ABORTION, what would you do |
ABORTION, what would you do |
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say it was a one night stand, for whatever reason, broken rubber or anything, u got pregnant. would you keep it? or just simple, do u agree with abortion
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i guess its easier for me to say keep it but i dunno its a hard desicion i guess it depends on my living situation, and if i couldnt then i would give it up by abortion. harsh maybe...but its my opinion
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i wouldn't have the guts to get an abortion, and i know my m om would help me raise the baby. Either that or find it a home where someone who can't have babies would love him/her.
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I love you <33333 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 ![]() |
i would have the kid. i mean, i guess that would be my conciquence for having sex period....
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wow you guys all have hearts :D
i mean yea i agree it really depends on the situation |
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POWAPOSTA ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 ![]() |
abort.
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abortion for moi.
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Abortion.
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i wouldnt get an abortion!!!
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#10
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QUOTE(angel_revelation @ Dec 4 2004, 12:25 PM) i wouldnt get an abortion!!! ![]() I so agree. |
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I honestly think that abortion should be illegal. I mean why kill something that you could just give up for adoption for someone who can't have kids. I think it's just wrong to kill someone who never even got to see what it was like on Earth. Thats just what I think.
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POWAPOSTA ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 ![]() |
QUOTE i wouldnt get an abortion!!! ohmy.gif i mean that's the concequence for having sex you know? you should deal with it, and if you cant raise it then put it up for adoption have you read what the topic starter wrote? she said " broken rubber or anything, u got pregnant.", so it wouldn't be your fault if the condom broke or anything. |
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i accidently stumbled onto a page with the picture of an abortion thingy.. now iono ><;
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i would keep it. becuase im the one who had sex, i should have to pay the consequences. and i think it is wrong to get an abortion. i am totally against it...
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i would do abortion. i don't like putting babies up for adoptions. i would like to keep the baby....but i just can't
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abort..
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i think getting an abortion is just plain wrong
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QUOTE(XKali_chik_4_lifeX @ Dec 4 2004, 8:28 AM) i wouldn't have the guts to get an abortion, and i know my m om would help me raise the baby. Either that or find it a home where someone who can't have babies would love him/her. same here... abortion just seems so wrong in my point of view. |
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I don't believe abortion is wrong, and it definitely shouldn't be illegal. I admit that it shouldn't be used as a repetative form of birth control, though. ie: "oops! pregnant again? good thing I have daddy's credit card! one more abortion, please!"
In some situations, having the baby would be worse than not having it at all. For instance: if the baby's mother won't be able to raise it properly; if the mother is mentally or physically handicapped; if the mother was a rape victim --> If abortion is made illegal, women who have been the victim of rape will be forced to give birth to an unwanted child, the mother will always be reminded of that horrific crime, and the child will grow up in shame and guilt knowing that he/she was the result of that crime. If it was myself in the situation, depending on my circumstances with school, family, home, relationships, living arrangement, I would probably have the baby and then give it up for adoption. Adoption is a wonderful thing, and I cannot wait to adopt a child when I'm a little older. |
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QUOTE(thriftstoresecrets @ Jan 30 2005, 1:06 PM) I don't believe abortion is wrong, and it definitely shouldn't be illegal. I admit that it shouldn't be used as a repetative form of birth control, though. ie: "oops! pregnant again? good thing I have daddy's credit card! one more abortion, please!" In some situations, having the baby would be worse than not having it at all. For instance: if the baby's mother won't be able to raise it properly; if the mother is mentally or physically handicapped; if the mother was a rape victim --> If abortion is made illegal, women who have been the victim of rape will be forced to give birth to an unwanted child, the mother will always be reminded of that horrific crime, and the child will grow up in shame and guilt knowing that he/she was the result of that crime. If it was myself in the situation, depending on my circumstances with school, family, home, relationships, living arrangement, I would probably have the baby and then give it up for adoption. Adoption is a wonderful thing, and I cannot wait to adopt a child when I'm a little older. I agree |
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In that case I'd just keep the baby. I'm Pro-Choice, but I don't think I would ever get one. But as for the people who would get an abortion, that's their choice, and I believe everyone should have a choice.
