marriage, who's descision should it be? |
 Nov 12 2004, 10:23 PM
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 I'm not mean; You're just a sissy.  Group: Member Posts: 796 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,520  |
i have to write an essay for english and thats the topic above and im hoping you all could help me and tell me whats your opinion and if you could give me your reasons for picking so. thank youuuu!
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Nov 12 2004, 10:29 PM
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depends on whose choice it is. mostly its the parents. but i could be wrong. hey im not married!
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Nov 12 2004, 10:30 PM
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 Can't have the hand without the cock. Group: Member Posts: 2,481 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,622 |
Marry whoever they want, but get an okay with the parents.
Because you want your parents to accept them, but not choose who to love and who not to love. |
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Nov 12 2004, 11:10 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
QUOTE(jambaJUICE @ Nov 12 2004, 9:30 PM) Marry whoever they want, but get an okay with the parents. Because you want your parents to accept them, but not choose who to love and who not to love. ah i agree! you and your parents are different people and some of things they like... maybe you dont. |
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Nov 12 2004, 11:10 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904 |
You should have a right to choose who you want to marry coz it's your life.
But in Asia there are still parents who arrange marriages for their kids. |
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Nov 12 2004, 11:12 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,541 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,332 |
I think this should be in debate.
I think the person that is getting married should have the right to choose. It's their life; not the parents'. |
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Nov 12 2004, 11:24 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
we should be allowed to choose who we marry cause if the parents choose, its like they're choosing who we can love and cannot love and yea thats wrong O_o
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Nov 12 2004, 11:28 PM
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 skaters gonna skate. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,861 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,336 |
The person that is getting married should have the right to choose ..
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Nov 12 2004, 11:45 PM
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 lick me Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 |
yeah I think this should be in debate
whoevers getting married, should decide. |
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Nov 12 2004, 11:50 PM
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I'm not mean; You're just a sissy. Group: Member Posts: 796 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,520 |
lol yah i kinda thought it should be on the debate but i didnt think that like alot of people would really go on it
 move it if it pleases you 
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Nov 13 2004, 12:40 AM
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 that heaven is overrated Group: Member Posts: 5,096 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,124 |
Well, first of all, it can't be in debate because it's a poll. Polls are not allowed in debate. Secondly, I think the person getting married should be the one to decide on who they should marry. But then again, they wouldn't be too happy if their parents didn't like the person they wanted to marry. But they wouldn't be happy if they married a person they had no interest in. So I say, it's better for them to just follow what their heart decides.
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Nov 13 2004, 12:55 AM
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 shawBOO!! Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 58,313 |
I think we should be able to choose who we marry. Cause if the parents do then it's like they're choosing the rest of your life, since your going to spend the rest of your life with that person. And if you don't like that person then that would not be cool. So marrying who you want to spend the rest of your life is somthing we should choose not our parents or anyone else.
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Nov 13 2004, 01:03 AM
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 if i was a rich girl.. Group: Member Posts: 703 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,836 |
QUOTE(jambaJUICE @ Nov 12 2004, 10:30 PM) Marry whoever they want, but get an okay with the parents. Because you want your parents to accept them, but not choose who to love and who not to love. agreed.
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Nov 13 2004, 01:40 AM
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 Yes, I do have an Abercrombie booty. Group: Member Posts: 698 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,057 |
I believe the person should marry whoever they want. It's their choice. THEIR the one that's getting married to that person. NOT their parents. However, it would be nice if the parents are alright with the person their child is getting married to, but even if the parents disapprove, I think it's their child's right to marry whoever they want.
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| *stephinika* |
Nov 13 2004, 02:23 AM
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yeah i think the person who's getting married should make the decision. firstly its their life, and if they are at the age to be getting married, they should be in charge and make their own choices. yes the parents may not approve, but so what? yeah they may look down on it but if they loved you they'd come around and get over it and be happy that you're happy.
btw...new avatar. just thought i'd mention haha i got bored of my other one.
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Nov 13 2004, 03:00 AM
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 Wat up mah asian nigga?! Group: Member Posts: 140 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,129 |
wat if ur parents dont agree with you in who u want to marry? does that mean u cannot marry them?
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Nov 13 2004, 09:47 AM
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it should be MY decision because it's MY life ya know?
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| *Weird addiction* |
Nov 13 2004, 09:49 AM
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it should be OUR discision not our parent's,that sucks
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Nov 13 2004, 09:50 AM
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 black prep numba 1 Group: Member Posts: 519 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,144 |
the parents should have at least a lil say so like if they think the person is good enough for them...but they should just go out and say "you two are getting married cause we say so!" no now thats just wrong!
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Nov 13 2004, 10:39 AM
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 dudeee! Group: Member Posts: 873 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,897 |
the person should be able to marry whoever they want.. the parents should have some say in it but they shouldnt force someone to marry someone..
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Nov 13 2004, 10:58 AM
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QUOTE(EnrapturedElf @ Nov 13 2004, 4:00 PM) wat if ur parents dont agree with you in who u want to marry? does that mean u cannot marry them? Legally, you can still marry that person if you are over 18. But your parents probably won't admit that that person is their son/daughter in law. |
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Nov 13 2004, 12:22 PM
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I'm not mean; You're just a sissy. Group: Member Posts: 796 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,520 |
and what if your parents give you reasons like he's not suitable for you because of difference in social standards, cultures, race, religion, money, etc? statics prove that people are divorcing more often now that some of them choose who they marry. whats your opinion bout that?
another question for my essay 
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Nov 13 2004, 01:58 PM
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 my <3 is in Ohio Group: Member Posts: 899 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,599 |
i believe you should have the right to choose. the only problem is many people don't want their parents being ashamed of them, so they choose who their parents want them to marry. but marriage is about love and commitment. so if you love the person and want to spend the rest of your life with them then you should be easily committed and do whatever you want.
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Nov 13 2004, 02:00 PM
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QUOTE(jambaJUICE @ Nov 12 2004, 10:30 PM) Marry whoever they want, but get an okay with the parents. Because you want your parents to accept them, but not choose who to love and who not to love. i agree! woudl you want to marry somebody you didnt love? |
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Nov 13 2004, 02:29 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
i think the person should choose who they want to marry because they love them. so what if your parents don't like them, they have to understand its who you love and want to marry. they should just accept that.
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Nov 13 2004, 02:32 PM
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i'm glad 30 people in a row voted for tha 2nd option over tha 1st..
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Nov 13 2004, 03:36 PM
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asian parents r always strict on marriage, there should be a show called "who wants to marry my asian daughter/son, u ve gota get over my dead body first."
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Nov 13 2004, 04:15 PM
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QUOTE Marry whoever they want, but get an okay with the parents. Because you want your parents to accept them, but not choose who to love and who not to love. I agree, marry whoever you want. No point in being miserable for the rest of your ife because you married someone you don't love. But you should try and get an okay from your parents since you'd probably want them to get along. |
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Nov 13 2004, 07:48 PM
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its the person thats getting marry to choose because its their marriage, they have the right to pick their bride/groom.
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Nov 13 2004, 07:50 PM
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I think it should be your decision but get a parent's okay. I know it's your own life and such, but your parents are usually the ones who know what's best for you.
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Nov 14 2004, 01:03 PM
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 RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
i dont wanna get married
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Nov 14 2004, 02:03 PM
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We should choose who our lovers should be. If parents choose it for us, who knows, we might end up getting divorced or something. Some people though, have certain religions. Therefore, it's not their say to say who's to marry and stuff..
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