No guy is worth your tears |
 Nov 14 2004, 01:30 PM
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You guys are dumb.  Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094  |
And why not?
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Nov 14 2004, 01:49 PM
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cause a relationship this young won't last till marrage, so why be hurt now?
i don't know.. that's my guess.. lol |
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Nov 14 2004, 01:50 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
Young? Who mentioned anything about young..
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Nov 14 2004, 01:51 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,172 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,045 |
errr.. okay then.. a relationship before marriage?
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Nov 14 2004, 01:53 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
Just any male-female male-male relationship. May it be marriage. May it be love. Shrug.
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Nov 14 2004, 01:56 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,172 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,045 |
yea but tha point is if a relationship that isn't going to marriage hurts you, then it's not worth it cause tha outcome wasn't good. but if they did get married, then it'd be worth it because you'll be living happily ever after
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Nov 14 2004, 02:50 PM
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 cB`s Unofficial Sig Whore Group: Member Posts: 185 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,784 |
Nothing is worth any tears, but you can't help if a guy elicits that reaction.
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Nov 14 2004, 03:36 PM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
QUOTE(jnukes @ Nov 14 2004, 1:56 PM) yea but tha point is if a relationship that isn't going to marriage hurts you, then it's not worth it cause tha outcome wasn't good. but if they did get married, then it'd be worth it because you'll be living happily ever after but how would you know if your relationship will last until marriage? why not just cry now to get it over with? |
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Nov 14 2004, 03:38 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
umm they can be....i've cried over a guy before. and hes was definitly worth it
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Nov 14 2004, 04:26 PM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
i've cried over guys before. one was def worth it, the other wasn't.
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Nov 14 2004, 04:53 PM
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 aiko Nakamura at your service Group: Member Posts: 1,518 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,144 |
because he hurt you &doesnt know the pain.
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Nov 14 2004, 08:07 PM
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QUOTE(dreamerOi @ Nov 14 2004, 4:53 PM) because he hurt you &doesnt know the pain. say hello to karma. |
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Nov 14 2004, 09:11 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
QUOTE(dreamerOi @ Nov 14 2004, 4:53 PM) because he hurt you &doesnt know the pain. That is moron talk. What if this guy is someone you have been with for 5 years. You love him and engaged. Then you cry over something moronicly stupid and you think it hurts. Hm..... |
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Nov 14 2004, 09:26 PM
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i mean it will hurt, if hes worth it, well like you said your engaged with him, which means you were willing to spend a life time commitment with the guy. and he breaks it off how would you feel
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Nov 15 2004, 02:13 AM
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 ~The CB Advice Giver~ Group: Member Posts: 505 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,021 |
No guy is worth your tears,
the same can be said for a girl, are eithe really worth it? deep down inside? loosing your relationship, i know it can hurt your pride, especally if you loved them, and they said they loved you back, but now that they are done, can you take any of it back? nope, its gone, what you've said is done, its never gonna go away, the feelings that u had for them, when they said "i do" or "okay" You are left feeling empty, emotionless, untrue, when u ask if they are worth your tears, ask if the same can be said for you, do you think you were loving? did you show that you cared? did you both spend happy moments? goofed off? played truth or dare? Did you look into their eyes, and give them a special kiss? Did you show them how to dance? how to hug? what did you miss? Do you miss the romantic moments, u shared cuddled up by the fire? Do you miss the sweet words, said to you, even in denial? When you ask yourself are they worth your tears, did you think of all these things? all the laughter, all the joy, even the hardships that things bring? so if you find yourself asking, are they really worth your tears, May you think of all the times you shared, and may they wash away all your fears. Do i think that the special some one is worth my tears? If they brought good times, if things became that serious, then yes i do belive. |
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Nov 15 2004, 06:03 AM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
Oreo Bro..damnit you almost made me cry!
See, a guy like HIM is worth our tears. Especially with that beautiful poem.  Getting back on the topic. We say "No guy is worth your tears" because of our expectations. They're too high at times. That's what I think anyway. I agree with Oreo Bro. If that guy has brought you good times, and you thoroughly enjoyed those times and find yourself missing them, then YES, it is worth your tears. Ying and yang. It's a balance, I guess. What you get out of love, you'll eventually get out of sorrow. 
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Nov 15 2004, 02:54 PM
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gary you took the words out of me. i agree but you put it so much better than i ever could have.
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Nov 15 2004, 03:07 PM
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aiko Nakamura at your service Group: Member Posts: 1,518 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,144 |
QUOTE(th5418 @ Nov 14 2004, 7:11 PM) That is moron talk. What if this guy is someone you have been with for 5 years. You love him and engaged. Then you cry over something moronicly stupid and you think it hurts. Hm..... well then i suppose cry over him. jeez i was just answering the question. &plus. most guys i cry over are not because of the guy sometimes but because i need a person because i am lonely. in life i suppose. and that is whyu when i cry over a guy he is worth it. some stuck and some left. but most stuck just that it hurt when i saw them. brings pain and memories. i cant help it if i get caught in my own emotions. crud. |
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Nov 15 2004, 06:53 PM
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~The CB Advice Giver~ Group: Member Posts: 505 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,021 |
QUOTE(tainted_angel @ Nov 15 2004, 3:03 AM) Oreo Bro..damnit you almost made me cry! See, a guy like HIM is worth our tears. Especially with that beautiful poem. Getting back on the topic. We say "No guy is worth your tears" because of our expectations. They're too high at times. That's what I think anyway. I agree with Oreo Bro. If that guy has brought you good times, and you thoroughly enjoyed those times and find yourself missing them, then YES, it is worth your tears. awww..thanks girls lol |
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Nov 15 2004, 06:59 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
no guy is worth your tears because all guys suck. end of discussion.
