Boys are fighting over me...., What shall I do? Options

[lilsweetdevil08]

I have been having this trouble for awhile now.
There is this guy Adam, he's a junior and I have been dating this guy Alex for 6 months now. Well, Adam the other day told me he loved me. I have no idea what to do. I'm only a freshmen in highschool. I mean I think I am in love with Alex...but I am starting to like Adam a lot. We hang out a lot, we have kissed a bunch of times on *accidents*...I told Alex the truth about everytime we kissed and I don't think he cares...Someone help me please!
Email me!

[picaso_smile]

Decide which you like more...and go with that. Simple.

[xj_liana_tx]

sit down ane enjoy...

i m jk, ok.. um. yeah wat picaso smile said, but if u can't decide.. just.. i mean look for who s better

[*krnxswat*]

Wow. A mistake on your part: why'd you kiss another guy "accidently" if you had a boyfriend already?
A mistake on your boyfriends part: Why didn't he do anything about it when you told him you kissed the other guy?

I don't think it's love for either of you; but, whatever. Enjoy!

[jambaJUICE]

1. Love? Love my ass.
2. *Accidental* Kissing? Might as well just hump him.
3. You have a boyfriend.
4. You need to stop being shared. You can't be just going one boy after the other. That's just wrong, you're telling everyone that you ARE a piece of ass, before you know it, you`ll be considered a "whore" or "slut" among some people's terms.
5. With all those *accidents* for all you know, your boyfriend could be doing the same thing, since you do it, why cant he?

Right? Right.

[*krnxswat*]

1. Love? Love my ass.

I LOVE YOUR ASS

[ShadowPixie]

Wow. A mistake on your part: why'd you kiss another guy "accidently" if you had a boyfriend already?
A mistake on your boyfriends part: Why didn't he do anything about it when you told him you kissed the other guy?

I don't think it's love for either of you; but, whatever. Enjoy!

^ I totally agree. Accidentally kissing! Ha! Thats a nice lie.

1. Love? Love my ass.
2. *Accidental* Kissing? Might as well just hump him.
3. You have a boyfriend.
4. You need to stop being shared. You can't be just going one boy after the other. That's just wrong, you're telling everyone that you ARE a piece of ass, before you know it, you`ll be considered a "whore" or "slut" among some people's terms.
5. With all those *accidents* for all you know, your boyfriend could be doing the same thing, since you do it, why cant he?

Right? Right.

^^I agree with that too, you're just gonna give everyone the impression you're a whore. And I really dont believe you are. You must not have loved your boyfriend much if him only saying "I love you" is going to sway you that much. And he must not care too much for you if he doesnt care. It would break my heart if my girlfriend kissed another guy.

[jambaJUICE]

I LOVE YOUR ASS

Damn straight.

[Shattered_Hope]

hmm..there are only one accident....and you dont like this "adam" becuz he's a junior do you?? anywayz...yur b/f doesnt care becuz maybe its an accident and he cant do anything about it....but you should know what to do..if yur b/f isnt doing anything wrong..then tell adam that ur taken and not interested...and no offense...but u seem to be flattered that this is happening....

[_sarcastic_]

you should think about who you like the most, and which one is better. but isn't Alex your bf?

[inthemudhole]

How can you accidentally kiss someone?

[lilsweetdevil08]

Thanks for helping but my boyfriend and I ended....Oh well. Thanks for the help! And I'm not a whore, if I was, do you think I be going behind his back? I told him the truth now didn't I?

[whywasisostupid]

i like how u put the title
'boys fighting over me'
way to go.

[ShadowPixie]

Just because you told him doesnt mean that its ok! You still went with other guys, and thats cheating. It doesnt matter if you kill someone on broad daylight or do it in some dark alley, you still murdered someone. It's the same thing with going around with other guys. Whether you told or not, you still ran around! But hell, no use going on about it if you two split. Good luck with whatever you choose to do.

[lilsweetdevil08]

I didn't cheat on him. Do you even know what cheating means? It's when you go have sex with the other guy! No I did not cheat on him! I know better than to cheat with somebody. Those kisses meant nothing to me. You dont' even know me!

[miss barnes]

i dont think its love between u & your man because if it was then he would care about your so called "accidental" kisses.

[_sarcastic_]

I didn't cheat on him. Do you even know what cheating means? It's when you go have sex with the other guy!

cheating doesn't nessersarily mean having sex with another guy, it could be going behind ur bf's back. well good luck on what ever you choose to do now

[islandkiss]

incidentally kissed another guy?, when you had a bf? "accidentally" eh?


you don't deserve him.

[simplyannoy]

1) you had a bf and yet you still "accidently" kissed someone??? <-- right...
2) your bf and ur relationship wasn't really close I presume... since he didn't really cared about you and ur "kissing"-s so ending it off wasn't really surprising
3) cheating doesn't always mean that you had "sex" with someone
4) it's unfair to Adam... how you're leading him on...
5) MAKE UP YOUR MIND ALREADY! ><

[yummy_delight]

"boys are fighting over me..." psh. bitch please.

+ "accidental" kissing?!?! lyke omg it was lyke so sudden because i just fell and lyke landed on his lips!!11!!!11!
not possible. an 'accident' is when a baby craps his pants, not when he climbs on a guy and craps on his face, ok?
+ your boyfriend doesn't care about the kissing? he doesn't love you. and you obviously don't love him or else you wouldn't have had an "accident"
+ he may not love you, but it's still unfair to lead him on like that. don't be a whore.
+ cheating does not necessarily mean that you have sex with someone else, genius.
+ boys are NOT fighting over you. it doesn't exactly seem like your boyfriend is putting up any kind of fight to keep you

i suggest you make up your damn mind... and keep an eye on your crotch because you might have an "accident" with that too.

