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 Nov 20 2004, 07:15 PM
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 i need an sn change.  Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746  |
ya. i have more guy friends than girls. is that realy bad?
at first i didnt realy care fo what people said, but now its jsut pissing me off now. QUOTE oo shes a wh0re cuz she has like 5000 guys friends and going out with all of them. she has no friends that are girls i had this said to my friend who told me. okay wth. we're FRIENDS. and thats not true. i have plently of girl friends but there just not there when ur there so STFU! get that to ur head. so me and my guy friends chill all the time. so if we go out and ride around the park. dude. shut up. im a tomboy and i just find it funner to hang around with guys cuz i like sports. i like video games. i like playing basketball, baseball football. i just want to go outside and play. dont get me wrong, but i hang around with girls too. i go to the movies with my girls and we walk around and chill, go shopping, go to starbucks. i have fun with both, but i usually hang out iwth the guys more ive always been close to my dad and i got most of the sports from him and i just...i dont know. its stupid how people can just call u names but not EVEN KNOW YOU. =[ rawr do any of yall have that problem? |
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Nov 20 2004, 07:23 PM
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 GHETTO FABULOUS Group: Member Posts: 435 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,223 |
Nah, I have an even mixture of both :)
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Nov 20 2004, 07:35 PM
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 I like it like that Group: Member Posts: 1,248 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 5,961 |
no but I'd like to have more guy friends
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Nov 20 2004, 07:40 PM
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 skaters gonna skate. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,861 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,336 |
Yeah me too ^.
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Nov 20 2004, 07:55 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
yeah i gave more guy friends but.. just if they're really your friends they wouldn't say stuff like that to you.
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Nov 20 2004, 08:18 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
yeah, that's just like me. most of my friends are guys, but i also have girl friends. and i like hanging out with guys, its a new perspective and stuff. but none of my friends really thinks anything about it, at least i don't think they do.
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| *wind&fire* |
Nov 20 2004, 08:37 PM
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aye thats me.... who give a f**k what others say...they're not you friends
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Nov 20 2004, 08:48 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
yehh i hang out with my best guy friend more then my girlfriends. everyone thinks we like each other or something but its never the case. oo well we knew the truth, and they can juss keep assuming.
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Nov 20 2004, 08:59 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,343 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,767 |
yeah i do have more guy friends than girl friends, though my best friend is a girl. i don't know, they just know how to have more fun and aren't so uptight about everything. plus they don't feel the need to talk about other people behind their backs. and it's awesome when they treat you special cause you're the only girl there, haha.
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Nov 20 2004, 09:24 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
yeahh, i have more guy friends than girl friends. it's okay, there ain't no problem with that.
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Nov 20 2004, 10:27 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
i have a lot of close guy friends, but i guess it's because international schools are usually more diverse so no one really cares.
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Nov 20 2004, 11:04 PM
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 need happy pills? Group: Member Posts: 419 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,946 |
I get that alot..my friend called me a whore since most of them are either poeple that liked me before or likes me right now =S
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Nov 20 2004, 11:12 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904 |
I hang out with my guy friend more than with my girl friends. People think we're a couple but meh. It gets very fustrating when people in school think you're going out with all these guys. But I just think it's easier to talk to guys than girls. I grew up with a lot of guys so yeah...
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Nov 20 2004, 11:31 PM
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same thing w/ what winter said. whenever i'm w/ my guy friends, they think we're together... blehhh it gets old after a while.
anyway, yeah i have a bunch of guy friends so when they call my mom kind of... gets suspicious. last year when she saw me hug one of them, she got this idea in her head that i was acting like a slut. so yeah. that wasn't fun. but i understand where you're comin from, and if they still think you're like that, then you shouldn't even give em a second thought cuz they're not even worth your time. |
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Nov 20 2004, 11:57 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,025 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,051 |
i have that same exact problem.
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Nov 21 2004, 12:16 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 515 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,039 |
don't worry. i'm like that too
 don't listen to what they say. if they say your going out with all of them and ur a whore and all. who gives? u know the truth is in your heart. u know what's true and what's not. and your guy friends probably know too (that ur not a whore and all that crap) don't change yourself if that's who u are
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Nov 21 2004, 12:17 AM
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 whatever d00de Group: Member Posts: 1,349 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,060 |
QUOTE(__xxfrappachino<3 @ Nov 21 2004, 12:16 AM) don't worry. i'm like that too don't listen to what they say. if they say your going out with all of them and ur a whore and all. who gives? u know the truth is in your heart. u know what's true or not. and your guy friends probably know too (that ur not a whore and all that crap) don't change yourself if that's who u are exactly what i was gonna say |
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Nov 21 2004, 01:19 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 196 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,922 |
guys are way better friends, I only have one girl friend(bestfriend)...but all the other people I actually hang out with are guys.
The boyfriend doesnt mind, so its cool. 
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Nov 21 2004, 08:21 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i have more guy friends, they're better to get along with. but then my bf doesn't really like it when i hang around them too much
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| *Weird addiction* |
Nov 21 2004, 08:43 AM
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its not bad,thoz gurls r just jealous!
