QUOTE(miss barnes @ Dec 21 2004, 8:07 PM) sorry to bust your bubble No bubble to begin in the first place. |
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Dec 21 2004, 10:00 PM
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RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
QUOTE(yummy_delight @ Dec 21 2004, 7:16 PM) i'm not going to say that you're a hoe... but if you "normally don't care about a dude having a girl"? that is pretty damn hoe-ish. don't get involved with him if he has a girlfriend. how would you feel if you had a boyfriend and you found out he had a booty call? besides, everone deserves a meaningful relationship based on more than just sex. even YOU. acting like a ho. thank you. u gave me your opinion...unlike other people and didnt...nvm...just thank u |
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Dec 21 2004, 11:43 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
I did say my opinion. What did you want me to say? You're a freaking angel? I don't think so. Maybe you just can't handle the truth very well.
And if you don't care about the name calling, why did you post a reply to it in the first place? ------ QUOTE I just wanna f**k around w/ him...lol...like a booty call. If you don't call that being a hoe, what exactly is it then? Whore? |
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Dec 22 2004, 12:07 AM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
That's not exactly what you would call a hoe...but yea..I guess it's OK to have umm feelings for ..errr....mess around with him...I mean when a guy is with someone...i guess he has a more sexual appeal??LOL...LMAO. *ahem*
But...I dont |
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Dec 22 2004, 12:21 AM
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 jellobean Group: Member Posts: 76 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,478 |
well..u should stop seeing him in e 1st place coz u'll b ruining a relationship..im gonna have 2 agree with yummy_delight coz she/he's right..u wont 1 ur guy 2 flirt around outside..yepz..or i would suggest u wait till u're ready 2 go on a serious relationship with him..then u tell him..hmm..but i dun noe whether it'll turn out well..hahaha..so...gd luck!!
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Dec 22 2004, 03:09 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
leave him alone.
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Dec 22 2004, 03:07 PM
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RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
QUOTE(sweetdreamsx3 @ Dec 21 2004, 10:43 PM) I did say my opinion. What did you want me to say? You're a freaking angel? I don't think so. Maybe you just can't handle the truth very well. And if you don't care about the name calling, why did you post a reply to it in the first place? ------ If you don't call that being a hoe, what exactly is it then? Whore? i wasnt even talking about u....and yea the name calling doesnt bother me but i still see no reason 4 it. wow..whore? people still say that word? |
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Dec 22 2004, 03:30 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
then he is cheating on his gf if he fooling around wif you, so ask him to be a pimp or break up with his gf
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Dec 22 2004, 04:28 PM
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 The Bone Collector Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162 |
Friends with "benefits" just isn't going to work out. Stop messing with him, cause that just isn't fair to the girl. You wouldn't want someone messing with your man, now would you? This does lead to the slutish area, so i think you should stop what your doing, unless you acually like him. Messing around can lead to liking him.
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Dec 22 2004, 05:12 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
whatever you feel like, get him or lose him. Or you can wait for them to break up?
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Dec 22 2004, 05:13 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 181 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,555 |
i think that it isnt right for someone who has a girlfriend/boyfriend to mess around with someone else. i mean put yourself in the girlfriend/boyfriends position ... you wouldnt want the person you are dating to do that to you ... now would you?
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Dec 22 2004, 05:25 PM
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what's love anyways.? Group: Member Posts: 297 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,198 |
if u care so much. leave him alone. plenty of fish in the sea.
