when u like someone.., how long until? Options

[HaN4RaNg]

i always have problems with telling the guy i like, that i like him. weither its cus im too shy, he might start acting different, our relationship mite change, etc etc. but i cant help but to let the guy know how i feel for him wen i get that feeling. so how long do u usually wait until u tell? right when u get the feeling? when the moments right? or do u keep it in?
gah this better not have been posted b4

[tina_dc]

Well i usually wait untill i'm really good friends with them...but that really doesn't work out too well for me seeing as they use the "I don't want to ruin our friendship" line

[IamNoBody]

>.< I never do.... yea..i get to nervous...So I usually become really sad and regret not telling them.... so...tell them? haha I think you should wait till you know them better

[teenprincess]

I've never ever told a guy I liked him.

[rockmyx]

if you told a guy you like him, things might change. He might avoid you or he might move a little more closer to you. It is in a guys nature to take the girl for granted when he knew that the girl like him. Dont rush, let him move first but if he does'nt, then dont risk your friendship.

[eboarder2020]

I usualy wait a bit untill my feelings are clear. Last thing i wanna do is waste the other persons time, and more importantly my time. But once im sure of how i feel I usually tell the person as soon as possible. I was always told to tell someone that kind of thing because for all you know that person can be hit by a truck and if they are gone, wouldnt you at least want them to know your feelings and desires. And plus who knows maybe that other person is waiting for you to make a move as well. Hope this helps

[*stephinika*]

when i'm pretty sure i like him and there may be a chance they like me back...or if i feel particularly brave haha

[*Weird addiction*]

i confront him and they've all lyked me baq except one

[whywasisostupid]

if i like them i become friends with him. flirt a little. and see what happens

[Smartguy10892]

This is what happenning to me. (From a Guys view)

Well, I became really close friends with the girl I liked. She always told me about this guy she liked at another school. Some time after she told me about her crush, my feelings cleared up and I told her I liked her.

If you wait till your feelings clear up, he might already like someone else and ask them out. Anyways, good luck!

Terrence

[NgocQuyen]

lols..i use to not tell...but i dont think i really have a problem with it now...cuz i think i feel more confident with myself at times...sometimes i can be super shy...thas when you know i really like him...lols...but i usually wait when i really know i like him...and like...i gotta have to have a feeling he sees me that way too...lols..x] hehe but if none of that occurs...then......im never ever gonna tell! x]

[smile4me]

i told him...after he told me.

[mirage]

i told him...after he told me. 

lolz, good idea =)

[inthemudhole]

i told him...after he told me. happy.gif

Me too..
That's the only time I've ever told a guy that I liked him.. but it was a comfortable situation at that point.

I don't know.. just get close with them in a friendly way at first.

[HaN4RaNg]

eh, see i told the guy i liked him, but i guess he thought i was joking cus he said something like "hahaha~ i like u more!" .......

[xheavenzcentzx]

Person 1 : I dont tell >< im chicken i wait til they do ><

Person 2 : I wait until they flirt with me a lot and then i tell them

[ANG33ZY]

Out of all the guys that I liked, only one knew. I had a friend tell him..

[pbear]

3 years, hah. pathetic, i know.

[_sarcastic_]

i never actually told a guy i liked him, he usually tells me he likes me ( yup the same guy i have a crush on) .hehe.

[littlebutton]

i always waited too long or never told them at all which i think is a good idea now because this girl i had been liking recently i told her twice and now it isnt a good situation anymore. it feels so weird.

[miss barnes]

i usually never do unless he asks me. thats what happened today.....

[sandra]

when u like someone and u tell a friend.... chances are that the person will find out eventually. so they find out but they dont care how i feel so i casually forget about them

[RIcEB0IAnTh]

when u like someone and u tell a friend.... chances are that the person will find out eventually. so they find out but they dont care how i feel so i casually forget about them

Tats exactly what happen to me, I told one of my friend, and he start telling pplz, den she found out, but she didnt really care or show anything, so eventually 1 year later, I finally got over her.

[Shattered_Hope]

its just a sentence..that is built up with fear everytime u think too much about it...so decide once and for all. besides..you might nt get a chance later on. and yes..lol..this was posted on before.