Why Do You Date? Options

[shortiiex]

I know a few people who only date because they just want a boyfriend
i think dating is fun..you have another person to be with..it's like exploring with that person

[miss_asian]

i juss want a guys who could juss understand me...that's ir and of course it's fun

[LiNHy POO]

haha i dont look for boyfriends really. they juss come by and yehh i go with the flow. first it was to get some experience and now its more serious... and juss wanting someone there for me.

[christiee_nax]

im in for those serious relationships .. who could ever resist just cuddling up with them and giving little pecks on the lips and then saying i love you's? awwwwww

[tresa1992]

I haven't dated, well yes I have but he was a jerk. So it doesn't count. Heh. Um, if I actually did date someone it is because I love him/like him a lot. I would love a serious relationship and include romance (not physical, but the love-ey kind where you cuddle and stuff).. Heh.

[Winter]

I used to date to make my ex jealous. But now I guess he's moved on. So I've moved on as well and now I guess I just want a serious relationship with someone.

[*tweeak*]

because its our primal mating ritual.

but as i am a most civilized person, i do not take part in these neanderthalic activities.

...or at least thats what im going to tell myself from now on

[diezelbabygrl_xo...]

I do it for fun. And to have a companion, just someone special to talk to.

[teenprincess]

I dont date but if i did I would do it for fun.

[premonition]

hmm... serious relationship and fun.

[pink_tootsie]

err..i cant date yet..only 13

[Br0kenxImag3]

...Dont date yet...

[*autumn.*]

to get a feel for it. you know, dip my toes into the water.

[lilxroxy]

i started my first date with him cos i srsly loved him
...then it became someone who understood me..
....then i dated cos i feel more secure that someone will say "i love yu" cos he meant it..
..buh that kind didn`t last long..
...cos i still liked the guy i first gone out with...

[pnai4eva]

I don't date...maybe when i'm older.

[EddieV]

Not a girl but i date because I need someone who can understand me and someone to talk to whenever I have a problem...

[xquizit]

To get a better idea of what I want in a partner.

[whywasisostupid]

-i need someone to talk to.
-someone to hold me when im upset
-to understand me
-to love me for who i am
-some to make me laugh
-someone who can tell the whole world that im the best girl he culd ever have

[teeners4]

So you can dump them the next day

[sheepy]

i want a serious relationship

[lonelydevil426]

there are a bunch of pplz who date cuz they don't wanna be lonely and wanna look good...but i really want a serious relationship.

[vivien]

i hadn't date yet

[tinababy143]

a couple reasons really..yeah..cos i want a bf..but also i want a serious relationship..but also..if im attracted to someone..i cant just stop..ya know??

[xj_liana_tx]

i dont date, my parents ll kill me, and i mean.. no one i like so far likes me back, there isn't a point to go out with someone u dont like

[1--GIRL]

Because I'm horny.



No, I don't know..

[*xcaitlinx*]

hmm...date as in go on auctual dates? or have a boyfriend? well if its going on dates then i dont do that yet...but i have boyfriends USUALLY for a serious relationship. unless hes lyk, totally hot and i just want to show him off

[inthemudhole]

Well.
I've only ever been on 2 dates, and had one boyfriend.. but I still have time, right?

Yeah.

I want to date for a serious relationship..

[mouse_3k]

I want a serious relationship. i never dated NE one for like a week or somethin..thts..bleh


Its either 2 months or more.

maybe thts why i only had 2 bfs

[megan_x3]

[/QUOTE]i want sum serious relationships wit guys . [QUOTE]

[bbyunique]

when i did date, i just wanted a boyfriend who understood me and was there for me. i consider dating goin out with ther person. every has different terms or whatever. i got to know the guys real well before i moved on, shortest relationship was 3 months. but i don't date anymore im in a serious relationship.

[*Azarel*]

I date because sometimes I feel the need to be wanted by someone. Actually, often times. And I'm really more codependant than I'd like to admit. But really, dating to find the right person who'll make me happy. I've found him.

[curiousperson]

i am going on my first date in a few hours w/this guy who is only really my friend and i do'nt know what 2 do

[angelshortipnai]

i don't date yet..and i'm 14... if i did date tho, I would just want someone who understands me ^_^

[xlaydee_v]

serious relationship.dating guys for no apparent reason is frigging stupid becasue its a waste of them and someone always gets hurt

[osidepinay33]

I neva been on a date in my life!!! so i don't date! Lol. But i would love to go on one!

[curiousperson]

i'm only 14 and the date i was suppose 2 go on [very 1st date!] has somehow gone horribly wrong
i feel bad because there was no way to let my date know that i couldn't make it so he was probably lonesome
i feel soooooooooooooo bad!!!!