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abortion is NEVER EVER right. in ALL circumstances. period.
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i am 100% pro-choice
ppl who think that making abortion illegal would save lives don't see how things were b4, when abortion was illegal...women got illegal abortions, doing it themselves with a clothes hanger or getting a non-professional to do it...women all over america would be desperate enough to do this all over again, and thye would die...you don't even want to know about the things that happened to women when the self-performed abortions...one doctor in nyc has said that one of his first patients was a women who came in after performing an abortion on herself, and her intestines were hanging out of her vagina...guess what, she died...the death toll will go up if abortion i made illegal...i am for a women's right to choose, instead of some 50 year old men who don't have a clue out there in washington dc |
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QUOTE(flyonthewall4590 @ Jan 30 2005, 2:34 PM) i am 100% pro-choice ppl who think that making abortion illegal would save lives don't see how things were b4, when abortion was illegal...women got illegal abortions, doing it themselves with a clothes hanger or getting a non-professional to do it...women all over america would be desperate enough to do this all over again, and thye would die...you don't even want to know about the things that happened to women when the self-performed abortions...one doctor in nyc has said that one of his first patients was a women who came in after performing an abortion on herself, and her intestines were hanging out of her vagina...guess what, she died...the death toll will go up if abortion i made illegal...i am for a women's right to choose, instead of some 50 year old men who don't have a clue out there in washington dc Exactly. |
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QUOTE(flyonthewall4590 @ Jan 30 2005, 4:34 PM) i am 100% pro-choice ppl who think that making abortion illegal would save lives don't see how things were b4, when abortion was illegal...women got illegal abortions, doing it themselves with a clothes hanger or getting a non-professional to do it...women all over america would be desperate enough to do this all over again, and thye would die...you don't even want to know about the things that happened to women when the self-performed abortions...one doctor in nyc has said that one of his first patients was a women who came in after performing an abortion on herself, and her intestines were hanging out of her vagina...guess what, she died...the death toll will go up if abortion i made illegal...i am for a women's right to choose, instead of some 50 year old men who don't have a clue out there in washington dc hm... never thought about that.. her intestines were hanging out?? *barf* |
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i think abortion is not good. you should give it up for adoption.
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*sighs* i think abortion is wrong
pregnancy iS the consequence you have to face... |
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well i hate to say it...but i'd prolly abort it. I guess i would have it maybe if i was older.
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Dude there are so many debates on this in the Debate forum already. This is a warning - don't start any debates; simply state your response. My opinions are there already, and if you read them or knew me, you'd know that my repsonse to this is that I'd have the baby. I don't believe in abortion for many reasons.
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I would have the baby, and if I can't take the responsibility, I would put it up for adoption and hope he/she finds a loving family.
![]() I would never abort it. I do not agree on abortion. How would you feel if you found out you were going to be put on abortion when you were still in your mommy was pregnant with you? If you do something you know has consequences, you have to face the consequences. |
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if you mean keep it as in have it , yes, but if i was a child my self i would give it up for adoption, no abortion
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i don't agree with abortion, so i'd have the baby and either keep it or give it up for adoption depending on the circumstances.
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QUOTE(D1SMANTLED @ Jan 30 2005, 1:33 PM) What about in a case of rape? Have to suffer 9 months? And then have a baby that is ashamed of it's father? Anyways, I probably would get an abortion. A lot of you say 'It's your fault for having sex so you should deal with the consequence of being pregnant.' Well, let me tell you that not everyone chooses to have sex. (rape!) And, not everyone could take care of a baby. Adoption agencies suck and not every child gets the privilege of being adopted and lots of them later hate their real parents for putting them up for adoption. And.. my body is probably not strong enough to carry a baby/ give birth. I would probably die in labor. Is that a necessary consequence for having sex? Should I die while having a baby that might die along with me? Should I take away two lives? Should I have a motherless baby? My opinion. If you disagree, pm me. |
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QUOTE(pikimoo @ Jan 30 2005, 8:40 PM) What about in a case of rape? Have to suffer 9 months? And then have a baby that is ashamed of it's father? Anyways, I probably would get an abortion. A lot of you say 'It's your fault for having sex so you should deal with the consequence of being pregnant.' Well, let me tell you that not everyone chooses to have sex. (rape!) And, not everyone could take care of a baby. Adoption agencies suck and not every child gets the privilege of being adopted and lots of them later hate their real parents for putting them up for adoption. And.. my body is probably not strong enough to carry a baby/ give birth. I would probably die in labor. Is that a necessary consequence for having sex? Should I die while having a baby that might die along with me? Should I take away two lives? Should I have a motherless baby? My opinion. If you disagree, pm me. you do know people that get abortions because they got pregnant from getting raped is only 1% of all abortions? even still, give it up for adoption. i still stand with my opinion. |
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^ Yes, but that was my response to the quote in my previous post.. whereyou said it's not right in any case.. And I believe it is ok if you get raped.
