Advice..., somebody I really like |
 Nov 21 2004, 05:06 PM
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 Knight of the Black Flames  Group: Member Posts: 428 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,166  |
Hey createblog- I'm back for a little advice after a long time break
 There's somebody I know really well in my class... She's always nice to me, and I've almost never gotten into an argument with her. I've been hanging out with her a lot (I still don't think she knows I like her after all these signals). I was just at a party today, and she was there too. We talked about 3 and a half hours about life, told each other some stuff about our family, and a lot of other things that we wouldn't tell anybody else. Well, the truth is I have no idea how to tell her. It's reaaaaaaaaaally tough for me to tell people this kind of thing... I'm a pre-teen that's just starting to mature. I'm not the kind of person that would have much experience with this kind of thing... I really need some help here. What should I do? Edit: PLEASE DO NOT EMAIL YOUR RESPONSE TO ME. REPLY ONLY TO THIS TOPIC IF YOU WANT TO CONTACT ME. |
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Nov 21 2004, 06:02 PM
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Knight of the Black Flames Group: Member Posts: 428 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,166 |
Hey I'm sorry I have to double post but people are completely ignoring this topic. I need advice fast. I plan to have a talk with her tomorrow
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Nov 21 2004, 09:43 PM
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 We are the cure. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,936 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,456 |
 You're too young.*pats head* |
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Nov 21 2004, 10:04 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Well.
If you're a pre-teen, then you must be under 13, am I right? Hmm.. wait a few years. I guess you could just.. uh, tell her. Be straight-forward. It's the best way to go. Don't beat around the bush or anything, just tell her. |
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Nov 21 2004, 10:06 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904 |
I agree with ^. Just tell her.
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Nov 21 2004, 10:30 PM
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 There is a light that never goes out.... Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,044 |
Tell her. It's only scary the first time.
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Nov 21 2004, 10:42 PM
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 Change Gon Come Group: Member Posts: 2,286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,822 |
walk up to her. kiss her on the cheek. turn on your heel. walk away.
haha..just to see if you would actually do that. but seriously, find a nice quiet time to tell her. make it so it's just you and her. and tell her. be serious and dont goof around. but maybe goofing around is a good thing? arghh..i don't really know. but just tell her. |
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Nov 24 2004, 05:40 PM
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Knight of the Black Flames Group: Member Posts: 428 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,166 |
QUOTE(DaToNeViEtBoI916 @ Nov 21 2004, 10:42 PM) walk up to her. kiss her on the cheek. turn on your heel. walk away. haha..just to see if you would actually do that. but seriously, find a nice quiet time to tell her. make it so it's just you and her. and tell her. be serious and dont goof around. but maybe goofing around is a good thing? arghh..i don't really know. but just tell her. Thanks- (Eh... Why would I goof around about something that serious?) Sheesh... That was hard... QUOTE You're too young. *pats head* ??? What ? Age is only how long you've been alive. It's what you know and how you think that matters. After all, age is just the simple factor of how much time you have left in life  
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Nov 24 2004, 08:23 PM
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age has nothing to do with it, you can start relationships whenever you want..the earlier the better...because there twenty year olds who are fcuktards and STILL don't know what they want...
anyways...just freakin tell her it isn't that big of a deal... How are you supposed to get what you want if you dont go for it... |
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Nov 24 2004, 08:28 PM
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Knight of the Black Flames Group: Member Posts: 428 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,166 |
QUOTE(lurideyes @ Nov 24 2004, 8:23 PM) age has nothing to do with it, you can start relationships whenever you want..the earlier the better...because there twenty year olds who are fcuktards and STILL don't know what they want... anyways...just freakin tell her it isn't that big of a deal... How are you supposed to get what you want if you dont go for it... Thankyou The reason that I haven't told Jayanne (the girl) yet is because she isn't the kind of person that spends time thinking about love. In other words, if I told her she would say something like "eeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwww". Or at least I'm guessing. I'm fairly sure that she has no concern about love. |
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Nov 24 2004, 08:30 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 72 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,803 |
Tell her anyway...it's important to be upfront...if she dont feel the sma eway the closure will set your mind with something more definite to work/deal with.