[*mzkandi*]

Because I am looking for the "one"...as corny as that sounds

[i can break]

I don't date...Maybe because I've never had a bf.

[kellee91]

welll i date them because i like them....n also i guess they like me back.

oh and also i want them to get to know me and understand me on the inside..not on the out side...because thats wat most ppl c....the outside of me :P

[*Weird addiction*]

I date for fun. Because i want to. I don't date because i'm horny. You don't have to date to *get some*

[curiousperson]

my friend Samantha is close pals w/a girl named Kiera

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

I date for a serious relationship.

[iixSOOJINx]

i would date because i like them.
i dont think thats any of the choice above?

[bang_head]

i remember the simple days when i wouldn't date because i'm stupid and codependent and oh-so-me.

however, those days have ended. i am now being consumed by my relationship with my current best friend... boyfriend... favorite person :). not that being consumed is a totally bad thing. but i'm scared of dating.

[Nicolatofu]

I don't even know why I bother anymore. I just end up getting hurt.

But I date so that I can go through a series of trials to be sure of the type of guy I really want in a commited relationship later on down the road.

[BrokenDream]

-_- I haven't dated yet. How sad! But, if I did, I'd do it because I want a realationship, or just for fun.

[*Azarel*]

my friend Samantha is close pals w/a girl named Kiera

Irrelevant - please don't spam.

I don't even know why I bother anymore. I just end up getting hurt.

<3

[kitty1982]

as if you would date someone just so you could break up with them!!

thats silly, childish behaviour!

[technicolour]

i want someone to understand me..if he can do that then i have found my soul mate

[kitty1982]

as if you would date someone just so you could break up with them!!

thats silly, childish behaviour!

[kitty1982]

as if you would date someone just so you could break up with them!!

thats silly, childish behaviour!

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[alice1017]

to make someone jealous

[Mileep]

lots of reasons though...

[yupimchuck]

Someone to understand me.

[EriaNight]

I agree with lost [child].

For someone to understand me :)

Because we're all a little complicated.

[alliegrl_x]

someone who will understand you..i think you have friends for that.
i dont necesarily get a bf to fufill a certain need, i dont think.
if i happen to like someone, then i would naturally want to be with them. and im not the go after type either..it just comes i guess =S
And once you get into a relationship you can enjoy the benefits:
have fun
feeling of belonging or having a bf/gf
have a serious relationship
have someone understand you
even to fufill your horny needs
but like i said, those things are benefits you enjoy by being in a relationship. and for me not necesarily using a certain reason to find one.

i think that made sense

[parallel]

I do it for fun.

[*grrfield*]

Is it for fun? For marriage? Tell me.

[Saeglopur]

Good question.
















I haven't dated yet.. so I really don't know. I only have a feeling that if I do start dating someone, my feelings for them will be lost. So, I don't know why.

[topsyturvy]

To feel wanted and loved and worthy of affection and attention

[Oranite]

To feel wanted and loved and worthy of affection and attention

hahahahahaha thats so true.

[*mipadi*]

For fun. I think people are often much too worried about an eventual goal, such as marriage. It's not the goal that matters; it's the path along the way.

[silver-rain]

To feel wanted and loved and worthy of affection and attention

Yep, I agree with that. But now, in my current relationship, we hope to last a long time, and hopefully get married too.

[NgocQuyen]

umm...if i were to date it would because i felt something for this guy...i mean i wouldnt just date guys for fun...i would have to have an emotional attraction to him

[Chii]

i date because i'm looking forward to getting married. that was always my goal...date, get married, have a nice house, have a couple of kids, bake cookies, etc

[xFaith]

to have fun, being loved and appreciated.. its a lot about confidence, really xDDD but for fun too =)

[jennyjenny]

I haven't dated yet.
But I can tell you why I would want to.

To cuddle, to make out.
To feel that someone else cares about you as much as you care about them.
To feel loved.
To feel that people actually like you.
To feel attractive.
To feel protected.

[Irikitti]

I've dated a fairly decent amount... and it is fun VERY fun. It usually just starts off as fun but when you date someone you really care about it can turn into dating them for possibly marriage. And dating really is there for you to find the person you wanna spend the rest of your life with.

[_sarcastic_]

to feel loved, secure, wanted, have someone there no matter what, eventually get married

[heyyeh]

For fun. I think people are often much too worried about an eventual goal, such as marriage. It's not the goal that matters; it's the path along the way.

so true

[HuGzNKissEs]

well i can tell u exactly why i started dating my current boyfriend....

i felt bad for the guy cuz he had asked me so darn much

but 3 years later....

i'm STILL dating this guy

but for a TOTALLY different reason

I Love him....I really do!

[xmkaex]

To feel wanted and loved and worthy of affection and attention

^same here
tho i haven't dated yet...