And giving birth is not an easy thing. As well as it can be fatal to many women. Why risk it over being raped? It's like being raped and killed. My opinion stands. |
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i would probably abort.
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too young to have a one night stand.. even if i was older.. i wouldn't have one anyways..
if i did.. i'd abort.. |
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QUOTE(caity_bug2005 @ Dec 4 2004, 1:34 PM) I honestly think that abortion should be illegal. I mean why kill something that you could just give up for adoption for someone who can't have kids. I think it's just wrong to kill someone who never even got to see what it was like on Earth. Thats just what I think. Why kill something that is negative 9 months old that you could give up for adoption? Because you dont want to go through 9 months of hell for something your just going to give away, and then have it looking for you 15 years later. Sorry if im being harsh, but thats life and thats my opinion. I would kill that unborn fetus... |
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i'll prolly keep as i'm the one who got myself into this mess, i guess i would have to live with the consiquences
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it depends on how old u r
but then again u gotta own up to ur "mistake"... |
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![]() ThePinkPanda ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 760 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,168 ![]() |
*cough* Donate to Malaysia before it's born...
Someone could get a good meal out of that. That way, it's benefiting both you, and some hungry Malay person. |
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QUOTE(flyonthewall4590 @ Jan 30 2005, 4:34 PM) i am 100% pro-choice ppl who think that making abortion illegal would save lives don't see how things were b4, when abortion was illegal...women got illegal abortions, doing it themselves with a clothes hanger or getting a non-professional to do it...women all over america would be desperate enough to do this all over again, and thye would die...you don't even want to know about the things that happened to women when the self-performed abortions...one doctor in nyc has said that one of his first patients was a women who came in after performing an abortion on herself, and her intestines were hanging out of her vagina...guess what, she died...the death toll will go up if abortion i made illegal...i am for a women's right to choose, instead of some 50 year old men who don't have a clue out there in washington dc wait wait... how does one perform an abortion on oneself? like...they stick a clothes hanger up...there? ... Holygosh. |
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i will go with abortion if it means less pain
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Depends ... If you will see the boy the next day ya know it might be some one you just wanted to f**k and get over .. and if he would be there to suport you... But i rather be on the street trying to feed Him/Her and my self then kill a poor baby for nothing that the baby did and be in a warm home eating warm food... Because my dad said if i ever did something like that i would get kickedout of my house and be like disowned from my family which is rong but .. ya know what i mean i wouldent be able to live with that for the rest of my life thinking how much of a wonder full life would be... not being alone ever agen ... but then think that i killed it .. I couldent live with my self .
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Im for abortion. I mean some people HAVE to have abortions if they know that if they give birth, they will die so its like saving the moms life. NE who im for abortion so dont try to change my mind
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QUOTE(flyonthewall4590 @ Jan 30 2005, 4:34 PM) i am 100% pro-choice ppl who think that making abortion illegal would save lives don't see how things were b4, when abortion was illegal...women got illegal abortions, doing it themselves with a clothes hanger or getting a non-professional to do it...women all over america would be desperate enough to do this all over again, and thye would die...you don't even want to know about the things that happened to women when the self-performed abortions...one doctor in nyc has said that one of his first patients was a women who came in after performing an abortion on herself, and her intestines were hanging out of her vagina...guess what, she died...the death toll will go up if abortion i made illegal...i am for a women's right to choose, instead of some 50 year old men who don't have a clue out there in washington dc more babies die from abortion than woman dying from self abortions. ![]() |
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well, first off... i would never have a one-night stand. i totally don't believe in that. as for abortion, my personal opinion is that it is wrong. however, i think it is someones own personal decision to have an abortion, they have to live with their decision,so... the only time i feel that abortion is ok is when they are raped or when the baby will be a "vegetable" or having the baby would kill the mother
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I think abortion is horriable. Just think your going to have to life with that for the rest of your life. You will alway`s wonder when your baby was suspto be born, what he // she would have looked life if you didnt give it up. I think your better off to have it then give it up. There are so many family`s out in the world today wanting and cant have children, and they could give it a better home. That`s just my advice i would rather know my child is happier with parent`s that love them then know i killed my own child.
