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 Nov 12 2004, 10:10 PM
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 life can be unfair to you & me  Group: Member Posts: 195 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 9,963  |
have you ever loved someone for so long but he/she never loved you back? and your friends are telling you to stop loving him/her? don't you get sick of it? i thought susan was the one who was hurting me, but then again i was wrong. it was my friend's fault for telling me to stop loving susan that she'll never come back to my life. it hurts because they always say "you have no chance with her, so just move on" would you listen to your friends or would you keep on loving that person forever and just ignore what your friends were saying?
i ignored my friends. i mean it's our life. we control it, not them. we can love anytime and we can love whoever. it's not their choice. it's my choice. so yeh that's the question i was wondering from you guys. the one that is bolded |
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Nov 12 2004, 10:43 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
i think it depends on how much u love that person. Your friends only say that cuz they care about u and they dont want u to like someone that u dont even have 50% chance of being with... and they dont want u to wait for no reason... so i can tolerate my friends.
i guess if i really like that person.. ill keep it inside and in front of my friends ill act as if im over him so they wont need to worry |
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Nov 13 2004, 01:51 AM
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QUOTE(conster @ Nov 12 2004, 10:43 PM) i think it depends on how much u love that person. Your friends only say that cuz they care about u and they dont want u to like someone that u dont even have 50% chance of being with... and they dont want u to wait for no reason... so i can tolerate my friends. i guess if i really like that person.. ill keep it inside and in front of my friends ill act as if im over him so they wont need to worry yea i agree with this guy/girl iono ive never had that b4 im only 12 hahah but i would like to get ppl's opinon's on this |
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Nov 13 2004, 02:32 AM
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 Can't have the hand without the cock. Group: Member Posts: 2,481 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,622 |
Most of the time.. my friend's words would take its toll.
 So much self-pity and regret... |
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Nov 13 2004, 02:56 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
actually yea i would. i just wouldnt tell them
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Nov 13 2004, 08:44 AM
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Jessica Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,118 |
lols i would...juss not tell em'..xP
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Nov 13 2004, 10:40 AM
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 Brown hand smash Group: Member Posts: 654 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,582 |
there is nothing wrong in lovng someone. you may be able to bear the pain when love starts to hurt. and when its hurt, you may still give even more. you may be even give untill its hurts no more.
but love is'nt love until you give away. love love will only have life when its shared by two people who believe in its meaning, by people who shared one goal, one commitmentand by people who are selfleely loyal to each other  a lot of people with sincere intention gerts hurt for the wrong reason. You love her but it was not enough for you to stand for what you truly feel. you should trust the one you love. it is ine of the important things in a relationship. once it is lose, its hard to bring them back. you should not listen to what other people say that soon you might regret. never heading to what those around yoou say. it doest matter if the other person returns your affection or not. what matter is that she is happy. you will sacrifice, you will believe, you will be a slave to that wonderful, perfect, most beautiful person in the entire universe because taht person is the reason why your world goes round its axis. cliche, but true- aleast for some. forget about her? i dont think so? Even if you have burdened your self long enough, you can never forget her coz you still love and care for her until now. and the harder you try to drive her out of you system, the more painful it will get.  you dont have to forget her. she will always be in your heart so let her just stay there. somehow you still hope that she will come back and relive what have been lost. these thought s give you hope and streght Gods way are'nt always easy and painless. some are meant to open our eyes to what we do not see. some are meant to make us realize what we do not understand. but all of them will alawys meant to make us stronger and better person. we just have to trust him  l just hope that l help you? |
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Nov 13 2004, 11:06 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904 |
I was in love with my ex a long time after we broke up. It was hard and having your friends constantly saying 'Get over it already' didn't help. Then one day I just stopped obsessing over him and everyone thought I was fine. I just never told anyone I still loved him. I realised that they didn't have to know about what goes on inside of me.
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Nov 13 2004, 06:00 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
sigh. i still like my ex and he makes it obvious that he stil likes me (i mean lik he walked to me to my class and kissed me on the lips saying he missed me), but all his friends hate me and my friends hate him and its just ya...
i cant get over him cuz hes a realy awesome guy so i keep it to myself and so does he... |
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