Should i lie?, about my virginity =o |
 Dec 10 2004, 06:51 PM
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i have this new girl. she thinks am a virgin or at least she expects me to be. she doesnt know what happen in my last relationship in which i lost my virginity. should i lie or what?. i mean i know i wanna be honest but i dont want her to feel weird. she is a virgin.
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Dec 10 2004, 06:59 PM
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 I like it like that Group: Member Posts: 1,248 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 5,961 |
you should lie. how will she know? it's not like you two will end up married
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Dec 10 2004, 07:03 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
well you could lie, but the thing that usually causes a failed relationship is lying to each other. it won't make her feel weird, i guess she'll just have to accept the fact that your not, (if you tell her that is).
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Dec 10 2004, 07:11 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
Just tell the truth.
I mean, what if she finds out? |
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Dec 10 2004, 08:03 PM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
just tell her if she brings it up.
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Dec 11 2004, 01:47 AM
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 I'm Dan... and no I'm not gay. Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 9,977 |
Tell the truth. If she can't expect you to be honest with her, whether she knows the lie or not, then I honestly don't think that you deserve her. Just tell it how it is. Hah I remember being able to tell my girl everything, even when she pissed me off because of something we'd tell each other straight up and fix it. Don' try to beat around the bush, you just end up screwin' yourself.
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Dec 11 2004, 01:51 AM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
didn't you post this before?
Or is it just me? anywa.. dont lie. a relationship lies within the truth and whatever is there. 
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Dec 11 2004, 02:55 AM
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gigi =p Group: Member Posts: 3,679 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,206 |
I don't understand why you subject yourself to people who judge you for such trivial reasons. If she hates you for not being a virgin, then frankly, she's not worth having for a friend anyway.
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Dec 11 2004, 02:57 AM
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I'm Dan... and no I'm not gay. Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 9,977 |
Cheers! Good point man, propz on that.
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Dec 11 2004, 03:21 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
being a virgin or not does not make you who you are, so its not that bad if ur not a virgin. She mite feel hessitant to do things with u because it may seem sex and shit mite not be as signifant/meaningful for you, but it really depends if she knows who u really are. You cant have a relationship based on lies, just tell her,it wont hurt.
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Dec 11 2004, 03:26 AM
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don't lie to her, just tell her the truth... if she finds out later she'll probably be hella pissed
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Dec 11 2004, 12:59 PM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
don't lie.
it's bad for you. |
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Dec 11 2004, 02:44 PM
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to lie or not to lie.... u shouldn't lie to her wat if she finds out that would be really realy bad..... >_< lieing in a realtionship is bad.... if u say it upfront she'll think ur werid but if she asks u u should tell her. well hope thiz helpz....
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Dec 12 2004, 12:11 AM
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 Dark Saga Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,315 |
It wouldn't be smart to lie, especially if you really do like this girl.. I mean, why lie in the first place? She can't help what you did before her. =\
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Dec 12 2004, 04:39 PM
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 Unlock the Darkness Group: Member Posts: 305 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,967 |
Absolutely Not. A relationship built on lies is DOOMED to collapse. Tell the truth, and go from there.
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