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Nov 15 2004, 07:21 PM
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 Lookie Se7en!! Group: Member Posts: 36 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,534 |
 some replies are kinda creepy....haha well anyway! yea i don't think guys are girls are worth crying over unless you really LOVEDEd them...but if not...then no but how DO you know if they are worth it.......hmm this is confusing
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Nov 15 2004, 08:30 PM
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i dont know what kind of guy you're talking about, but my guy is worth my tears.
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Nov 15 2004, 10:18 PM
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 xinistical member Group: Member Posts: 123 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,328 |
some guys are worth ur tears...depends on how much u luv them tho.
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Nov 15 2004, 10:44 PM
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 Nymphetamine Girl Group: Member Posts: 206 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,433 |
No guys is worth your tears and the one that is..won't make you cry.
 Old quote..true. |
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Nov 16 2004, 12:21 AM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
QUOTE(Fatality @ Nov 15 2004, 9:44 PM) No guys is worth your tears and the one that is..won't make you cry. Old quote..true. i like that. so true. |
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Nov 16 2004, 12:24 AM
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every ons who makes you cry for love is worth it.. it could be a sign that you really do like him... or that you cry when ever you dont get what you want... but idk...
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Nov 16 2004, 01:01 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
QUOTE(Oreo_bro @ Nov 14 2004, 9:13 PM) No guy is worth your tears, the same can be said for a girl, are eithe really worth it? deep down inside? loosing your relationship, i know it can hurt your pride, especally if you loved them, and they said they loved you back, but now that they are done, can you take any of it back? nope, its gone, what you've said is done, its never gonna go away, the feelings that u had for them, when they said "i do" or "okay" You are left feeling empty, emotionless, untrue, when u ask if they are worth your tears, ask if the same can be said for you, do you think you were loving? did you show that you cared? did you both spend happy moments? goofed off? played truth or dare? Did you look into their eyes, and give them a special kiss? Did you show them how to dance? how to hug? what did you miss? Do you miss the romantic moments, u shared cuddled up by the fire? Do you miss the sweet words, said to you, even in denial? When you ask yourself are they worth your tears, did you think of all these things? all the laughter, all the joy, even the hardships that things bring? so if you find yourself asking, are they really worth your tears, May you think of all the times you shared, and may they wash away all your fears. Do i think that the special some one is worth my tears? If they brought good times, if things became that serious, then yes i do belive. *sniffle* that almost made me cry. but yea i totally agree. |
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Nov 16 2004, 01:27 AM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
It depends how pathetic they are. If they really care about you and actually mean it and the last thing they wanted to do was to make you cry ... but .. he did anyways .. well .. i guess he's worth it ...? i dont know. i havent really cried over a guy yet ..
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Nov 16 2004, 01:30 AM
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 your sweetest sin. Group: Member Posts: 416 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,960 |
QUOTE(Fatality @ Nov 15 2004, 10:44 PM) No guys is worth your tears and the one that is..won't make you cry. Old quote..true. ditto. the only guy that is worth your tears.. wont make yooh cry. |
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Nov 16 2004, 03:16 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 297 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,338 |
I've cried over a guy before... only one though.
I'm not really sure if no guy's worth your tears... Cause right now it seems like he is  But then... I have all these thoughts, like he shouldn't be worth my tears... Since he doesn't even have a clue I've shed them... And that he doesn't even care about how I feel... (well not that much)... |
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Nov 16 2004, 08:57 PM
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QUOTE No guys is worth your tears and the one that is..won't make you cry.
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Nov 16 2004, 09:35 PM
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werd up.
why not? because if they made u cry, their probably a bitch and bitches dont deserve ppl crying on them |
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Nov 16 2004, 11:53 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
QUOTE(Fatality @ Nov 15 2004, 10:44 PM) No guys is worth your tears and the one that is..won't make you cry. Old quote..true. Thats also a lot of *major explixitaves(sp?) |
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Nov 18 2004, 04:50 PM
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guys just arent worth it...
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Nov 18 2004, 10:35 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
some are worth the tears.. *no guy is worth your tears* is so cliche. and all that *the one who is will never make you cry* blah blah blah .. good times will come just as often as bad. you learn to take them both together. it's healthy in a relationship to have arguments where you'll be crying over them, etc. if you care about them that temporary amount of pain is worth it and neutralized for the times they've made you smile.
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Nov 19 2004, 08:41 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
aww...oreo_bro that poem was really touching. it almost made me cry too!
personally, i think it depends on the person. if you really feel that he/she is truly a good person and really does deserve those tears, then cry. |
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Nov 19 2004, 04:39 PM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
One girl is worth my tears though, in fact, I'm thinking of her right now...
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Nov 19 2004, 09:40 PM
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cry over him if he's worth it.
don't cry over him just because he left you for some prettier girl or cheated on you. that probably means that he never really liked you anyway. on that situation, SCREW HIM and move on. |
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Nov 19 2004, 10:02 PM
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QUOTE(airam @ Nov 14 2004, 4:36 PM) but how would you know if your relationship will last until marriage? why not just cry now to get it over with? hahahaha, thats awesome, hoorah. and to everyone else... i am worth your tears. Hoorah Cocky Bastard Me, Hoorah 
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