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 Nov 17 2004, 09:04 PM
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 BIOTCH!!!!  Group: Member Posts: 121 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 59,655  |
ok today one of my guys friends was all flirting with me and stuff, and at lunch he was like i love you....but i don't knoe if he meant it...like he said it all serioused faced...and i didnt want to believe him....until later when his friends came, their like he loves you, you knoe that....and i was shocked...because i've liked him for a long time now....what should i do?
 but the sad thing is that he might be joking....hes immature soo yea... 
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Nov 17 2004, 09:10 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
oh wow; i think you should tell him how you feel.
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Nov 17 2004, 09:11 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 110 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,702 |
that happend to me..
dont make the same mistake i did go up to him and make sure hes serious about it |
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Nov 17 2004, 10:40 PM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
er...something similiar happend to me my guy friend was all: Bye bye, hotty...haha because he told me some guy in my class [he thinks i like the guy in my class..which i don't lol] well..anyways..he told me that the guy in my class thought i was a hotty
 lol which I know isn't true..haha....he sort of freaks me out sometimes with what he says, though, haha...but yeah, make sure he's serious 
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Nov 17 2004, 10:47 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
i would talk to him in private with out all of his buddies.
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Nov 17 2004, 11:30 PM
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 shawBOO!! Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 58,313 |
Yeah, I would talk to him in private without all his buddies around and ask him how he really feels about you and not just assume, cause assuming can be a bad thing to do.
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Nov 18 2004, 03:16 AM
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 The Original Sparx Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,370 |
you should definitely ask him about it in private. he might be immature and all that, but if he's throwing around those three li'l words, he should realize that sooner or later, someone's gonna be hurt if they find out that he didn't mean it. ask him if he was serious, and let him know how you feel, and take things from there.
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Nov 18 2004, 06:02 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 167 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,504 |
maybe talk to him, and ask him if he really feels that way towards you. then you tell him how you feel about him
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Nov 18 2004, 06:20 AM
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Gackt's Wife Group: Member Posts: 411 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,549 |
... tell him u like him too!!!!
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Nov 18 2004, 06:59 AM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
don't have your hopes up.
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Nov 18 2004, 07:50 AM
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 ~The CB Advice Giver~ Group: Member Posts: 505 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,021 |
Walk up to him and ask if you can talk to him.
Once u get him alone, pull out the shotgun and demand to know the truth. course if u dont have a shotgun handy then look at him in the eyes and ask him if he ment what he said. if he says yeah ask him WHY he said it. if he gives a good enough reason confess how u feel. then if he tries to make out with u pull out the plastic fork u stole from lunch and stab him |
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Nov 18 2004, 08:16 AM
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 Brown hand smash Group: Member Posts: 654 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,582 |
your only 13 right?
 l think you are infatuated with him? but dont let this feeling scare you. You have just crossed the fine line when a child turn into teenager. this is the time that you starts to grow to be a woman.  Dont rush.  wait for true love comes in the right time.  lf he really like you then he should show you what he really feel 
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Nov 18 2004, 12:00 PM
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find out if he really love u,i dont know how but u need to find out before u tell him how u feel
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Nov 18 2004, 01:33 PM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
The power of truth!
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Nov 18 2004, 02:02 PM
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 i <3 adam brody Group: Member Posts: 188 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,609 |
QUOTE(Suesterrx @ Nov 17 2004, 9:11 PM) that happend to me.. dont make the same mistake i did go up to him and make sure hes serious about it yea i agree...go up to ask him if he really meant it. And if he really did mean it then tell him how you feel. |
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Nov 18 2004, 03:45 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
this is a hard situation....i guess first just ask him if he was joking? idk dont make it sound like your mad or something because if he really does like then, he might think that you dont like him
or you can just be all hey i love you too, but say it kinda jokingly so just in case if he actually was messin around you wont get too hurt haha this probably makes no sense |
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Nov 18 2004, 05:17 PM
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 Smile Like a Retard =D Group: Member Posts: 1,350 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,186 |
see how he treats you for the next few days and see if you can pick up any clues... or just ask him straight out ... good luck =)
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Nov 18 2004, 05:32 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
Ummm definently don't say it back, yet. if you are too afraid to ask him, then i would kinda leave it alone, and if he says it to you again, then talk to him about it.