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Dec 22 2004, 05:33 PM
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 *rawr baby* Group: Member Posts: 821 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,941 |
QUOTE(XKali_chik_4_lifeX @ Dec 21 2004, 6:28 PM) deff. a hoe haha i'm j/p w/ u. well if you and him keep up a sexual relationship, you may end up getting actual feelings for him. Which may lead to hurt feelings since he already has a girl. But who knows? he may feel the same way with you. You feelings about someone can change over time.. I only thought you're one as soo as you said "i just want f**k around" Hmm. Just don't hang around him, you don't want to get caught in the middle of thei break-up or something. |
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Dec 22 2004, 06:01 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 37 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,468 |
Wow
 i was qoin thru the samethinq but now the quy nd his qf broke up nd i dunno if i still have feelins for him..i totally get wanting to mess aroun wit him but not date him. if he nd his gf are serious jus leave it nd qive em sum time who knows they miqht break up too...jus dun qet ur hopez up lolz 
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Dec 22 2004, 09:36 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
QUOTE(miss barnes @ Dec 22 2004, 3:07 PM) i wasnt even talking about u....and yea the name calling doesnt bother me but i still see no reason 4 it. wow..whore? people still say that word? Yeah, people still do. Can't read? And if you aren't talking to me, then don't quote my comment. |
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Dec 23 2004, 10:20 AM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
QUOTE(miss barnes @ Dec 21 2004, 5:11 PM) ok- theres this boy who wants to mess around with me and vice versa but, there is one small detail. He has a girlfriend. Now, normally I could care less about a dude having a girl but, for some reason it's bothering me. I don't like him in a boyfriend way (for now) . I just wanna f**k around w/ him...lol...like a booty call. His girl most likely would never find out (and if she did, she aint gon' do shit to me). What would you do? I just have a sexual attraction to him. Do you think the sexual attraction could lead to me having feelings for him? Or do you yall think I'm a hoe...cause i aint Seduce him into kissing or having sex with you and "accidentally" arrange it so that his girlfriend finds out. They break up, you can date him. There you go. |
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Dec 23 2004, 11:51 AM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
usually when you have a sexual attraction to someone, it turns into emotional feelings. so be careful. and just because she won't do anything to you doesn't mean that someone else won't.
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Dec 23 2004, 09:39 PM
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 and then he died... Group: Member Posts: 338 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,047 |
QUOTE(Frankie_08 @ Dec 23 2004, 11:51 AM) usually when you have a sexual attraction to someone, it turns into emotional feelings. so be careful. and just because she won't do anything to you doesn't mean that someone else won't. iono why everyonez so mean... but girl i kno what u mean... you kno how you feel. you wanna mess with him. nd u kno how hez feeling. he wants to do the same. but what about his relationship? i mean.. if it's really important and serious.. i wouldnt mes it up. but if it's just bla... i mean.. even if u dont mes with him someone else will... and about that someone else mite do stuff to do like the quote said.. it's the same thing.. if his relationship is important.. then the gf will care and will do something about it.. if the relatinoship is not that serious.. then she wont care. u get me? o and is he just a player? i wouldnt f**k around with just a player... gotta be careful with those crazy diseases. -btty. |
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Dec 24 2004, 05:48 PM
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 november 25th,, <3 Group: Member Posts: 473 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,226 |
woah thats a pikkle! lol well umm ur gonnah have to i unno hold back ur feelingz cuz if i was that gee nd i found out..b*tch id beat u down :]
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Dec 24 2004, 09:11 PM
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wow, is that call an " ho " ? pretty interesting topic but kind of disgusting ..
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Dec 25 2004, 11:58 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
ok now lets try not to be these things:
1. Heartbreaker (for the girl) 2. a Whore if u wanna just be his *booty call* even though he has a girl, u think ur messed up in the head and should just distance urself from boys period. |
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Dec 26 2004, 12:07 AM
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 ThePinkPanda Group: Member Posts: 760 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,168 |
I think you're a hoe.