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I wouldn't have an abortion, but I don't think it should be made illegal, because then people would try to give themselves abortions, which is definitely dangerous. So though I would never have an abortion, and I think its your own fault anyway, I think abortion is safer legal than illegal, unless it gets out of hand.
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ID NEVER HAVE AN ABORTION I DONT BELIEVE IN IT ...THINK OF IT IF UR MUM HAD ONE U WULDNT BE HERE TODAY RITE...THE ONLY WAY I WOULD IS IF I HAVE AIDS OR SUMTHING LIKE THAT I WULDNT WANNA BRING A KID INTO THIS WORLD AND THEY HAVE SUMTHIN 2.....ANYWAYS JUT MY OPINION
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Pro choice--
Think about this... Hitlers mom was considering an abortion... 11 million people would've lived if that f*cker would've died. That should put a spin on things. Okay, and if my mom had an abortion no shit sherlock-- I wouldn't be here... but I wouldn't know that I would've had a chance at living either... so it's not really valid to whip out the 'oh if your mom had an abortion you wouldn't be here' shit. But the bigger idea is: if you dont want it, get rid of it. No one has to live with any of their mistakes anymore. If you have enough 'heart' to keep it fine, let the poor thing live in an adoption agency for the first 10 years of it's life. |
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QUOTE(kalopsia7 @ Mar 27 2005, 12:31 AM) Pro choice-- Think about this... Hitlers mom was considering an abortion... 11 million people would've lived if that f*cker would've died. That should put a spin on things. Okay, and if my mom had an abortion no shit sherlock-- I wouldn't be here... but I wouldn't know that I would've had a chance at living either... so it's not really valid to whip out the 'oh if your mom had an abortion you wouldn't be here' shit. But the bigger idea is: if you dont want it, get rid of it. No one has to live with any of their mistakes anymore. If you have enough 'heart' to keep it fine, let the poor thing live in an adoption agency for the first 10 years of it's life. Exactly my point of view. Couldn't have said it better. |
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i would not have the guts to have an abortion
and i dont think i really would have the guts to have one. |
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i wish my mom had had an abortion
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keep the baby. abortions are so wrong, if you are responsible enough to have sex than you're taking on the responsibility of the possibility of a child. after a child is created, it's a human being to and abortion is just a nice way to say murder of such a child.
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I think abortion should totally be legal! Now a days people have sex for pleasure... and yes, they should be prepared for the consiquences but reality is most are not! So I think it depends on the person... If you feel you want one don't let anyone tell you it's wrong. I hate when people, especially men, try to control the rights of women and try to dictate weather or not they're gonna have their baby.... that's just wrong! I'm not saying I would have an abortion because I probably wouldn't! But I'm saying it's nobody but your own place to say weather it's wrong or not.
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it depnds....if i'm still schooling, then i'll go for abortion...
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QUOTE(ItzOnlySydney @ Mar 26 2005, 9:41 PM) What do you mean by that? ![]() I already posted in here but i think i would just have the baby and then find a home for them. I do agree with abortion in certain cases though, but i dont think i would ever kill my baby over my own stupid mistake. |
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I might change my mind if I acutlaly was pregenant...I donno...but right now, the way my life is rigth now, I would get abortion.
