Falling for your best friend |
 Nov 22 2004, 11:50 PM
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 Tinay  Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,050  |
So it's a bit funny. I actually fell for my best friend and actually told himm about this and he told me that it can't happen right now (his dad is in iraq + they might be moving). It wasn't that i wasn't attractive or i didn't have a "AMAZING" personality because i am and i do. Also he never pictured us that way. See, i took it as him just wanting to stay friends but lately he's gotten alot closer. Like we don't really hang out just the two of us and he called me there the other night because he was leaving for Oklahoma for Thanksgiving. Usually when that happens, like we'd talk online, but i wouldn't come over or anything. Then theres the getting closer part (physically) now it's like, he's resting his head on my shoulder and just getting closer. I mean does he still want to be jjust friends or did he change his mind?!
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Nov 23 2004, 12:36 AM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
i think he changed his mind! does he usually get that close anyways? you should ask him about that... juss to make sure, so you wont be lead on or anything.
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Nov 23 2004, 12:39 AM
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 Dieing Romance Group: Member Posts: 78 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,804 |
Sounds like a complicated situation, was he just using the "moving" comment as an excuse? I think You should talk to him about, and try to be as honest with eachother as possible. It's really romantic really, falling for your best friend? good luck with it.
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Nov 23 2004, 12:41 AM
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Tinay Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,050 |
No, like me and him don't do the whole flirting thing. It's hard enough to talk about the opposite sex to eachother. And like lately it's him being close or him wanting to hang out just the two of us. I was actually at his house last Friday (which i am all the time) and he trapped me under the covers and when he finally let go i hit my head on the dresser....yeah i got a bruise, but thats not the point. Like he was all "I'm gonna bring you back something" and "i'm gonna call u while i'm there" but so far theres no call......i don't know.
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Nov 23 2004, 12:41 AM
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Wow. You seem pretty confident there, although I do not find you very attractive. Well, high self-esteem is always good.
Well, talk to him about it. You don't want him leading you on and eventually finding out at the end he had no feelings for you, do you? You'd be even more devastated; however, on the other hand, his feelings might've changed. Maybe he does have something for you. That, I do not know. |
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Nov 23 2004, 12:42 AM
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 Lookie Se7en!! Group: Member Posts: 36 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,534 |
I think he changed his mind!!
i think he changed his mind! does he usually get that close anyways? you should ask him about that... juss to make sure, so you wont be lead on or anything.  yup yup I agree
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Nov 23 2004, 12:43 AM
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Tinay Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,050 |
QUOTE(AeroWhistle @ Nov 23 2004, 12:39 AM) Sounds like a complicated situation, was he just using the "moving" comment as an excuse? I think You should talk to him about, and try to be as honest with eachother as possible. It's really romantic really, falling for your best friend? good luck with it. Oh no! He really is moving and like in the past, when he moved, and he was still with the girl, it ended really bad.... |
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Nov 23 2004, 12:44 AM
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Tinay Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,050 |
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Nov 23 2004, 12:41 AM) Wow. You seem pretty confident there, although I do not find you very attractive. Well, high self-esteem is always good. Well, talk to him about it. You don't want him leading you on and eventually finding out at the end he had no feelings for you, do you? You'd be even more devastated; however, on the other hand, his feelings might've changed. Maybe he does have something for you. That, I do not know. whoa kimosabi. i'm just quoting what he said. Thanks for shooting me down |
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Nov 23 2004, 12:47 AM
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Dieing Romance Group: Member Posts: 78 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,804 |
I think you should puruse it anyway, it sounds like it may work, and plus you do look pretty.
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Nov 23 2004, 12:54 AM
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Tinay Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,050 |
QUOTE(AeroWhistle @ Nov 23 2004, 12:47 AM) I think you should puruse it anyway, it sounds like it may work, and plus you do look pretty. thanks. Looks like me and him are gonna talk when he gets back 
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Nov 23 2004, 02:11 AM
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 ~~Keiyko~~ One & Only~~ Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,324 |
aww thas so sweet
I hope things work out between you guys I fell for my best friend once.. lasted for 3 years So anything can happen 
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Nov 23 2004, 05:14 PM
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Tinay Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,050 |
So i got to talking to him today (he was online for a short time) and i was showing him pics of my new dress (senior ball dress) i had gotten in the mail. Anywho some new comments that would never come out of his mouth "It looks really good on you" and so forth. Makes me think..
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Nov 23 2004, 06:32 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Hang in there.
It may work. But I wouldn't want to mess with best friend relationships.. it could get ugly when/if you break up. |
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Nov 23 2004, 06:56 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
yeah, it sounds like he changed his mind- that was the same way with me and my friend, but the opposite. he liked me at first, and i didn't. but after a while, i changed my mind- so definitely go for it.
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Nov 23 2004, 07:18 PM
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Tinay Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,050 |
Yeah thats the one thing i'm scared of but we got throught the akwardness of me liking him and that went by smoothly.
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Nov 24 2004, 04:55 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 59,957 |
I think he didnt lik get "closer" b4 was tat he doesant noe if u would mind, but now he noe tat u lik him so he do tat now, and he say no is probably because well he was gonna move, and dun wanna have a short relationship, second is maybe he was playing hard to get? I think.
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Nov 24 2004, 12:26 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
it could be becuz its a touching situation where he needs someone who hecan talk to and will lend him a shoulder...hmm ask the source...and you shall have yur answer. be it a good one or a bad one.
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