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Nov 21 2004, 08:44 AM
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 DDR bunny! Group: Member Posts: 222 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,620 |
not really...cuz i got lots of guy friends 2...it is really really easy to get along w guys...
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Nov 25 2004, 06:46 PM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
QUOTE i have a lot of guy frds dat my grl frds dont get along wit. . my frd alwaise dont want me to hang around wit dem . n dey alwaise make dese damn rumors about me going out wit dese guys . so f**king annoying . dere so immature .
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Dec 12 2004, 01:32 PM
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 =) Group: Member Posts: 201 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 69,624 |
It's a good thing! Your friends are just jealous cuz boys don't want to hang out with them!
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Dec 12 2004, 01:34 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
you can be my friend. ;)
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Dec 21 2004, 10:03 PM
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 Rock out X3 Group: Member Posts: 319 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 69,317 |
same here I got more guys than girl frneds and have most of my life I just grew up that way...I dont see anything wrong with it sometimes they can be more fun neways
People say stuff sometiems to me 2 just tell em to leave u alone if your happy having lots of guys friends dont let other people tell you otherwise
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| *stephinika* |
Dec 21 2004, 10:10 PM
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yeah i've got tons of guy friends, more than girl friends and there's nothing wrong with it.
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Dec 21 2004, 10:41 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,746 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,931 |
frankly, at this age, guys are just cooler. they're less spazzy, obsessive, hyper, and moody.. and more understanding, easygoing, genuine. so yes, quite understandable, mercedes.
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Dec 21 2004, 10:43 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
not really. some people think that its weird that i talk to mostly guys than girls but nobody thinks im a whore though
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Dec 22 2004, 10:29 AM
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 I'm not mean; You're just a sissy. Group: Member Posts: 796 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,520 |
personally, at times, i like hanging out with guys better than girls. theyre more fun in my opinion! what sucks that my parents always thinks im up to something when i hang out with guys or that theyre trying to hook up with me if they call or whatever.
pshht. |
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Dec 22 2004, 10:42 AM
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 wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
Yeah, I've had that problem for 3 years now. I haven't made any female friends in the last 3 years, and the year before that, I only had 2. I just don't get along with them and I find that life is much easier and less stressful without them around. Them calling you a "whore" is proof that they're just a waste of time.
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| *tyedyefroggy* |
Dec 22 2004, 01:22 PM
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I have more of a mixture of both...but people say I have to many guy friends, so yeah. I know how you feel.
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Dec 22 2004, 01:35 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 524 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,003 |
about 3/4 of my friends are guys and I'm dating one of the ones who started out as a friend. Yea people call me a slut, but I really don't care.
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Dec 22 2004, 03:54 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
thats dumb. whats wrong with having guy friends?
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Dec 22 2004, 04:28 PM
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 .::Please will you love me?::. Group: Member Posts: 31 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,625 |
Ah. i share this with you. People who dont kno me call me a slut, those who do say that i am definitely not. My dad freaked out on me one time b/c he thinks that i only like guys bc i need attention. sometimes, guys are more understanding, and more understandable...is that a word? they dont fight over the stupid stuff...u stole my bf, etc. guys are great, u r just lucky that u realize that already. dont try to be something u arent. what other ppl say doesnt matter!
~Andrea~ |
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Dec 22 2004, 05:14 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,075 |
my guy friends are closer to me than my girl friends.. simply because i find htat guys are easier to talk to and less jealous and self centered..
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Dec 22 2004, 06:34 PM
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 it's our chemistry Group: Member Posts: 1,151 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,775 |
I don't exactly have that problem... But people who say that are probably either intimidated or jealous. After all, if they see you hanging out with all these guys, and even if they KNOW it's just platonic, they get jealous. People like that jump to conclusions very easily, and they probably think that if you're so friendly with guys, you can have any you want. I guess they find that a bit intimidating, and get jealous, and then call you a whore for no reason.
Don't listen to em, hang out with WHOEVER you want. =] |
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Dec 22 2004, 06:56 PM
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I've a lot more guy friends then girl friends; exboyfriends always got jealous. |:
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Dec 22 2004, 06:59 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,624 |
No, I don't have that problem. But having more guy friends isn't bad..I think it's cool. =]
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Dec 22 2004, 07:00 PM
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 I'm just a little bit crazy... Group: Member Posts: 1,119 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,760 |
No problem at all.
I'm like that. Tons of guys that are just friends, and maybe a few girls. It's just me, I get along with guys better. Does that make me weird or a whore? Hell nah. Whoever said that gotta be very, very, very conceited. ::EDIT:: They [guys] will often stand up for you more than girls... |
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Dec 22 2004, 07:52 PM
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 hi Group: Member Posts: 630 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,163 |
In the third grade, most of all the guys in my class were my friends and we would always play kickback and kickball during lunch and recess. I did have friends that were girls but they played the most gayest game called house. They'll pretend to be family and all that crap. It creeped me out one day so I ditched them and went to go play kickback. Then the 'leader' got mad because I dragged along another one of my friend who also wanted to play kickback, so then the 'leader' walked over adn sat right in the middle of the game. Then I lcaught a ball so I kicked it, but I threw it bad and kicked it at the 'leader'. She started crying and telling everyone in my class that I kicked the ball at her on purpose. Ahh....very good memories.