I know some ppl don't agree with it, and I gotta dmit I can't really see why...I know you're killing something but it's sometihng that doen'st have a developed brain or pain sensors or anything! It probably doesn't even knwo your'e doing it to them...and by "it" I mean the baby ![]() ...If it was like 4 years later than now and I Was a little bit mroe settled down, knew what IW As going to do with my life, than maybe I'd keep it, I jsut donno, either way ti'd be a really hard, and probably painful decision of the rest of your life. EDIt wait a mintue, I ahve no idea what abortion is...hehe...do you have the baby than kill it? I thouhgt somehow they lazered it inside your body, LOL, I guess not...haha...ya, kiillling the baby when it's born would be hard... ...I agree with above now ----^ I'd probably raise it and gvie it away to a good home cause IR eally couldn't take care of it myself |
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keep, and put the kid up for adoption. stay in touch with the people who adopt the kid. visit. just as long as whoever he or she turns out to be isn't neglected, by me or any other person. whatever makes the kid happy. it's still a life, and i'd want it to be as normal as possible.
yes, even if you're raped. i don't know how to explain how i'm thinking right now. |
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i think if you had a onenightstand. its your fault. and if you dont want it, adoption. abortion is awful. only reason you should be allowed to have it is if you were raped, even then you could put it up for adoption. but if you adopted it out, youd see it maybe and think of the person who raped you and hate the baby.
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no. i hate people that do it. you screwed around and you don't have the nerves to step up for your "mistake"? *GRR people make me mad that do that. you screwed around. now take care if it. if you think about it..you're killing someone that you created because you couldn't keep to yourself. sorry that's just my honest opinion.
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id keep it .......and if i couldnt raise it then i would give it to a family who couldnt have a child ...and still be part of its life
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i wouldn't abort the baby. i mean, who are you to decide the life of a baby? you had the sex- you deal with it.
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Well i'm abit young but in my opinion
People should really only get an abortion if they got raped But if not; they should deal with it because it was their mistake |
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i dont agree with abortion so i'd most likely keep it. my moms would help
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well i dotn agree with abortion but i couldn't tell you what would be on my mind or the reasons everybody has a reason for abortion but you really cant say unless you were in the situation but im not sayign i would or wouldn't i would like to but who knows
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abort if its still an 'egg'
but if its later than that.. then i have no other choice but to give birth to it?! .. i dont like thinking about this pregnancy stuff |
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wouldnt do abortion.id keep it then if i couldnt raise it put it up for adoption so it could have a nice family
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I hate abortion, that's murder. Sum people say ''No, they're still an egg". No, they're alive! That's killing. I will nvr do such a thing. it's juss wrong like a muh-fa.
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QUOTE(thriftstoresecrets @ Jan 30 2005, 4:06 PM) I love you. haha. Well, I'm not stupid enough to have sex before marriage. But, well, yeah. See, I'm predujuce with this topic. Way predujuce. I am adopted and I can't really think about abortion. When I think about it, I think, "That could have been me. I could be the one who died before they were born," and knowing that alone stops me from having sex. Adoption, it is estimated, touches 1 out of every 10 lives in some way, shape, or form. I could tell you negatives about adoptions that you would never guess. Maybe I'll pop back in here later and tell you some of them. I'm not sure. I don't know if I want to give those "secrets" away. If you ever are in this suituation, remember one thing: Abortion is forever, adoption is for love. |
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I think abortion is better. Do u think u can keep the baby well?
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You don't have to keep the baby. You just have to give it away. I mean, it's harder and shit to do that, but it's worth it in the long run. Specially for the kid.
Or are kids who are adopted all "mistakes" who should "burn in hell" (don't ask, I've had people tell me that before)? |
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I wont keep it, i think abortion is WRONG, no excuse for that. Ill give birth to the baby and give it up for adoption "if i want to".
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i wouldn't abort...i would have the baby and depending if i have money to raise it, i'd keep it or give it up for adoption
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Totally 100% against abortion. in all cases. even rape.
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if that happened to me, I would have to face the consequences. I would have it, but give it up for adoption. it would be hard, but I think that's what I would do.
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abort ..
