the signals he gives me, what do they mean? |
 Dec 7 2004, 05:30 PM
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The New Chic  Group: Member Posts: 14 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,867  |
ok well first of all, im in this beautiful relationship, but now my guy is always giing me excuses about how he can't call me. he gives really lame excuses, he'll be like "ohh i can't call you cuz im going to do homework," or he'll say "ohh i need my nap." andhe doesn't hold my hand anymore when we walk dwn the hallways in school, and he never really gives me real hugs?! he gives me like friend taps. it's retarded. and now i don't know if he likes me cuz he tells me he loves me with all my heart! and i love him too! we've been friends for like 2 years and we started dating this year....and i just don't know that he's trying to say? and i want to talk to him about this problem, but i don't know what to say!? please help!!!
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Dec 7 2004, 05:39 PM
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QUOTE(xodc182ox @ Dec 7 2004, 5:30 PM) and i want to talk to him about this problem talk to him about it, ask him what is wrong. tell him its affecting you, he might understand. |
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Dec 7 2004, 05:46 PM
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 There is a light that never goes out.... Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,044 |
Yes, tell him, that would be best. Sometimes, they aren't even aware they're doing that. No, seriously.
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Dec 7 2004, 07:28 PM
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 Master Debater Group: Member Posts: 1,066 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,719 |
Hmmm....this sounds tricky...try....
*walk up to him* "What the fu*k are you trying to say to me?" *wait for response* Problem solved! And yeah, it really is that easy. |
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Dec 7 2004, 07:32 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
How do you call that a beautiful relationship? I'd say talk to him about what's going on.
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Dec 7 2004, 09:08 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
Confront him in a dark alley.
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Dec 7 2004, 09:46 PM
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The New Chic Group: Member Posts: 14 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,867 |
well it was a great relationship, until all this mess happened....
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Dec 7 2004, 09:55 PM
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 :hammer: Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,849 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,700 |
You seriously need to talk to him about it.. it sounds like he's.. I don't know? Avoiding/hiding something from you?
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Dec 7 2004, 09:57 PM
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QUOTE(WildGriffin @ Dec 7 2004, 7:28 PM) Hmmm....this sounds tricky...try.... *walk up to him* "What the fu*k are you trying to say to me?" *wait for response* Problem solved! And yeah, it really is that easy. HAHA YOU'RE BACKKKKKK 
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Dec 7 2004, 10:00 PM
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 Change Gon Come Group: Member Posts: 2,286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,822 |
talk to him about it; tell him you've noticed these things that have changed. Ask him what's changed with him.
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Dec 8 2004, 01:16 PM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
Ever think that he needs to do Homework or Maybe he does need his nap! Okay...eff that this dude is a sap! I tell you what follow my instructions:
Walk up to him... Grab his balls and squeeze... Then be like "Look here hoe... You love me right... Then tell me whats wrong or Il rip your balls off" I think that might work... |
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Dec 9 2004, 05:32 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
talk to him about it, or end the relationship. i personally wouldn't call it a "beautiful relationship"
QUOTE Walk up to him... Grab his balls and squeeze... Then be like "Look here hoe... You love me right... Then tell me whats wrong or Il rip your balls off" I think that might work... hahahh nice idea, that totally amused me. |
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| *Weird addiction* |
Dec 9 2004, 07:33 AM
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tell him how u feel...
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Dec 9 2004, 11:50 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 421 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,135 |
QUOTE(someflipguy @ Dec 8 2004, 2:16 PM) Walk up to him... Grab his balls and squeeze... Then be like "Look here hoe... You love me right... Then tell me whats wrong or Il rip your balls off" I think that might work... i like that! hehehe but you definitely need to talk to him to find out what's going on. guessing won't help. |
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Dec 9 2004, 06:58 PM
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 i love you <3 Group: Member Posts: 45 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,884 |
QUOTE well it was a great relationship, until all this mess happened.... wow..thats kinda like the same thing that was happening to me..and i talked to him about it and he said "things hav changed" and..yea..then we broke up... 
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Dec 9 2004, 09:08 PM
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 free hugs Group: Member Posts: 188 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,202 |
dont take that shit from him. i use those excuses too, btw. if he REALLY wanted to talk to u or w/e, he would. so u go up to him n b like
"bitch u better b straight wit me!!" |
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Dec 9 2004, 09:46 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
Yes, do what ComradeRed said: "Confront him in a dark alley."
You need to talk to him about this. He's pushing you away, for a reason. Maybe he doesn't want people to think you two are dating anymore? But "just friends?" That could be the issue. I'm not saying that it esactly is; his signs are confusing. Maybe he's secretly dating someone else and tries to avoid you, or tries to make it so that the person he's dating doesn't realize yoo two are still together? *shrugs* who knows. Anyway, He says that he "loves you???" WTH.. You two have only been recently dating "this year?" And you two have known each other for two years.. MAYBE.. JUST MAYBE.. he only truly wants a "just friends" type of relationship, but loves you "as a friend." Talk to him a bout it. What if he's ashamed of being known as to have been dating you? Who knows. But one thing's for sure: you two are not in love. Don't use the words love too loosely. Seon Ho, you and your off-topicness and randomness. |
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Dec 11 2004, 09:37 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
he seems to me like he had a talk from someone and that talk made him realize something, and that effected your relationship
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Dec 11 2004, 11:23 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,401 |
just tell him how you feel. remember to say "this is the way i feel" and not "you are doing this" because it keeps a lot of crap on the downlow.
just be honest with him, tell him all you want is an honest answer. tell him how he is confusing you and hurting you. but be kind about it, and accept whatever anser he gives you. good luck, sweetie. the first time is always the hardest. |
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Dec 11 2004, 11:37 PM
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there's a reason why he's doing all of this friendly gestures. If you're hesitant to ask him why, try asking his friends about it. (they will most likely not spill a word, since they're on your bf's side). If this is going on for a week or two, I suggest, no, more likely, urge you greatly to have a serious talk with him, otherwise it could be a sad end to a once beautiful relationship.
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Dec 12 2004, 04:43 PM
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Tell him you feel. Maybe he isn't aware of what's going on. Or maybe he has no interest in you.
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Dec 12 2004, 04:45 PM
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 Unlock the Darkness Group: Member Posts: 305 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,967 |
QUOTE(x_angawhomps @ Dec 7 2004, 10:55 PM) You seriously need to talk to him about it.. it sounds like he's.. I don't know? Avoiding/hiding something from you? Bingo!! |
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