[jecissa]

^ Yes, very well said. I second that... Only I would have said it nicer if i said it myself. But it would have the same meaning!

[cleec]

there are going to be many guys that are going to seem like "possibilies", but you just have to ask yourself if the guy that you are currently with now is really worth it all, or if you are more interested in going solo and having fun then you should do that. you just gotta find out what is more important, staying with the guy that loves you, or dating other people

[shortiiex]

i think Adam does care but is trying to win you over....he is not letting his jealousy come out

[*krnxswat*]

Haha. I love how people are so harsh these days.

Go me.

[sammi rules you]

*cheers for seon*

[Justingamemaster]

there are going to be many guys that are going to seem like "possibilies", but you just have to ask yourself if the guy that you are currently with now is really worth it all, or if you are more interested in going solo and having fun then you should do that. you just gotta find out what is more important, staying with the guy that loves you, or dating other people

cleec ! my man! or wooman! i thought in your sig it said "d**k" my xanga instead of "cliCk" my xanga.

weird.

[tooeffingcrazy]

dump alex. hello adam =].
since you already have feelings for adam, i don't think alex deserves you kissing other guys. it WOULD feel awkward. So i think that you should break-up with alex, since you have feelings for another person now.

[mookiex3]

i wouldnt call it accidental. i think cheating's more of the correct word for that.

[MeanBastard]

Kahaha, accidental kissing. Thanks for making my day.

[Tung]

so yeah. he said he "love" you. and u dont love your bf. let me just say this. its 98% of the time it isnt love. its just a major major major crush. u cant be in love in high school. maybe not in college. its just how it is. love is a fallacy in high school. so yeah. dont get all caught up in "love". cuz love awaits you.

[*wind&fire*]

turn lesbian

[DaTru KataLYST]

turn lesbian

weirdo

[*wind&fire*]

weirdo

its beter than being perverted and not wearing clothes.... HA!

[DaTru KataLYST]

!! I trusted you!!!

AHHHHH!!! *runs away from cB*

[*wind&fire*]

awww sorry....heres some candy...and getinto this middleageds' man van where he and anal rape you....

[pikimoo]

so yeah. he said he "love" you. and u dont love your bf. let me just say this. its 98% of the time it isnt love. its just a major major major crush. u cant be in love in high school. maybe not in college. its just how it is. love is a fallacy in high school. so yeah. dont get all caught up in "love". cuz love awaits you.

-You can be in love in high school. But the chance of that happening is like.. .00000000001%

-Cheating doesn't always mean having sex with someone else(hello? threesomes!). Kissing someone else can be just as bad. Depending on who you are with and how comfortable they are with everything.

-But hun, stick to one man at a time. I don't care if the kissing was an accident. It's not nice.

[ComradeRed]

I have been having this trouble for awhile now.
There is this guy Adam, he's a junior and I have been dating this guy Alex for 6 months now. Well, Adam the other day told me he loved me. I have no idea what to do. I'm only a freshmen in highschool. I mean I think I am in love with Alex...but I am starting to like Adam a lot. We hang out a lot, we have kissed a bunch of times on *accidents*...I told Alex the truth about everytime we kissed and I don't think he cares...Someone help me please!
Email me!

I'm from your location. What school do you go too?

[someflipguy]

ZZZzzzzZzz.... *snorts, and whipes drool off face* Sorry you were saying something? JK

Pick one its the best

[yoohgotpangd]

Well ... I think that you`re not in love with Alex, or Adam for that matter. Either choose between the two, or move on. Enough said .

[DorkFahSho]

one word...pimp...BUT THATS NOT IMPORTANT...who do you truly love? sighs...love sucks

[christiee_nax]

geez you're still young. its not like your going to get married now. i think you seem to like adam alot. and alex doesnt mind that you're kissing adam? well what kinda boyfriend is that. geez

[bibliomania]

Pick the best one, like everyone says.

Are you sure you're in love? With absolute certainty?

And your boyfriend does not get mad that you kissed Adam by accidents?

And you told your boyfriend?

What were you hoping from telling your boyfriend about the accidents?

[*Weird addiction*]

go for the one u love the most...

[jezika]

[Right? Right.]
RIGHT!

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

why cant u people jjust stay loyal to the ones that love u.

"dont leave someone u love for someone u like"

[sweetdreamsx3]

i suggest you make up your damn mind... and keep an eye on your crotch because you might have an "accident" with that too.

Lol, gotta agree with that.

[Tung]

-You can be in love in high school. But the chance of that happening is like.. .00000000001%

-Cheating doesn't always mean having sex with someone else(hello? threesomes!). Kissing someone else can be just as bad. Depending on who you are with and how comfortable they are with everything.

-But hun, stick to one man at a time. I don't care if the kissing was an accident. It's not nice.

actually if u kissed him and felt something then its really a major problem. but if the kiss didnt felt like anything and u didnt think much of it, then its okay i guess.

[sweetdreamsx3]

actually if u kissed him and felt something then its really a major problem. but if the kiss didnt felt like anything and u didnt think much of it, then its okay i guess.

First off, how would you acidentally kiss anyone in the first place?!?? And esp. if you have a boyfriend.

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To the Topic Starter: I don't even know why you're posting a topic about this when you "accidentally" kissed the other guy.

[waccoon]

How do you kiss somebody accidently?

[*Azarel*]

... you are obviously too immature to be in a relationship. Break it off with both of them.

[leogirl73089]

boys are fighting over me?!? dosn't look like ur bf is fighting.... >_< he dosn't even care?! do u like the junior just becuz he's a a junior? u know when he becomes a senior it's going to illegial when he turns 18. and how can that be accidents?! >.< u ppl should stay tru w/ the 1 ur with. it's a lot easyer. (iz that a word?.. o well..)