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TreesTurnMeOn
post Dec 7 2004, 08:38 PM
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Okay..My boyfriend that I have had for 6 months now cheated on me with my friend. He called me crying and said that he didn't even think about what he was doing, it just happened. He said he realy loved me and that he wished he had never done it and that he didn't want us to break up. I talked to his friend and he said that he was moping around all day and he just wasn't himself..I don't know what to do, none of my friends care, and I just need some advice. Can anyone help me?
 
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post Dec 7 2004, 08:42 PM
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well what exactly do you mean he cheated on you? they made out or did stuff??

personally i would probably dump him. if he was stupid enough to cheat on me once, theres a chance he'd do it again.
 
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post Dec 7 2004, 08:44 PM
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He felt her up..I don't realy know if that is worse than making out or not...but I am so confused...
 
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post Dec 7 2004, 08:44 PM
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YES!
 
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post Dec 7 2004, 08:46 PM
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I did break up with him but I don't know if I could keep it that way because..I cant live without him. I have this empty pit in my stomach, it's like he took my heart with him when he left..I don't know, it sounds cheesy..
 
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post Dec 7 2004, 08:48 PM
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I would say what they said, but you can't just react instantly. He could really mean that he's sorry, but then again.. has he ever lied to you anything before? I mean stephinika has a point. He could do it again.. it's always possible.
 
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post Dec 7 2004, 08:49 PM
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[FONT=Arial][SIZE=1]He caled me crying and was choking on his words....and he never lied to me before about anything..I....gosh, i don't know how I can go on without him ><
 
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post Dec 7 2004, 08:49 PM
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^ totally agreed.
if i found out MY boyfriend was cheating on be, i basically wouldn't care because i'm ready to dump him anyway.
if he cheats, it's his problem. i think he's totally lying about loving you. he's probably been using you the whole time.
breaking up, is giving HIM the consequences.. not you.
 
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post Dec 7 2004, 08:51 PM
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Okay..thanks..I think I am going to go call him and tell him it's finally off. Besides, there has to be more guys out there, right? Dear me..I sound old. Well, thanks guys..
 
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post Dec 7 2004, 08:53 PM
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rip his heart apart!!
 
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post Dec 7 2004, 09:01 PM
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QUOTE(TreesTurnMeOn @ Dec 7 2004, 8:51 PM)
Okay..thanks..I think I am going to go call him and tell him it's finally off. Besides, there has to be more guys out there, right? Dear me..I sound old. Well, thanks guys..

That's the spirit! =P hehe.. Don't worry, you'll get over it soon, and it was his lost for doing that. ^_^
 
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post Dec 7 2004, 11:11 PM
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good decision..im not sure if i would be able to trust him cuz there is a major chance that he would prolly do it again
 
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post Dec 7 2004, 11:44 PM
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QUOTE(tungtwista @ Dec 7 2004, 8:53 PM)
rip his heart apart!!

that's a little harsh.

But if some one cheated on you the you should seriosuly break up..but well you done it already.. let's hope he doesn't do any thing stupid mellow.gif
 
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post Dec 8 2004, 04:09 PM
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if mine cheated on me, i'd prolly dump him. i mean he cheated on you once he could do it again
 
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post Dec 8 2004, 04:13 PM
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dump the mother effer
 
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post Dec 8 2004, 04:41 PM
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QUOTE(AngelicEyz00 @ Dec 8 2004, 4:13 PM)
dump the mother effer

rok on lol.. like she said
 
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post Dec 8 2004, 04:55 PM
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uhh
Theres always diffrent fish in the sea ^^ laugh.gif
 
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post Dec 8 2004, 05:03 PM
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And different fishermen too.
 
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post Dec 8 2004, 05:05 PM
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lol XD
 
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post Dec 9 2004, 06:09 AM
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dump him. do it. now.
 
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post Dec 9 2004, 06:21 AM
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dump him pal~ mad.gif
 
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post Dec 9 2004, 11:40 PM
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dump him...if he did it once he could do it again.
 
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post Jan 5 2005, 06:04 PM
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i'd just like to say... EVERYONE DESERVES A SECOND CHANCE!!~ and since he sorry and wa sthe one who confronted you! you should really give him a chnace... can u let him go just like that after everything?
 
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post Jan 6 2005, 05:10 AM
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trust him. if it didn't love u he wouldn't have TOLD u.
 
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post Jan 6 2005, 10:02 AM
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