my mother doesnt give me any privacy!!! Options

[HaN4RaNg]

i got in an argument with my mom today about privacy. all i said was "can u develope my pictures today? please dont open it b4 giving it to me". i mean, shes done that b4 and i feel like shes trying to catch me doing something wrong or she doesnt trust me. so she brought out all this "what wrong with me looking at them. not like u have anything to hide from me". so we start going at it and she doesnt seem to understand that its not that i have anything to hide from her, but thats how she makes me feel. as if i AM hiding something from her. honestly, who liked it when their parents go through their things like they're looking for something. ugh, its driving me nuts.

[Saeglopur]

3 words: She's your mother.

Think about it.

[HaN4RaNg]

so does that make it right for her to always doubt me and not trust me?
am i supposed to b ok with her intruding my privacy?

[xbr0kensmil3]

that's what i asked my mom and i didn't trust her so i got my friend to develop my pictures. my mom don't trust me that much i guess..
she don't respect my privacy either..err..i need to talk to her...but you could try explaining it to her by saying "oh you were young once and you wanted privacy.." and stuff like that

[ComradeRed]

Pass protect all your stuff.

[pympgangsta4real]

I know what you mean by mothers... at least yours isn't a psychologist. I don't even have any privacy in my own damned brain! Hah hah, well anyway, that's how moms are. The best way is to just let it be and prove that you don't need the privacy, and don't let her know that it bothers you that she hunts through your things. It's like the bully syndrome lol, just ignore the problem and it fades away.

Oh, and might I suggest a digital camera?

[Saeglopur]

so does that make it right for her to always doubt me and not trust me?
am i supposed to b ok with her intruding my privacy?

And.. how old are you again?

[sammi rules you]

i haaaate that. my mom reads my xanga when i leave it open and she reads all my conversations that i leave open. i can catch her doing it cause on my away messages i put "hide all messages", and when i come back, that's deselected and scrolled down to stuff i haven't read yet. uggggh.

[xbr0kensmil3]

i haaaate that. my mom reads my xanga when i leave it open and she reads all my conversations that i leave open. i can catch her doing it cause on my away messages i put "hide all messages", and when i come back, that's deselected and scrolled down to stuff i haven't read yet. uggggh.

my mom does that too.

And today i found out she took my money. I put 30 dollars in my drawer on wednesday and yesterday i found my clothes in the drawer messed up. And 2 mins ago i called my mom at work and she said yea i took the money. I'm all like can't i have any privacy now and she said we'll talk about it when she got home..i can't wait till she gets home