Stalkers, *shudders* Options

[diezelbabygrl_xo...]

I used to have an ex boyfriend who stalked me, until he got arrested.

But now I have an online stalker on my xanga page, his username is aznfuxhotties or something like that.he wrote poems about me and he leaves wierd comments on my page. he even made a blogring about me.

of course, i blocked his name before, but he keeps making new screennames, and i got tired of blocking his name.

Now, this is in the Gals' Locker Room because the question is directed towards girls.


Have you ever had a stalker? Online or off? And what should I do about mine? He keeps on saying he s me and everything. It's really creepy.

[anger_is_my_frie...]

do you actually know this guy?

[diezelbabygrl_xo...]

No. He came across my page and then the comments began.

[LiNHy POO]

never had one before.... but maybe you should stop writing in your xanga for awhile.

[anger_is_my_frie...]

yeah probably..
and if he gets too extreme with like 'i want to see you' comments i'd just lay off the internet for awhile, it sounds too scary

[jambaJUICE]

That`s creepy.

You should just make a new xanga entirely.

[*stephinika*]

mm yeah that is kinda creepy/freaky...

i haven't had an ACTUAL stalker like that but there was this guy who had this annoying obsession with me and 2 friends a few years ago...

[Renegade-X]

omg. He's creepy. Maybe shutdown ur xanga? or join livejournal. lol.

No, Seriously-- be careful. Maybe you can tell people to subcribe and use the private option? I don't know, just good luck.

[3ssx]

i had stalkers before.. no seriosu or anything.. they just follow me around to piss me off and also cuz they walk the same way after school.. but yes.. its REALLY annoying.. >o< its like they got no lives... yes.. and then i started getting rides home istead of walking.. they left me alone now.. =]

[carmi96]

dun let him c any personal details liek wer u liv on ur xanga page! juss keep telin him tht u rnt interested... ther this guy hu wuz liek y dun u wana c ma *COUGHCOUGH lol n i juss told him 2 get a life...and tht im not doin nething coz i actuali hav morals and is not a pathetic pervert...but yepp i made sure he dusnt hav ma email , full name or district i liv in...juss b careful

[royalfreshness]

I never had a stalker but my friends have before. I hope he leaves you alone.

[*Weird addiction*]

ok my current bf used to stalk me...when we were together (before we broke up) he wuz all over me,reading my messages but now he said hes changed so im giving him the benefit of a doubt!! for ur stalker,report him to the xanga mods or something lyke that...

[scandalous_chic]

.

[Winter]

Some guy keeps calling me on my cell and he doesn't say anything. He just coughs...

[inthemudhole]

Creepy!
I don't want a stalker.

[TangoMango]

Oh jeez, i should know. tons of stalkers

[picaso_smile]

First tell him you looooveee him and want to date. Then, say you think he's cheating on you. Then tell him you know that he's cheating on you. Then tell him he's broken your heart and you never want to see him again.

[whywasisostupid]

i have a stalker at school. follows me everywhere. i hate it. hope he dies

[angelrevelation]

well... i've never really had an ACTUAL stalker but pretty close... lol jk these 2 guys that like me are always following me around... and butting into my convos... but like nothing more u know? my friend said she had an actual stalker and he threatened her... it could get dangerous. tell xanga about it amd maybe they can track him down or something

[mz anita xP]

wow scary! >< well luckily or hopefully that never happened to me or will happen to me =x hm...you should mayb change sn change xanga and everything. if he still finds you, then thats really creepy, i dont kno if this is possible to call the police tho? =x i mean like its really scary, if you could call the police for online stalkers mayb u should? i mean changing everything and he still finds u, then hes really stalking u but its also a possibility your friends playing around -_-

[megan_x3]

maybe hes doin dat just to make fun of u , r to make u scared. i had dat experience , dis guy tried to come to my house from skoool once . scary ~~ thank god i locked all the doors n i was inside my room . locked .safe . =)

[xkawaiixgcx]

omg yeah...i kno how u feel. im like scarred for life now HAHA. i had an online stalker that was 29 years old and hes so fricken creepy, his name was brad. and i had another online stalker that was 19 and he would write poems about me and he would try every way he could to get my address. but the worst was this lady who stalked me and she obviously was messed up in the head. but finally my parents found out and filed a restraining order on her.

