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 Dec 1 2004, 07:46 PM
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Senior Member  Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,739  |
wut do u do if a guy likz u but u dont lik him, but u dont want 2 hurt hiz feelingz?
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Dec 1 2004, 07:50 PM
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 a dorkie lil gurl Group: Member Posts: 65 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,392 |
 awwwwwww that's a tough situation >< Just beak it to him gently and tell him if you can be friends instead and maybe advance from there?
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Dec 1 2004, 08:05 PM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
ugh, yah i def been there before.
 honestly, there is nothing you can say that will guarentee that he won't get hurt, so get outta that mindset right now..  The best thing you can say to him is the truth. I mean this poor boy really likes yah, and the best thing is to give him the honest truth. but be nice and soothing and touching his arm or something when you tell him all this helps too  lol don't sweat it girl, def don't lose sleep over this. Just tell him the truth
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Dec 1 2004, 10:49 PM
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 raaawr. Group: Member Posts: 172 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,242 |
dammit those are like.. the hardest situations. anyways, for now, just try to "not notice" him too much, just look at him sometimes or talk to him casually. and remember, playing never helps at all
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Dec 2 2004, 04:22 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
either tell him that you think hes a great friend and thats all...or be sly and say you have a boyfriend/like someone else...or have someone else say it.
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Dec 2 2004, 04:25 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,498 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,711 |
just tell him. he might not get hurt after a while. if hes still sad and depressed then tell him they could jus be regular friends
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Dec 2 2004, 04:29 PM
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 whatever d00de Group: Member Posts: 1,349 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,060 |
tell him that you don't feel the same way about him and that it'll be better if you guys are just friends
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Dec 2 2004, 04:59 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,542 |
say that you are not ready for Him yet...And that you want to go with a guy you know for a long time or something
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Dec 2 2004, 05:02 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
do nothing... but i mean, if he asks you out of something, thats another story. then say "i really like you as a friend blahblahblah"
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Dec 2 2004, 05:18 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
-_-;; Well...
in 5th grade, some kid asked me to the spring dance. No one really liked him and he was considered a "loser", but he was my FRIEND. Now, I never really thought of him as a boyfriend, so I said yes. I said YES. No one knows that I said yes, not even now... Everyone just thought that I rejected him and the sad thing was that it was the biggest "news" in the school. Pathetic. But we still talk now... just not a lot. |
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Dec 2 2004, 07:27 PM
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 *dazzle Group: Member Posts: 357 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,071 |
I'm in the situation right now. It pretty much sucks because he does anything for me. He's always around - it's annoying. I just feel like if I tell him, he'd go into one of his depressing moods and complain that no one wants to be with him. The worse thing is, I like his best friend. But, don't do anything. If he asks you out, then tell him gently. It will hurt him anyway but that's life, no?
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Dec 2 2004, 08:50 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
mm well better sooner than later, just tell him straight up, it'll hurt but he'll probably appreciate your honesty
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Dec 2 2004, 09:02 PM
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 RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
i wrote this dude a note letting him know that i wasnt feelin' him & he got stalkerish. he was all asking everyone who my man was
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Dec 2 2004, 10:15 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Just.. break it to him gently?
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Dec 2 2004, 10:50 PM
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 DDR bunny! Group: Member Posts: 222 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,620 |
i'm going through that rite now...help me 2 ppl...
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