how can u let someone down easy? |
 Dec 21 2004, 12:42 AM
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like when u get asked out.. and totally do not like the guy. how can u let him down easy? just wondering..
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Dec 21 2004, 12:50 AM
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 hi Group: Member Posts: 630 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,163 |
You can say "You're a nice guy. But I don't like you. Sorry. I know there is someone out there for you, but it isn't me."
Or you can say "You're joking, right? Haha! That's funny." Or you can also say "Ummmmm...NO! EW!!" Or you can also say "Sorry, but I'm not interested in dating right now." |
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Dec 21 2004, 12:52 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
Or you can say "I really like this other guy, but I'll love to be friends."
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Dec 21 2004, 12:54 AM
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"Awww, that's soo sweet, but see I consider you as a close friend and nothing more"
I don't know |
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Dec 21 2004, 01:22 AM
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 I'm Dan... and no I'm not gay. Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 9,977 |
personnally i cant say ur words but i can tell u what not to say
these are famous women lines that kill men 1 Dont say can we still be friends 2 Dont say its not u its me 3 Dont send ur friend to do it 4 u 4 Dont act as if he/she joking 5 Dont run away 6 Give a straight answer and dont wait a long time ya well thats all i can think of right now but those are donts on the subject Good Luck  
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Dec 21 2004, 01:23 AM
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Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
how about saying "i'll sleep on it" and never reply? lol.
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Dec 21 2004, 01:25 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,624 |
^^ That sounds so mean. Haha. Don't say that. =P
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Dec 21 2004, 01:37 AM
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 LiLaZnGurL Group: Member Posts: 969 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,072 |
jus break up wit him b like umm thinks arnt working out and ur not my type sry.. i hope we stay frds tho
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Dec 21 2004, 02:10 AM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
"Let's just be friends..."
"I'm not interested in a relationship right now" "My parents won't let me date." -for this line, if you've dated someone before, then say "My parents won't let me date anymore." "I'm interested in someone else right now... sorry." "You're a sweet guy/girl, but I just don't have any feelings for you. I'm really sorry. You deserve a girl/guy who will make you happy and will like you back." And give him/her a sweet smile 
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Dec 21 2004, 02:54 AM
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 RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
i have this problem...but the boy just wont give up...and to make it worse me homegirl keeps messing w/ his head & telling him to keep asking until he wears me down and all this...he asked me to the crystal ball...its in FEBUARY!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Dec 25 2004, 11:15 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
say that you're sry adn you're already interested in someone else..and then tell him what a nice guy he is...
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Dec 25 2004, 11:19 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
If you say that you don't want a boyfriend at the moment,
and he catches you with another guy the next day, you're officially screwed. So just say you're not interested. Or say what you say when you're refusing drugs 
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Dec 25 2004, 11:46 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
QUOTE like when u get asked out.. and totally do not like the guy. how can u let him down easy? just wondering.. i would either tell him this "I think of u like a brother..sorry" "im not really looking" "I like you and all but not like tht" yah.. |
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Dec 26 2004, 01:01 AM
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 Turn your lights down low... Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,472 |
Just tell the truth becuz alot of times even though u may feel a lil bad its better than if u use the whole "my parents wont let me" or "im not interested in a bf right now"....u might find someone else u really like and go out with and they will realize it was just a line u were giving them.
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Dec 27 2004, 04:24 AM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
iono..i think its sorta spontaneous.
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Dec 27 2004, 04:38 AM
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 skaters gonna skate. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,861 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,336 |
I'd just tell the truth.
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Dec 29 2004, 04:27 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
tell the truth eventhough it will hurt the guys feelings..alot. i did that once and it sucked
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| *stephinika* |
Dec 29 2004, 04:49 PM
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yeah just tell them you don't feel the same way but nicely.
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Dec 29 2004, 05:36 PM
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 I'm not mean; You're just a sissy. Group: Member Posts: 796 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,520 |
no easy way to reject a guy
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Dec 29 2004, 07:20 PM
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 your sweetest sin. Group: Member Posts: 416 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,960 |
"We have too good of a friendship to lose to a relationship."
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Dec 29 2004, 08:25 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
just tell him that he's a nice guy but you just want to be friends.
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Dec 29 2004, 08:27 PM
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 Can't have the hand without the cock. Group: Member Posts: 2,481 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,622 |
lol, i always think of ways to let a guy down easy.. but when it came down to it, a few times.
i always just ended up laughing and saying No. o.o |
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| *Kathleen* |
Dec 29 2004, 08:34 PM
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"GROSS! As if I would ever go out with you. FREAKING IDIOT!" <- That's letting him down pretty easily. Oh, and afterwards, throwing a pie in his face is nice.
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Dec 29 2004, 11:31 PM
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Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
QUOTE "GROSS! As if I would ever go out with you. FREAKING IDIOT!" <- That's letting him down pretty easily. Oh, and afterwards, throwing a pie in his face is nice. hahaa.. ok. |
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Dec 30 2004, 11:36 AM
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 Im gonna eat you! Group: Member Posts: 371 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,383 |
Just be like..
"Your cool, but im not right for you" Thats what i said when my guy friend asked me out, an we are still really good friends. |
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Dec 30 2004, 12:16 PM
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 Smile Like a Retard =D Group: Member Posts: 1,350 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,186 |
tell him that you are sorry and hope we could still be friends?
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Feb 28 2005, 11:36 AM
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 Live Your Own Party Group: Member Posts: 1,261 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,489 |
If I were you, I'd tell them that you like them, but not in that way and they're really sweet for asking and you're really greatful, but you wouldn't feel comfortable as their girlfriend.
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Feb 28 2005, 03:58 PM
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 have u lost ur mind? Group: Member Posts: 512 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,217 |
juss b nice bout it... it horrible if ure crz honest wit the kid... hes got feelins afta all rite?
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Feb 28 2005, 08:00 PM
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I am Sandy. Hear me roar. Group: Member Posts: 1,152 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,896 |
QUOTE(sweetdreamsx3 @ Dec 21 2004, 12:52 AM) Or you can say "I really like this other guy, but I'll love to be friends."  Well, that did NOT work for me. I did that to this one guy who asked me out.. He didn't talk to me for like, a month. |
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Feb 28 2005, 08:03 PM
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 I'm just a little bit crazy... Group: Member Posts: 1,119 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,760 |
QUOTE(Euphoria Rose @ Dec 20 2004, 11:50 PM) Or you can also say "Sorry, but I'm not interested in dating right now." I used that one. Just be completely honest about it. Don't lie, just hurts more. |
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Mar 1 2005, 08:05 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(lilphoenix @ Mar 1 2005, 9:03 AM) Just be completely honest about it. Don't lie, just hurts more. Actually, at first they won't realize you're lying.. but when you're busted, prepare to wear a gas mask for the rest of your life. 
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Mar 1 2005, 03:04 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
I told this 8th grader today " get over me i dont like you " hehe but hey he was trying to kiss me X_X
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