cheating boyfriend ?, i think my guy is cheating |
 Dec 10 2004, 04:18 PM
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ok well yesterday i saw i red mark on my boyfriends neck which looked like a hicky .. i asked him about it he said someone slapped him , i don't know what to do because i told him yesterday i was gunna check his neck .. and today he was absent . please help me . 
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Dec 10 2004, 04:46 PM
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 sO seDuctivE Group: Member Posts: 291 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,009 |
I think you should look for signs that could really tell you abut cheating other than just a red mark. Like, is he being distant? Blowing you off for some un-known reasons? Does he call anymore, or talk sweet anymore?
If so, then I'd be more concerned and dump his ass...thats what I would do...but his excuse SUCKS, so someone slapped him? On the neck? Is it like redish-purple, does it have a blue tint to it or what? Usually hickies have a purple tint to it or are just red...if it's kinda blueish and greenish, then he probably told you the truth. In my opinion, I think he straight up lied to your face, so ya gotta keep lookin' for clues like that. If you get anymore just say PEACE THE F*CK OUT. |
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Dec 10 2004, 04:49 PM
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QUOTE(x3chrissyx3 @ Dec 10 2004, 4:46 PM) I think you should look for signs that could really tell you abut cheating other than just a red mark. Like, is he being distant? Blowing you off for some un-known reasons? Does he call anymore, or talk sweet anymore? If so, then I'd be more concerned and dump his ass...thats what I would do...but his excuse SUCKS, so someone slapped him? On the neck? Is it like redish-purple, does it have a blue tint to it or what? Usually hickies have a purple tint to it or are just red...if it's kinda blueish and greenish, then he probably told you the truth. In my opinion, I think he straight up lied to your face, so ya gotta keep lookin' for clues like that. If you get anymore just say PEACE THE F*CK OUT. yeah, that seems like some good advice, good luck with everything |
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Dec 10 2004, 10:11 PM
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 We are the cure. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,936 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,456 |
You're paranoid. It's just an irritation, there are loads of things it could have came from.
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Dec 10 2004, 10:13 PM
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well, if it was a "slap" mark..then why is it a small spot and no HAND mark? and why would someone slap him in the first place...oh well. if i were u id investigate some more.
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Dec 11 2004, 03:39 PM
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confront him with the subject or look for any different things about him.
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Jan 5 2005, 06:02 PM
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i don't think slaps look like a hickie! and why get slapped on the neck? by who? you know! you gotta ask more questions!!! and ask like you KNOW he cheated so that he'll have to tell you the truth... i dunno how deep of a relationship you are in... but if its nothing big... i THINK that NOT finding out id better .... would you rather know that he DID cheated on you and end up breaking up or ruin ur relationship or have him realize what he did wrong and treat u better... but if u see it mor ethen once then theres problems.... seriously if he knows that he has a gf, WHY would he let a girl put a hickie on him right?
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Jan 5 2005, 06:39 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
I think you should talk to him about it.
Tell him you're concerned about the relationship and where it's going. Like Nick said, it COULD be an irritation.. or it could very well be a hicky. Either way, talk to him about it. Communication is the KEY to a successful relationship. |
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Jan 5 2005, 07:03 PM
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 Change Gon Come Group: Member Posts: 2,286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,822 |
ok girls do this thing at my school, where they pinch your neck really hard so it looks like a hicky. iono..maybe that happened to him. just do what everybody else said.
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Jan 5 2005, 07:40 PM
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Why would he let someone pinch his neck? I say that you shouldn't jump to conclusions because I do that a LOT and you always end up unhappy... with me anyway. Talk to him about it before you accuse him of cheating.
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Jan 5 2005, 07:41 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 310 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,834 |
Btw, I didn't mean for that to sound mean... =)
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Jan 5 2005, 07:53 PM
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 Yea Yea. Group: Member Posts: 837 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 79,366 |
hii i dont think you should worry right now... talk to him the next time you see him. has he been activing differently towards you lately too? see if he's been hanging with another girl a lot if u see him around. keep watch for something besides the red mark, if he dont act different and everything else goes well. don't worry.
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Jan 5 2005, 09:10 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
grab him and talk to him about it. but how can it be a slap on the neck when it looks like a hickey -.- but don't jump to anything, find out more on whta's going on, if he is cheating then dump him
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Jan 6 2005, 05:04 AM
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is a hickey like a lovebite? hmm.. do u seriously not remember giving him one?
ever considered it to be a mosquito bite? |
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