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Nov 24 2004, 08:36 PM
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Knight of the Black Flames Group: Member Posts: 428 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,166 |
QUOTE(lurideyes @ Nov 24 2004, 8:30 PM) Tell her anyway...it's important to be upfront...if she dont feel the sma eway the closure will set your mind with something more definite to work/deal with.  If only it was that easy... I'll try when I get back from thanksgiving vacation. I'm gonna have to tell her sooner or later... You helped me realize that. Thanks
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Nov 24 2004, 08:37 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 72 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,803 |
no problem, but i dont think you realize...it really is that easy...all wounds of the heart heal extremely fast if you are young. It's just a matter of taking a deep breath and taking life by the horns.
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Nov 24 2004, 08:56 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 31 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,124 |
Well...if you don't wanna tell her in real life, maybe try an email? But don't expect she will like you back. She might just see you as a really close friend and nothing more. Or she might actually like you. You'll never know until you express your emotions towards her.
----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Here's an example of an e-mail you might send to her. (This is an email I sent to my close friend/crush who already had a bf): Hi Elaine! Well...there's something I have to tell you. I've been wanting to tell you this on AIM, but I just didnt get the guts to. I really like you Elaine, but when your always talking about Andrew and everything, it really hurts me inside. I mean out of all the girls I've liked, you're on the top of the list. I just can't stop thinking about you. It's like the only thing I can think about is you. And when I'm all waiting for you to sign on AIM, but at the library with Andrew...it really tears me up inside. I hope you don't find this really extreme, but its not like I can control my emotions for you. Terrence... ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Good luck. Terrence (Yeah....I'm a 7th grader/Pre-teen too) |
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Nov 24 2004, 10:14 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
just tell her. take her away from her friends, ask her to walk with you like u did at the party, and tell her
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Nov 24 2004, 11:08 PM
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 07 isz coming Group: Member Posts: 333 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,490 |
talk2 her like you usually do, then just tell her how you feel...if ya think it would be kinda awkward , try it online or on the phone... hmm. yah, if she's ur friend she shouldn't be like O_o or anythin... just give it a try ^.^ u gotta tell her eventually...
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Nov 24 2004, 11:38 PM
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email this thread to her...
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Nov 25 2004, 12:56 AM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
Age shouldn't really matter. But it's not that you love her, but that you like her alot. Since it's your first time (that you liked someone and wanted to tell them), I agree find a quiet place. You don't want anyone else there because she needs to be able to tell you face to face, without any interference. Tell her how well you can connect with her and that you care so much that you want to be her boyfriend, if IN FACT,t hat's what you want. But just tell her that you care alot about her and want her to be an important part of your life. Say some romantic, cheesy/mushy lines. They will often help
 lol But still, tell her. And giver her space. Don't be like hugging her or with your arm over her or anything. The least think you want to be is intimidating. |
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Nov 25 2004, 08:45 AM
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Knight of the Black Flames Group: Member Posts: 428 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,166 |
QUOTE(AzNbUbZ @ Nov 24 2004, 11:38 PM) email this thread to her... lol you may be onto something... QUOTE Age shouldn't really matter. But it's not that you love her, but that you like her alot. Since it's your first time (that you liked someone and wanted to tell them), I agree find a quiet place. You don't want anyone else there because she needs to be able to tell you face to face, without any interference. Tell her how well you can connect with her and that you care so much that you want to be her boyfriend, if IN FACT,t hat's what you want. But just tell her that you care alot about her and want her to be an important part of your life. Say some romantic, cheesy/mushy lines. They will often help lol But still, tell her. And giver her space. Don't be like hugging her or with your arm over her or anything. The least think you want to be is intimidating. Thanks  QUOTE hmm. yah, if she's ur friend she shouldn't be like O_o or anythin... You would be surprised
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