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 Dec 13 2004, 08:48 PM
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 fallingaparttosongsabouthips&hearts  Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,054  |
Okay so I really really like this kid. and he really really likes me too. ive only liked him for a month but there are girls who have liked him for a while now. Some of them are some of my really really good friends and i feel kinda bad that he never liked them after all that time but now we both really really like eachother and want a relationship. should i feel bad at all? or just be happy?
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Dec 13 2004, 08:53 PM
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 [.:Wolf's Rain:.] Group: Member Posts: 37 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,407 |
Eh well its hard for you to not feel bad for your friends but if you both like each other then go for it.
If theyre really your friends they should understand how things are. |
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Dec 13 2004, 09:04 PM
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 whatever d00de Group: Member Posts: 1,349 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,060 |
yea ^ ^ what they said
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Dec 13 2004, 09:10 PM
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 I can rot your brain ;] Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,160 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,261 |
Well feel bad for your friend...but if you've only liked each other ...for just a month.
o.O You can be happy but it's not going to bring true happiness. It's only a month for pete's sakes. :O With your friends...well yeah, he doesn't like them...it's not your fault but don't give your one priority to the guy since if that liking for you may one day end, who is going to be there for you? Your friends indeed. :D |
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Dec 13 2004, 09:26 PM
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 I'm Dan... and no I'm not gay. Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 9,977 |
Go for it. Like everyone else said, if they're true friends, they'll understand, but if you're still worried, talk to them about it. I know that's the policy my guy friends and I have... we check with each other to see if it's alright, and everything works fine. Friends should NEVER get in the way of a relationship... a relationship is all about the two involved, and no one else should ever violate that... without a good ass whoopin'
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Dec 13 2004, 09:27 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,087 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,491 |
QUOTE(x Wolf Tearz x @ Dec 13 2004, 8:53 PM) Eh well its hard for you to not feel bad for your friends but if you both like each other then go for it. If theyre really your friends they should understand how things are. 100% agree 
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Dec 14 2004, 03:59 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
QUOTE(x Wolf Tearz x @ Dec 13 2004, 8:53 PM) Eh well its hard for you to not feel bad for your friends but if you both like each other then go for it. If theyre really your friends they should understand how things are. i agree just go for it. |
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Dec 14 2004, 06:03 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
First come first serve right?
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Dec 14 2004, 06:34 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
Don't feel bad. He likes you, you like him. They can't do anything about it.
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Dec 14 2004, 07:00 PM
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 Want fries with that? Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,652 |
I know you must feel bad, but hey the guy can't help who he likes right? It might be a problem if your friends aren't okay if you get into a relationship though.
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Dec 14 2004, 07:03 PM
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 57R4|\|63 1337 |\/|4273R Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,867 |
Just be happy. It's only the thing you can do.
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Dec 29 2004, 03:48 AM
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 I'm slooow Group: Member Posts: 61 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,538 |
Wow...if only i was in his position.
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Dec 29 2004, 12:13 PM
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 The Eurasian Concert Master Group: Member Posts: 484 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,826 |
I'm in the same position, I guess wait it out and see what he does or go for it and be brave (something I can't do
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Dec 29 2004, 01:52 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
well do whatever you want... go for it and be happy... but are you emotionally ready for a relationship AND the aftermath or it? cause like thsoe many girls that like them may flirt with him and stuf and are you gonna get jealous? oir over react when he gets so much attention? i dunno... you gotta think it thur...
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Dec 29 2004, 03:55 PM
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 damn u got owned! Group: Member Posts: 215 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,850 |
feel bad but not that bad.
o and here's a big hint never leave your man in the same room with those other girls. and with love there is no friendships. |
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Dec 29 2004, 06:29 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
BE HAPPY! remind yourself of how rare these things happen, treasure the moments
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Dec 29 2004, 10:12 PM
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 Can't have the hand without the cock. Group: Member Posts: 2,481 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,622 |
Be happy, and make sure you don't let anything that might slip out of their mouths affect you.
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Dec 29 2004, 10:50 PM
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I got it! Invite them all to a "party" one night and just...slaughter them all. Mass genocide is fun!
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Dec 29 2004, 11:43 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
Like everyone else said;;
Go for it. If they are really your friends, they would understand. |
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