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Dec 24 2004, 05:08 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
i have more friends that are guys then girls. well thats coz i skateboard... your probally just a tomboy
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Feb 20 2005, 07:35 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 734 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,507 |
I wish I had more guy friends.
There is nothing with having more guy friends than girl friends. It's probably even better! |
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Feb 20 2005, 07:37 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,799 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,450 |
They're jelous
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Feb 20 2005, 07:39 PM
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exzactly opposite lmao...i have to many girls for friends....many girls told me if i wanted to go out with them i would have to sacrifice alot of my friends that are girls...why don't you "TRUST ME!" lol...that goes for all you girls....
o yay 500th post w00t |
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Feb 20 2005, 08:08 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
yeahh and no, i have hekaka guy friends but nobody thinks of it like.. shes a whore .
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Feb 20 2005, 08:24 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 558 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,872 |
pfft your lucky! I only have a few guy friends
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Feb 21 2005, 12:43 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,253 |
i think its completely normal to have more guy friends than girl friends. i've always related to guys more..not because i share a lot of the same interests with them but it was easier for me to talk to them..with girls i've been in a lot of drama with them..so i've always kept my distance.. i do have girl friends though. we used to be really close but as time went on we only called each other to go hang out which only happens every few weeks..it just seems like the guys wanna go hang out more. not because they want to get with me or anything cuz after hanging out with the same guys for such a long time, they dont think of you as a girl anymore!! haha its true so as long as you feel comfortable with it, then everything is all good!
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Feb 21 2005, 12:49 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 416 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,342 |
i hangout wit all girls and like 5 guys hahaha so i don't really know
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Feb 21 2005, 01:41 AM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
QUOTE(teenprincess @ Nov 20 2004, 7:35 PM) no but I'd like to have more guy friends  me too... i've never had that problem. those girls are probably just jealous 
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Feb 21 2005, 07:59 AM
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 This Life Has Been A Test... Group: Member Posts: 241 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,729 |
i've really never had guy friends in middle school, but now i do...and there really is no problem with that...friends r still friends...as long as they stick by u nothing else matters...
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Feb 21 2005, 09:06 AM
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 go go power rangers<3 Group: Member Posts: 321 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,457 |
I don't really have that problem. But I don't understand why people do that, friends are friends.
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Feb 21 2005, 04:29 PM
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 Live Your Own Party Group: Member Posts: 1,261 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,489 |
there's nothing wrong with that. i used to be the same way. i was a tomboy and didn't have too many girl friends and chilled with all the guys. people always said crap and yeah.. i hated it. but whatever. i'm friends with mostly girls now anyways. i only have a couple guy friends.
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Feb 21 2005, 06:51 PM
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ok..i personally like hanging with guys..they are so random and a lot more fun to be around..i hang out with these two guys all the time (i go out with one of them but the other one well we're just friends nothing more) and when i had a party i realized when i was done writing up the invites i had like ten more guys than gurls and i dont' think it's a big deal...you hsouldn't care what people say... i stopped caring and everything is working out for me.
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Feb 25 2005, 10:10 PM
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WUT! that is so untrue! i got tons of guy friends! i dun like em that way but were friends nd it rocks..nd they help me with my guy problems!
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Feb 25 2005, 10:16 PM
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 TOISU!! Group: Member Posts: 1,996 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,516 |
I have a lot of guy friends...but then again..I don't hang out with them so...it's more like a mixture..
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Feb 25 2005, 10:47 PM
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 turn off the world. turn on my music. Group: Member Posts: 142 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,691 |
gosh i hate when people give labels to others like tomboy.. it goes against the whole concept of equality.. i have a ton of guy friends too, but im also girly. who cares if people think im a tomboy? im not. thats all that matters.
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Feb 25 2005, 10:50 PM
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 who ma bitch? you ma bitch, bitch. Group: Member Posts: 1,920 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,278 |
i have this problem. One of my best BEST friends is a dude. and everybody is like:
"Look Jessica is going out with him" "aww dont they make a cute couple" STFU god dammit we are just friends. |
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Feb 25 2005, 10:50 PM
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 boogie down yo` Group: Member Posts: 710 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,271 |
i'd like more guy friends
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Feb 25 2005, 10:51 PM
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 free hugs Group: Member Posts: 188 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,202 |
i talk to waaay more guys than girls n some people used to think i was a slut last year when i entered high school but they got used to me doin me and realized i actually am not easy at all. if ppl cant accept u, then screw them.
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Feb 26 2005, 05:00 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 35 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,752 |
yeah me also...i have more guy friends than giurl friends and i hang out with all of them too.... but listen to this....instead of getting critisized about being friends with them....all of my friends that are girls get into fights so i just stay with the guys most of the time...
and some of my "bestfriends" that were girls descided to stop being friends with them because they said that i looked different than them, and i dress differently..... yeah they have my gauges too... 
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