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 Nov 18 2004, 11:34 PM
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you start liking someone. then after a few weeks, you just figure out that one of your good friends likes him/her too. but longer, like.. 2 months.
would you.. A] ask them out anyways B] not like them anymore and let your friend take him/her C] talk things out with your friend D] just ignore and move on... also, your friend and your crush doesn't know that you like your crush what would you do... =| [[i'm aware that's in th134513987's guide to relationships , but i'm just seeing other people's actions..]] |
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Nov 19 2004, 12:36 AM
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 There is a light that never goes out.... Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,044 |
I would let them know. Tell your crush first, becasue if you tell your friend, it'll follow that pattern of your friend telling thier feelings first, and you losing your crush. Tell your crush first how you feel, and take it from there.
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Nov 19 2004, 12:46 AM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
Tell your crush. If he likes you too, get with him and don't tell your friend. (:
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Nov 19 2004, 12:49 AM
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you cant make me
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Nov 19 2004, 01:26 AM
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 The Bone Collector Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162 |
well. it depends on how much i like her. if it was js a crush. i'll move on, but i would still talk to my best friend about it. but it would most likly be a crush, cause its only a few weeks. so i would move on
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Nov 19 2004, 07:29 AM
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 because i'm worth it Group: Member Posts: 990 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,643 |
QUOTE(ShadowPixie @ Nov 19 2004, 12:36 AM) I would let them know. Tell your crush first, becasue if you tell your friend, it'll follow that pattern of your friend telling thier feelings first, and you losing your crush. Tell your crush first how you feel, and take it from there. ^ agreed |
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Nov 19 2004, 09:47 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 |
C] talk things out with your friend
^ unless this friend was my best friend, i'd talk to my crush first. because if it was my best friend, i don't wanna lose our friendship over some guy. |
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Nov 19 2004, 09:51 PM
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 xinistical member Group: Member Posts: 123 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,328 |
QUOTE(ShadowPixie @ Nov 19 2004, 12:36 AM) I would let them know. Tell your crush first, becasue if you tell your friend, it'll follow that pattern of your friend telling thier feelings first, and you losing your crush. Tell your crush first how you feel, and take it from there. yeah, i agree w/ that person too... |
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Nov 20 2004, 01:21 PM
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 T0M0MI <3 Group: Member Posts: 56 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,578 |
iif yOoh relly like that grl then talk to her first...
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Nov 20 2004, 01:36 PM
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 Saap!? Group: Member Posts: 568 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,151 |
A] ask them out anyways
its your good friend, he should understand, but if things don't work out, you should talk to him. |
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Nov 20 2004, 10:46 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
i'd talk things out w/ my friends only if i'm really close to them. if not, i'd probably tell the guy first. but then, i'd rather lose a guy than a true friend.
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Nov 21 2004, 07:57 PM
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 Knight of the Black Flames Group: Member Posts: 428 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,166 |
A or C. I can't decide which one.
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Nov 21 2004, 08:28 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
C.
I'd do C. |
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Nov 22 2004, 12:13 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 140 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,520 |
i've seen this question before
and it happened to me too i did C (talk with friend first) it worked out fine 
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Nov 23 2004, 11:42 AM
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ill just ignore him and let my friend have him
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Nov 23 2004, 02:09 PM
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 ~~Keiyko~~ One & Only~~ Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,324 |
I would talk to your friend first, especially if they happen to be your best friend because a friendship means more to me
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Nov 23 2004, 05:29 PM
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 Smile Like a Retard =D Group: Member Posts: 1,350 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,186 |
QUOTE I would talk to your friend first, especially if they happen to be your best friend because a friendship means more to me yeah, same here.... a friendship usually lasts longer than a relationship. |
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Nov 24 2004, 12:59 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
if the situation is better as friend then leave it that way..rather than losing the friendship.
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