how can u tell if the guy u like, is gay or stright |
 Nov 17 2004, 08:37 PM
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im just wonderin... if anyone knows the difference.... cause one time i had a crush on a guy and then i found out he's gay.
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Nov 17 2004, 08:41 PM
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just ask him he he thinks the guy across the class room is cute... it always works for me
i really like it when i ask a guy that and he goes "oh so those are the kind of guys you like" cuase then you get thinking oh wow so has he been wondering about thwat guys i like oh and if it is any conselation, im in love with my best friend who happens to be gay, im dead serious too |
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Nov 17 2004, 11:07 PM
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QUOTE(Fallen_Fairy @ Nov 17 2004, 8:41 PM) oh and if it is any conselation, im in love with my best friend who happens to be gay, im dead serious too oh. that must hurt. i wish you good luck on that. i don't really know how to explain but i sometimes you can get hints on the way he acts towards people and stuff. |
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Nov 17 2004, 11:10 PM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
haha...watch out! some guys are clever...lol some guys at my brother's highschool [my future one
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Nov 17 2004, 11:21 PM
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 I'm your worst nightmare... Group: Member Posts: 391 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,600 |
guys who are gay have like a certain way of walking and talking. yeah my friend kinda taught me how to tell if a guy is gay.
oh there was this guy at an rotc competition we had, and i thought he was hot. but like some of my friends think he gay. i think hes hot. yup. i miss him |
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Nov 17 2004, 11:55 PM
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QUOTE(njgurl412 @ Nov 17 2004, 8:37 PM) im just wonderin... if anyone knows the difference.... cause one time i had a crush on a guy and then i found out he's gay. yikes. well....i guess u could just monitor the way he is when he's around other guys...*shrugs* 
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Nov 18 2004, 01:32 AM
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 Yes, I do have an Abercrombie booty. Group: Member Posts: 698 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,057 |
QUOTE(dafunnybunny @ Nov 17 2004, 11:21 PM) guys who are gay have like a certain way of walking and talking. yeah my friend kinda taught me how to tell if a guy is gay. oh there was this guy at an rotc competition we had, and i thought he was hot. but like some of my friends think he gay. i think hes hot. yup. i miss him Not necessarily true. Some guys can just be metro, and that's the reason to why they talk/walk like that. |
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Nov 18 2004, 05:16 PM
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 Smile Like a Retard =D Group: Member Posts: 1,350 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,186 |
i don't think you can really tell unless well, you ask them and they tell you the truth... sometimes, guys who are gay don't even know that are gay
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Nov 18 2004, 05:29 PM
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I don't know if anyone's noticed but gay people (especially the lesbians) have this weird look in their eyes. The easiest way to tell is their voice, and sometimes style. but sometimes they just act like a normal guy, and there's no distinct thing he does that gives you a clue he's gay.
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Nov 18 2004, 08:21 PM
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Yes, I do have an Abercrombie booty. Group: Member Posts: 698 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,057 |
QUOTE(XKali_chik_4_lifeX @ Nov 18 2004, 5:29 PM) but sometimes they just act like a normal guy, and there's no distinct thing he does that gives you a clue he's gay. Exactly. Just like the Karamo on Real World: Philadelphia. I had no idea he was gay until I saw that one episode where he was on the phone with someone and said that he was gay. I was shocked because he really didn't look or act gay. |
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Nov 18 2004, 08:29 PM
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 I'm not mean; You're just a sissy. Group: Member Posts: 796 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,520 |
watch that movie legally blonde and youll know
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Nov 18 2004, 09:53 PM
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erm gay?
hmm.. well define the meaning gay.. and u'll get ur answer. |
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Nov 18 2004, 10:43 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
you can't always tell from their actions and how they speak if they're gay or straight. some are very quiet about it and never tell anybody or let them know. they're just like the average person and you'd never even think they were gay. so there's no way to tell.
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Nov 18 2004, 11:10 PM
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Gay guys are hot.
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Nov 19 2004, 10:49 AM
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Gackt's Wife Group: Member Posts: 411 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,549 |
well... u can always ask him... most gay guys are really opened
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Nov 19 2004, 08:22 PM
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my brother told me, that anybody who wears rainbow on their shirts or whatever, they're showing everybody they're gay. another way, when guys wear just right ear earring, they also showing they're gay.
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Nov 19 2004, 08:35 PM
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i would just ask haha~
i once thought a guy at this place i was volunteering was hot and then i was wondering if he has a gf or not. and then i saw his necklace so im like: me: that's a nice necklace, your gf bought it for you? him: no my boyfriend did me: your gay? him: yea me: koo! lol~ and then after i found out he was gay he did act gay  just by the way he talks about things and walks and acts
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Nov 20 2004, 12:09 PM
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 BIOTCH!!!! Group: Member Posts: 121 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 59,655 |
on the other hand...queer guys are really hot...i would ask him straight out....or the "Do you think he is hot?" technique....well if he says yes...hes my new best friends lol..not really but yea....
 or i guess you can be a stalker and follow every move he makes....and thats one way. 
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Nov 20 2004, 12:30 PM
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Bring a hot guy/girl near him and make them flirt with him, then see if his pants starts bulging up. Then you'll know the answer.
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Nov 20 2004, 08:25 PM
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 GHETTO FABULOUS Group: Member Posts: 435 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,223 |
Who caresz?! All gay guys should look like Kuramo from THA REAL WORLD *droolsz*
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Nov 20 2004, 08:30 PM
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gawd who knows with all the metros around.... i suspect ALL of my guys friends to be gay... mostly the ones with pink highlighters
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Nov 20 2004, 09:37 PM
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well, a gay guy has a way of walking, talking, & dressing. i remember one time, my friend liked this guy. he looked hella gay but when she asked him he said no. well, try to ask some of your guy friends or try looking on how the way he dresses, talks, & walks. i'm not saying become a stalker. puwahahah. good luck on that.
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Nov 25 2004, 06:48 PM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
[/QUOTE][QUOTE] probally the way he talks n the way he moves n walks if differnet from the way a straight guy does the motion . . i dunno . . i have no gay frds or lesbian frds . =)
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Nov 25 2004, 07:32 PM
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QUOTE(s0pnayish @ Nov 18 2004, 8:21 PM) Exactly. Just like the Karamo on Real World: Philadelphia. I had no idea he was gay until I saw that one episode where he was on the phone with someone and said that he was gay. I was shocked because he really didn't look or act gay. me too. i was shocked |
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Nov 25 2004, 10:21 PM
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 ...Oon sro lanh Bong... Group: Member Posts: 114 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,944 |
QUOTE(christiee_nax @ Nov 18 2004, 6:29 PM) watch that movie legally blonde and youll know i agree! lol. thats one way u can find out if a guy's gay or not. |
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