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 Dec 16 2004, 07:37 PM
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 Tinay  Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,050  |
It's been bugging me lately w/the whole presents thing that you give someone a present and they're like "oh thanks, it's great bla bla bla" but like when someone gives them another gift they're all like "OMG! I love you. THANK YOU SO MUCH!" I mean, maybe my gift sucks but yeah, it still makes me feel kind of bad. And you know i actually thought my present would mean something. You see he's not having a Christmas because his familia's moving on the 30th and he kept complaining about not having a christmas tree...so i got him one. But like when someone gets him some home made duct tape wallet, he goes crazy over it. A friend told me he didn't have to tell me how much he loved it seeing as he prob got that it meant alot to him, but i don't know....yeah i'm just ranting. Sorry.
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Dec 16 2004, 08:14 PM
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what did you give him?? is he your boyfriend?
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Dec 16 2004, 08:24 PM
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 There is a light that never goes out.... Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,044 |
I think it's the fact that you gave a gift and he just kind of went "Oh yeah....whatever." No matter what you give, when that happends you feel pretty hurt. I think it's the fact he didnt like it maybe in the way you hoped it would. Lord knows thats happened to me enough. =\ But anyways, even if he felt he didn't need to tell you, it still makes YOU feel better to know, instead of having your feelings hurt.
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Dec 16 2004, 08:26 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
hmm.. your pretty thoughtful. nice gift btw.
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Dec 16 2004, 08:33 PM
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Tinay Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,050 |
Oh he's my best friend....kind of the guy i like. But i mean does that usually happen. Will yall just brush it off or what?
Oh and thanks. I mean he showed mucho love towards it....but none towards me u know? |
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Dec 19 2004, 12:27 AM
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maybe he's just being a guy. just brush it off. or if you really are curious, ask his friends about what he thinks of it. orrrr ask one of your guy friends if they were in the same situation to see what his reaction would be as well.
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Dec 21 2004, 05:42 PM
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Tinay Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,050 |
Thats the thing. Like he has aquaintances, but i'm his only best friend. He basically talks to only me about everything.
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Dec 21 2004, 10:15 PM
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QUOTE(xj_liana_tx @ Dec 16 2004, 8:14 PM) what did you give him?? is he your boyfriend? didn't she just say that she got him a tree?!...gosh people can be so wats the word...dumb?....well i guess he was soo overwhelmed by the gift he wanted to so something soo nice..that he didn't want it to sound too nice...you knoe? anyway peace out ~ the one who gives crappy advice to teennagers who give thoughtful gifts |
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Dec 21 2004, 10:25 PM
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Aww that's really sweet of you! And really thoughtful too. Iono what to say. Maybe like sheddingtears said, he's just being a guy or he doesn't know how to show emotions that well..
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Dec 21 2004, 10:29 PM
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I think you could have done better. Come on, a christmas tree? What is he going to do, leave that in his room after Christmas? You could have gave him something, shoud I say, more meaningful.
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Dec 21 2004, 11:30 PM
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Tinay Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,050 |
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Dec 21 2004, 10:29 PM) I think you could have done better. Come on, a christmas tree? What is he going to do, leave that in his room after Christmas? You could have gave him something, shoud I say, more meaningful. Like maybe God giving you a heart......oh wait, he didn't. |
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Dec 21 2004, 11:39 PM
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QUOTE(tina_dc @ Dec 21 2004, 11:30 PM) Like maybe God giving you a heart......oh wait, he didn't. He's gonna take that as a compliment. Just ignore him. Anyway, I think that's really sweet, esp. when he kept complaining. Whiner. |
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Dec 21 2004, 11:45 PM
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Tinay Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,050 |
QUOTE(sweetdreamsx3 @ Dec 21 2004, 11:39 PM) He's gonna take that as a compliment. Just ignore him. Anyway, I think that's really sweet, esp. when he kept complaining. Whiner. hahahaha i will. Thanks |
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Dec 22 2004, 12:03 AM
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 Oh you'd be surprised Group: Member Posts: 2,406 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,886 |
lol seems like action is starting here. but yeah youre thoughtful but you shouldve thought before you gave it to him.
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Dec 22 2004, 08:37 AM
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hey, he'd have something to put his presents under^^
isnt that great? |
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Dec 22 2004, 11:17 AM
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Awesome idea, dont worry about. You gave him something 'useful' and not.....well......duct taped home made..... xD
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Dec 22 2004, 11:49 AM
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Tinay Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,050 |
QUOTE(jr0h @ Dec 22 2004, 12:03 AM) lol seems like action is starting here. but yeah youre thoughtful but you shouldve thought before you gave it to him. thought about what? |
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