high school/young relationships, what do you think? Options

[*stephinika*]

i don't know if there's another topic like this...i don't think so but if there is, mods are welcome to close this.

i was just curious on other cb members' opinions on high school/young relationships. do you think they're fun? pointless? do you believe its possible for them to last? for there to be 'true love' in them? for some to actually go beyong high school??

i think they are fun, and a good learning experience. and yes i believe there can be love and for them to last beyond high school, but the possibility of that actually happening isn't very high, but yeah its definitely possible.

[Wishful Thinking]

i think there was a topic kind of like this before.. but i'm not sure hehe. x_x oh oh~ yaaa.. relationships in high school may last. but it's kind of rare. some of my friend's parents dated since high school~ but they were really in love so yeahss.. they've been in love for a veryyy long times. x_x but like i said, it's rare to happen but it can =D

[comeupon]

God can you imagine being with the same person since freshman year till you're like 80

[kellyannie]

my mom actually married her high school boyfriend (my dad)...they'd probably still be together but he passed away just sayin so it is possible.. you could be sitting in class with your future husband and not know it

[Wishful Thinking]

you could be sitting in class with your future husband and not know it

that's a scary thought.

[*Weird addiction*]

they r def. fun, i mean i dont want to get married to my high school boyfriend

[Nicolatofu]

they're just fun. it's also to find what kind of guy you are really interested in and may even want to marry someday. Some people get married to the person they were with in high school. i think thats so cute!

[_sarcastic_]

i think they're fun, those that can last till way past high school are pretty rare but it can happen. the thought of marrying my high school bf is cool and freaky at the same time *looks around*

[sweetdreamsx3]

Yes, it's possible to last. My friends have been going out for about two years now starting from freshman year.

[anger_is_my_frie...]

hmm i dunno, cuz people say that you find your real love in college when you're more mature and not all like hormonal.. but i guess it is possible to find true love in high school, but i'm a pessimistic person and i always think about relationships in like worst-case-scenario to keep myself safe from heartbreak(maybe that's why i'm single?) but nevertheless high school relationships sure are fun, i don't know why but it's just interesting but like my friend, every single time she dates a guy she starts like thinking "i wonder when we're gonna get married" and crazy thoughts like that, but then after they break up you just kinda know it's gonna happen, i mean, it's high school.

[eboarder2020]

People can fall in love at anytime... I always believe that when we fall in "love" when we are young we are actually "in love".... The thing is that throughout our years we learn to love more... So when we fell in love in elementary school is now different when we are in high school. The love cycle just keeps growing and growing to eventually get married and love with the greatest desire. The chances of high school relationships lasting are slim however it has happend. Its not unherd of... Like the saying goes "One upon a time can happen anytime"

[*stephinika*]

The love cycle just keeps growing and growing to eventually get married and love with the greatest desire.

aw i love how you put that.

[ArtificialBlonde]

i believe that most of these relationships are just based on physical attraction..but there are those rare relationships that actually last that are based on physical and emotional attraction..where each person puts all their trust in the other..but i do know a few people who have parents that were high school sweethearts..it's definitely possible..dating in high school really helps you see what your future companion(s) might be like

[KACIE810]

i think young pre-teens can do whatever they can. they have bf or gf but, i think they shouldn't go too far.

[miss barnes]

i think they're fun...help you for the future

[Fatality]

They only become pointless when you meat a person,
Know them for a few weeks,
Then tell your friend your in love with that person and you guys will always be together...

Then there pointless.

[177emories]

i believe in high shcool relationship cause thats what i want to happen to me... and it could last IF both sides want to... but these kinda of relationships rarely occur... and i think that dating at a young age is pointless... like 12 years old and dating... whats the point of it? do you really think its much fun? eh,,

[The 1 and only J...]

well yeah i used to think that they were pointless only cause i listened to wat my friends said. but i think that they could last.... and you do learn from them. like one of my friends have been going out with this one girl for about 2 in a half years and it doesn't seem like they are gonna break up soon or in the future.

i just wish i could find a girl like that.

[Shattered_Hope]

High school relationships that last are rare..but there are some that survive through hardships that they face in life when they are out of high school, these are mainly because of t r u e love. However, some don't, but yes, they are a good learning experience. The majority of high school relationships normally don't last. When you finish high school..there's a very high chance you will part ways because of the different roads that you have to follow to fulfill your life long dream. Neither are willing to sacrifice the dream so they must give up the relationship.

[*tyedyefroggy*]

I do believe its possible to find love in a highschool relationship...but I dont think they will ever last beyond HS. Though I have been proven wrong by this local highschool sweet heart couple who recently had a baby...but in public, they dont seem so happy. Ya know? Its like the highschool fantasy has left, but anyways. It could happen and last forever but eh, who knows.

[x3_bangbang]

I think that highschool and young relationship are a good thing. It helps people figure out a little of what they're looking for in a relationship and can save them the trouble of figuring it out when they get older. Also, it's a great learning experience and it can help them know how to handle certain situations when they get into a serious relationship as you grow older.

Unfortunately, most of us are growing and maturing during high school, which is probably why most high school relationships never last. But, some do.

[christiee_nax]

it really depends on how the two people are like and whats their views, how mature they are, etc