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

To feel wanted and loved and worthy of affection and attention

Pretty much, but also i want to be with the person.

And when i find someone i can be serious about, mos def. marriage

[mouse_3k]

tryin to see if I could marry them. I want someone in which i dated for a long time before i marry them as if from highschool to the mide 20s long.

[*grrfield*]

But if you DO date for fun, you do KNOW that you will break up eventually and you'll go into depression blahblahblah??

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

^ Well arent you just a little ball of sunshine ? Lol Jk.

Well, if you do go into depression shouldnt we all look as it as just an experience that will make you stronger later on in your life ? Thats what i do after im done moping.

[mistaken_identit...]

to get hurt at the end.
or during it
whichever you prefer

nah just kidding.
its gotta be something good or else why would everyone want it.
well most people

[Kneuklid Romance]

But if you DO date for fun, you do KNOW that you will break up eventually and you'll go into depression blahblahblah??

Hmmmm every relationship that my friends have been in (both male and female) they're all very serious about relationships and don't date for fun.

And as of yet they're all engaged and ready to be married and have very stable lives.

I'm the only that has yet to be engaged but only having a relationship with my girlfriend for a year and preparing for my baseball career has me tongue tied at the moment but I do agree with you based on my experience. My friends that have tried dating for just fun or going on a blind date for the hell of it have all ended in disaster.

LHHRS

Kevyn @-)--------

[lilphoenix]

You date to get to know someone better... so you can find just the riiight one. :o}

I haven't found mine yet, I'm still looking. [Haven't actually dated before, that might help though.]

[MiiSZ_P3NGUiiN_x...]

to b like everyone else..

[cfaye3char]

I date because I am looking for mr. right. I enjoy being with a guy who is nice and if it does not work out I pull myself together and look some more, right now I am not dating, taking a rest.

[*grrfield*]

to b like everyone else..

that's stupid.

do you guys believe that high school relationships go on to be marriages? it's hard. i haven't met anyone who has dated for 10 years.

[verlorenrivets]

I've never really been on an official date with a girl.

I hang out with them, and if we have chemistry we end up "going out", but that's just more hanging out more often and sex.

Dating is a waste of time at any age less than 25. Girls have no f**king clue what they want. Even the most solidly stable girl will dump you at pretty close to the 1 year mark.

Sadly I speak from experience. If you don't want to be like me, don't even think about relationships as a serious thing until you're 30.

[shortiiex]

http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php...topic=46484&hl=


i date for fun

[Kneuklid Romance]

to b like everyone else..

....I hope that's not your overall look on life. O_O.

LHHRS

Kevyn @-)------

[Chii]

I've never really been on an official date with a girl.

I hang out with them, and if we have chemistry we end up "going out", but that's just more hanging out more often and sex.

Dating is a waste of time at any age less than 25. Girls have no f**king clue what they want. Even the most solidly stable girl will dump you at pretty close to the 1 year mark.

Sadly I speak from experience. If you don't want to be like me, don't even think about relationships as a serious thing until you're 30.

thank you for the compliment. since you sound like such a delightful person, you can't be blamed for anything that has to do with your break ups. it's not like it takes two to tango or anything right?

[boobooxpp]

truthfully...i date to be married...what's the point of those 1 month relationships? it's useless...

[ParanoidAndroid]

So I can have an ego infiltrator

[*mzkandi*]

http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php...topic=46484&hl=
i date for fun

Thank you, I knew there was a topic on this but I could find it.

Topics Merged

[topsyturvy]

I think "Want a serious realationship" and "Want someone who will understand you" is sort of the same thing

[*grrfield*]

truthfully...i date to be married...what's the point of those 1 month relationships? it's useless...

exactly my point.
i don't get it either.

[*mipadi*]

exactly my point.
i don't get it either.

Well...because...it's fun.

What's the point of anything in life? one could ask.

[miss-_-guitar]

i want someone to understand me but no one really does. im kinds weird.

[Fade to Black]

just want someone to talk to, express my feelings, hang out with, have fun

[HelplessCry]

i date so how can get ready for a marriage. you'll learn through past relationships whats right and wrong what to except and what to learn from. Some relationships don't last some do for a long period of time.
Also it gets to your taste in what you like. My context in describing isnt good...mybad.

[xheartbroken_chi...]

I date because I like the person that I'm dating.
And I have fun with them.

[*danielle_x3*]

i date because i'd like that person, and he'd like me back. and i'd just be attracted to that person

[Soleil]

If i did have dates...theyd probably only be for fun!

[xhidethedetails]

For a serious relationship

[coconutter]

I date because I like to go on dates, because I'm attracted to the guy, and I know I have him to myself. I can kiss him and tell him I love him without feeling totally weird and knowing he would do the same. sigh..