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QUOTE(prayurnotheonly1 @ Mar 30 2005, 2:54 PM) Totally 100% against abortion. in all cases. even rape. ![]() Even rape? WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU??? though i have never been raped before, i highly doubt it is a pleasant experience. In all other cases, the girl decides to have sex but in rape she is forced. no one, NO ONE, should have to go through that. what if the mother's life is in danger? Does it really make sense to kill a mother for the sake of a child who hasn't even been born yet? I'm not saying that killing the child isnt wrong, but isnt making a mother have a child that she ABSOLUTLY does not want or KILLING the mother (because she was raped or she will die if she has the child) a little bit worse? |
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What is wrong with you? i know that rape is probably the absolutely worst thing could ever happen to a person, but if she absolutely doesn't want the child then why doesnt she give it up for adoption. then something good could come out of something that was really terrible. and if the mother was going to die if she had the baby, ya know if ya have an abortion there's always that chance u could die. its not that uncommon. and then what happens if the mother dies neway? i say the mother should have the baby. think of it this way. if u had a child and they were about to be shot wouldn't you do nething in order to save them? wouldn't you protect them? i know i would.
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i understand what u mean but all im saying is that there will ALWAYS be an exception. it might be one in a million but there is still that one small chance. my point is, dont COMPLETELY outlaw abortion, just make it REALLY hard for someone to get one.
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QUOTE(airam @ Dec 4 2004, 12:50 PM) your retarded!!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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personally i think abortion is cruel and immortal...if i really got pregnant in that situation, i would try to keep it, provided that all the circumstances allow me to do so....
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abortion is cruel...they should have never created that..or even the word......ABORTION...sounds crazy to me.
I would keep the baby, but I might have to let my parents take care of it. |
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I don't think I, or anybody, could make that decision until they were in that kind of sittuation... I believe, like a lot of other people, that if the choice is there then you can choose whether or not to use it.
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I am absolutely pro-choice as well. I personally would only get an abortion under serious circumstances, i.e. rape or really bad pregnancy complications.
I do not think the concept of abortion in itself is terribly wrong, but I simply cannot agree with anyone willing to undergo an abortion because of a decision they themself made. |
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if sumn bad happened to me, id get an abortion. i wouldnt have the baby and put it up for abortion. there are too many kids up for adoption and not enough families for them to go to.
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i don't really think about this stuff unless it happens to me and i have to deal with it, but since your asking it all depends on the situation, age etc. like a 12 year old girl got raped and got pregnant or the family and the father of the child aren't willing to help. or a girl had unprotected sex and knew what she was getting into. like i said it depends on the situation. so i can't really say BUT if it was me i wouldn't abort or even give up for adoption. << but it's easier to say that really. but this is just my opinion not a "fact"
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i used to think abortion was wrong, but at 15 i couldnt imagine having something growing inside of me. its just. no. i dont like the idea of it. plus i mean, if abortion was so wrong, it would already be illegal. its someones choice on keeping a baby or not. at 15, i would get an abortion. but as i got to like 18 i wouldnt by then, i should be able to take care of the baby. i dont know. i change my mind alot.
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i'm against it. mai mommy told me a story one day...wen i was in her belly, her friend convinced her to hav an abortion !! buh mai lovely mommy backed out at the last min. i hate her friend now, and wenever she comes over, she's all "omg yu've grown so much !! *pinches cheeks*" -_-
i think the baby wud be very happy to at least get a look at their mommys. keep it//put it up fo adoption and dun kill the baby//dun have sex. i saw this poem online...so sweet, hope it makes everyone realize wat they doin durin abortion. Six weeks old today mommy A birthday gift for me, A pair of big blue eyes through one day I will see. Where are we going mommy with the rain splashing down, when it hits the sidewalk it makes a funny sound. Bang through the big white doors people dressed in green, if they hurt you mommy just run away and scream. Help me mommy they're tearing me apart, there goes my big blue eyes there goes my little heart. I love you mommy, believe me I do but the worst thing is I thought you loved me too. |
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Abortion should be left to the individual girl to decide and they should not be judged by their decision. period. I used to be against abortion but it's not until your put in that situation can you be the one to judge. Girls should have protected sex, your foolish not to. I've never been pregnant but there was several times when I thought I could be due to unprotected sex and it was such a scarey feeling. And at 14, having a baby was the last thing I wanted.