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Nov 18 2004, 11:53 PM
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BIOTCH!!!! Group: Member Posts: 121 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 59,655 |
he wasn't joking.....but now i really don't knoe what to do
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Nov 19 2004, 12:40 AM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
You should tell him how you feel, and it'll all work out. Hopefully. Man, I want the guy I like to just come up to me and say "I love you" =]
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Nov 19 2004, 01:10 AM
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 hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
QUOTE(ichiban @ Nov 18 2004, 10:40 PM) You should tell him how you feel, and it'll all work out. Hopefully. Man, I want the guy I like to just come up to me and say "I love you" =] Agreed. Similar situations have happened with me though. But like i didn`t like the person in the first place so it made things more hard because i felt bad like i was hurting them a lot. But yeah, i so wish the guy i like would even say I LIKE YOU to me. haha |
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Nov 19 2004, 01:19 PM
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 The"Caff" Group: Member Posts: 6 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 58,686 |
Just ask him if he's being serious or not. If so, tell him how you feel.
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Nov 19 2004, 04:27 PM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(*ilalaloveyou<3* @ Nov 18 2004, 9:53 PM) he wasn't joking.....but now i really don't knoe what to do hey people she said he wasnt joking so stop saying see if he was being serious but okay, i thought you liked him! whats the big deal? see if he wants a relationship dur =) |
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Nov 19 2004, 04:29 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,505 |
now that you know he's not joking tell him how you feel.
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Nov 19 2004, 04:30 PM
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~The CB Advice Giver~ Group: Member Posts: 505 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,021 |
he doesnt love you
he likes you. its to early to call it love he had an infatuation with you, its like love but its not the same. Dont say you love him back yet or you will screw yourself over. trust me |
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Nov 19 2004, 06:01 PM
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 DDR bunny! Group: Member Posts: 222 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,620 |
juss tell hime wut or how u feel
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Nov 20 2004, 03:11 AM
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 skaters gonna skate. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,861 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,336 |
Yes, tell him how you feel.
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Nov 20 2004, 10:33 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 18 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,169 |
jesus. you're so lucky.
ask him whether he's joking or not and tell him wt u feel. be brave! :) |
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Nov 20 2004, 12:00 PM
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BIOTCH!!!! Group: Member Posts: 121 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 59,655 |
ok....im happy. now we're official gf and bf. but thanks all of you for helping me...you guys helped me better than my real "friends"
 i guess if you still wanna post in here you can. ....but wouldn't it be better if it was closed? thanks and laterz |
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Nov 20 2004, 03:52 PM
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If you decide to talk to him, do it in private. cause if you do it when a lotta people are there he might try and be all "COOL" in fron tof his friends which sucks (N)
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Nov 20 2004, 03:53 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 26 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,354 |
^^weell...i feel slow. but YAY FOR YOU!
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Nov 20 2004, 04:36 PM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
^thats why there is an edit button
and CONGRATS <3 |
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Nov 20 2004, 05:58 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
just go up to him straight up & ask him. do you like me? then you can express your feelings to him.
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Nov 20 2004, 06:28 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,549 |
well if he's immature then find out more information first. the only thing that makes me think he might like you is because of the fact that his friends said it too.
don't get your hopes up yet. |
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Nov 20 2004, 07:18 PM
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 Tina + Tommy Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575 |
ask him if he was playing around or if hes serious. i hate guys playing around like that.
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Dec 7 2004, 08:31 PM
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 =) Group: Member Posts: 201 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 69,624 |
Let him come to YOU, and see what happens. Just go with the flow
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Dec 7 2004, 08:36 PM
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yeah i'd just leave things be or find out for sure if he was being serious or not.
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