Not trying to hurt your feelings or whatever the f*ck else you think I'm trying to do. I just don't think it's right to have a booty call or mess around with someone you aren't dating or someone who is taken. I would feel so bad if I were his girl. But thankfully, I'm not. Don't you have a conscience? |
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Dec 26 2004, 03:31 PM
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RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
just to let everybody know....we havent did nothing together. we just talk a lot so yea.
i dont think him & his girl are all "in love" because he's always talking to me..i wonder do they ever talk i'm not trying to break them up, i dont want him as a bf i guess i always want what i cant have |
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Dec 26 2004, 06:19 PM
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Dec 26 2004, 06:22 PM
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 ApunBindaas Group: Member Posts: 221 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,464 |
It's not worth it. If he likes you enough, he wouldn't be with his girl. He may want you for a booty call only because he obviously still love his girl
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Dec 29 2004, 03:42 AM
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 I'm slooow Group: Member Posts: 61 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,538 |
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Jan 18 2005, 06:32 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 7 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 86,275 |
I think its will make you seem like a whore (dare i say the old fashioned word)
Keep in mind if you do this, very well knowing that he has a girlfriend, then later on your in a relationship, and your guy goes and whores around with some other girl... you will have no right to complain or throw a fit because what goes around comes around. And i think if you do it, you will sure deserve it back if it does end up happening to you so that you will feel that girls pain. |
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Jan 18 2005, 07:18 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
you want to f**k around with him?! and when he has a girlfriend? i'm sorry but that is low. way low. if you do screw around with him then yes you would definitely be a slut. i'm sorry but, it's true. fine, maybe he'll break up with his gf soon so you won't feel too "guilty". but that's not true, you'd still be guilty. and geez. don't you give a thought for his gf? what if this whole incident was reversed..and you were the girl whose bf wants to cheat on?
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Jan 18 2005, 06:38 PM
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RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
dayum i forgot about this question. well, to let yall know what happened...we just stopped talking like that. we just friends and stuff. I know he still wanna do stuff like that but, i have other things to deal with. we still talk because we got class together but not on the phone or on aim....so
CASE CLOSED.. |
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Jan 18 2005, 08:02 PM
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 free hugs Group: Member Posts: 188 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,202 |
u know a girl will eventually get feelings for da guy even if shes jus fcukin around cuz its inevitable. so dont get hurt hun. cuz he mite just dump u, n ur left feelin like shit.
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Jan 18 2005, 08:52 PM
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 ^say hello to my eye^ Group: Member Posts: 298 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,039 |
QUOTE(bad_girl @ Dec 22 2004, 3:09 AM) leave him alone.  couldnt have said it better |
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Jan 18 2005, 10:48 PM
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 Romantic Soldier Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,422 |
well, i can't say i know much about relationships...but I don't think you should be fooling around with that guy. I mean, if he has a girlfriend...and i'm speaking for girls...I don't think it would feel nice to find out your boyfriend has been having a booty call with some other girl. and I know u said that she would probably never find out...but what if, you started having more booty calls with him. And you end up falling for him hard? And he only wants the sex? then the girlfriend finds out. I think you girls would both be at the losing party.
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Jan 19 2005, 08:29 PM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
he's messing with you when he already has a girl? what a loser.
talk to him first. maybe he's just playing with you. resist your temptations. |
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Jan 19 2005, 08:50 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
one word: compitition!
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Jan 19 2005, 11:24 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
QUOTE(gponce10104 @ Jan 19 2005, 8:50 PM) one word: compitition! You spelled it wrong. |
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Jan 20 2005, 12:18 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 237 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 86,951 |
girl i know wat ur up to haha but honestly dont make this a habbit.. its gona end badly for all 3 of u, esp if u develop feelings for him or the other way around. i dunno jus eat ice cream n ull see..
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Jan 20 2005, 12:24 PM
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 Skateboarding is NOT a crime!!! Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 82,515 |
U must b CRAZY hes got a gf dude seriously thtz CRAZY
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Jan 20 2005, 07:35 PM
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RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
PLZ READ ON THE 1ST PAGE...I SAID THAT ME AND HIM WERE FINISHED!!! SOMEONE CAN CLOSE THIS IF THEY WANT TO
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