I believe abortion should be allowed and it should be left up to the pregnant woman to decide, no one else. There are a lot of people are against abortion but at what time does the baby begin to have a soul? Can it think? Can it feel pain or does it just react to stimulus? Tell me, do you remember being a baby? Yes it's a human life and yes the girl made a mistake but why have a child grow up in a bad environment? I personally wouldn't have an abortion because I feel I'm old enough that if I became pregnant, that I could handle having a baby. Very young girls should totally have a choice! |
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Pro-life vs Pro-choice is a tough topic...
Both have equally valid points I think. I do believe that abortion is wrong which is why I, myself would never choose to do it. But on the other hand I do not believe I am the person to to say if it is right or wrong. I guess I am pro-choice. I woman has a right to do what she wants. |
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I don't know. I would never have sex outside of marriage, but if I did have sex outside of marriage then I would keep the child because I think people should lve with their mistakes. But, if I was raped that would be another story. Although I can never really say how I would react...
QUOTE(lsra#7 @ May 21 2005, 1:27 AM) how would you like it if your parents killed you before you were even born? Well... you wouldn't know your parents killed you, now would you... |
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I dont agree with abortion at all. (certain personal reasons) and i would keep it. And if i couldnt raise it, give it up for adoption. The have certain types of adoption that where you can be apart of the childs life. Like you can tell the baby that u carried it then joined it with its family, like that was Gods plan. (saw it on lifetime) and i think that would be really neat. but if it was at all possible i would raise it my self if i could give it a decent life. But abortion.... no no no... in my opionion.... Its said that some mothers have nightmares because of it and some get really depressed, cuz there is a lot of guilt that the mother has to deal with. Im cuz there killing a unborn chold that they help concieve. Plus of personal reasons in my own life (i was almost aborted - not going into details) that would keep me from making that decision.
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QUOTE(Tha0 yeu viT @ May 29 2005, 10:16 AM) i'm against it. mai mommy told me a story one day...wen i was in her belly, her friend convinced her to hav an abortion !! buh mai lovely mommy backed out at the last min. Same with me. Accept it was my biological father who was paying for it. The appointment was set and everything. but a friend talked her out of it the night before. So ive never meet my real father.(they were in college) Things like that definatly make you think. Its kinda scary. Think of all the aborted babys. What if one of them was suposed to cure cancer, or something great. Then you get cancer and hes not around to save you. Or that baby was suposed to be born a couple of months ahead of you, and if he would have you would have been happily married? Theres thousands of baby that have never got the chance to live outside of the mommies tummy. This was written on the bathroom stall at my high school. It may seem a little rude to some of you, but i agree. "Dont f**k if your gonna kill the baby" its kinda commen sense. Sex produces a baby. If you arent ready for a child, dont want one, dont have sex. Thats why the bible says for sex to be in a marrige relationship, bcuz then the baby will have a home.. |
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QUOTE(kcgirl91 @ Mar 30 2005, 10:59 PM) Even rape? WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU??? though i have never been raped before, i highly doubt it is a pleasant experience. In all other cases, the girl decides to have sex but in rape she is forced. no one, NO ONE, should have to go through that. what if the mother's life is in danger? Does it really make sense to kill a mother for the sake of a child who hasn't even been born yet? I'm not saying that killing the child isnt wrong, but isnt making a mother have a child that she ABSOLUTLY does not want or KILLING the mother (because she was raped or she will die if she has the child) a little bit worse? Abortion will not get rid of the fact that you were rapped. it will not get rid of the pain and hurt that comes from the fact that that happened to the mother. It probably only make it worse. Because then they have to live with the fact that they killed their baby. If she still doesnt want it at birth (which is a slim possiblity) then she could give it up for adaption. And there are other ways that could save the mom than aborting it. Theres C-sections and other procedures. And if shes at threat to die, and wasnt raped and is a teenager it is kinda her own fault for having sex. |
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But, for some women, having to give birth to a child that was the product of rape would just be too much to handle and yes, you could give it up for adoption. But if you didn't then you would always have that little reminder of your rape. It's the woman's choice (if they were raped.)
But, then what if they were raped at age ten or eleven.... Frankly, there's just to many what-ifs. We can't say what any of us would do until it happens to us. We don't know how our minds would react and hopefully we will never know. |
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