AIYA IM SO MAD... Options

[lil_shadow]

arghhhh i am so pissed off. im also wondering if im posting this in the right forum..ok well w/e move my topic if you want. i have a 'best friend' that always blows me off. the first time she sed i meant sumthin to her she was liek 'ur my best friend....in new jersey.' and im like thinking wtf...in nj!!?1? so im only ur best friend in new jersey huh? cuz shes just moved from new york and i've met her bitchy best friend from ny and i hate her. so i left it at that. and then now, this year. this year we arent in any of the same classes and she made new friends right? and im not hanging around her as much but i still want to talk to her. she doesnt even say hi to me anymore btu shes always laughing with these group of girls that are nice but i hate it cuz they ignore me wen my best friend is around them. and my best friend always has these 'inside jokes' with them and i feel so left out. and she also sed that these groups of people were her 'best friends' and wen i got mad about this and told her she was like....well there my friends and all of my best friends are equal and besides u have ______(names sum of the people that i just met this year and she doesnt like)and my 'best friend' wen i say hi to her she stares at me with pouting lips and this expression liek 'what are you doing slug i dont know you' and blinks at me and looks at the ground without answering. and wen i talk to her shes not even listening and she stares at the floor all of the time. i dont have many friends so she really was my best friend and i depended on her alot. but this year im alone and shes completly isolating me and my other group of friends that we used to hang out with. and oh yea, i go to church with sum of my friends and recently i have been driving my best friend there to get her aquainted with God. but then wen i asked her the last tiem she was liek 'are we doing anything special?' and im like no probably not. and shes like ok then im not coming. I MEAN WTF REALLY I WAS TRYING TO HELP HER SO SHE CAN BE SAVED AND I WAANT HER TO GO TO CHURCH BECAUSE SHE WANTS TO KNOW GOD, NOT BECAUSE HER GROUP OF FRIENDS ARENT GOING OR BECAUSE WERE NOT HAVING SUM FUNDRAISER EVERY SINGLE TIME WE GO TO CHURCH....so now im going to pray for her...anyways...i need help...duno what to do..i feel so alone.

[NatiMarie]

Ack!
First breath in, then out.
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I'm sorry that you're feeling this way. Your 'best friend' isn't really your best friend anymore. If she's blowing you off that way, you should really just try to find companionship elsewhere. Having a friend that makes you feel isolated, well you might as well hang around by yourself if they're going to make you feel the same way.
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Pray for her though...and hopefully she'll see the great friend she's losing.
Seriously though, try making new friends. They'll probably care for you more and hopefully give you back that feeling that you once had with your other 'best friend'.
Hope all goes well with you.
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[timeisrunningout]

"ur my best friend... in new jersey"??? man, that must suck SO much! i guess you could try and talk to her straight out about what you feel and see what she says. If she thinks the friendship is over, find new friends, she's not worth it if she treat you like that. But if she sounds like she DOES want to save this friendship, give it another try do what you think is right =)

[nyCzxfOx]

Slap her across the face. Hard too.



people who isolate you and call you their best friend like that

isnt worth it trust me.. and if people biotch at you for that..

.... smack them too

[lil_shadow]

awww thanks u guys...but im still mad...ppl think im weird at my school so i dont make friends that easily and the people that are in most of my classes are really rude and mean.

[*jooleeah*]

Maaan I've had experiences like that. It really sucks. You know, she's not really your " best friend" anymore =/ i mean, all she's doing is ditching you and such. just don't try to hang around her anymore...and make new friends =] hopefully you'll find more people that care about you and won't blow you off and such. good luck. she'll probably start realizing soon that she lost a best friend that she won't be able to regain back soon.