[LiLaZnGirL122]

go like tell dem on xanga or w/e like say this sn like block his I.P orrrrr make a new xanga so he wont noe =)
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i just looked for him and is this him?
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=AzNFuXHottieS

[angel-roh]

ehh yeah when i was popular like when i was in 7th grade-_-;; it was terrifying, they knew where i lived and what school i go to... so i was thinking maybe it's one of my friends doing a prank on me, so i just went along with them lol... but i dont know i guess i should say they pretty much stalked me a lot haha

[iheartjohn]

go like tell dem on xanga or w/e like say this sn like block his I.P orrrrr make a new xanga so he wont noe =)
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i just looked for him and is this him?
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=AzNFuXHottieS

Yep yep that's him...Guys, I blocked him from my xanga, but he sends me emails about 30 times a day...He's got a ton of different email addresses...

[whywasisostupid]

get a new xang. new email.

[jecissa]

First tell him you looooveee him and want to date. Then, say you think he's cheating on you. Then tell him you know that he's cheating on you. Then tell him he's broken your heart and you never want to see him again.

YES!! HAHA. But maybe not. It was funny though.

[jecissa]

oh, and making a new xanga won't necessarily help because he can still look at your friends' subscriptions modules to find you.

[weirdness]

*scared* o_____o maybe ignore him. report to xanga!!! [lol maybe thats a little extreme]

i never had a stalker. i like lookin at ppls xangas cuz they look nice. :D

[so0o_contagious]

well.. i went inside a japanese mini mall in seattle, called uwajimaya. its awesoem. but anywasy .lol. abck to the story . i walked in with a whole buncha bags after workin for my uncle. then me nd my sister went to go buy some fuze. it's a drink .nd then we went to go eat. nd i walked back into the bookstore with my sister.. nd this guy [he's kinda old.. like.. late 50's-60] nd he goes. "dang, you still haven't killed that?" so obviously, he just stated that hes been following me nd watching me drink nd stuff.. so then im like.. "no." i walk away with my sister nd is like.. cmon chau, lets go get some chicken. nd on our way out. she stops to look at a poster. nd i lok behind us. nd then the same guy was standing there nd he tried to hide. so i just grabbed her nd walked out nd went home. it was so scary. but yeah.. if that ever happens to you.. just walk into a place with a bunch of people. so that if he tries to kidnapp you.. you can scream nd thered be someone there to help you. or walk into a store nd ask the salesperson to tel lthe dude to stop bothering you. yeah. its pretty creepy. that whoel night i felt like someone was still behind me.. even when i went to sleep. =|

[jecissa]

"dang, you still haven't killed that?"

what does that mean? killed what?

[cutiegrlchic]

dont giv n e information!! start a new xanga, with info completly different, even lik where u liv, nd ur email nd stuff

[KissMe2408]

Yah i had a stalker. He would call me 24-7 and come by my house. he was a bug-a-boo. jeez, so i told him to leave me alone or i would get a restraining order on his ass. Didn't work. It was funny how he finally left me alone...he called my house one day and i used a fake accent saying that "i'm sorry but katie has moved, and left no forwarding number or address" and when he came to my house i asked a neighbor to answer my door and yell at him never to come back. It worked he's not too smart lol, the problem was with my cell...so i just used him as an excuse to get a new one

but online stalkers sux. i had one of them too. i had to change my email address but i didnt' want to change my xanga, so i got all my friends to spam on his email addresses and his xanga site, and he finally left me alone.

[simplyannoy]

whoa... I had a stalker before... this dude used to wait in front of my class everyday and all my friends in the class will b telling me; your stalker is outside! *shudders* but he finally stopped when he knew he had no chance with me anymore! but seriously... bout your problem.

1) change your xanga name
2) close down your xanga
3) tell the mod at xanga
4) play along with the game
5) do nothing!

hope you make up your mind! =P
GOOD LUCK!

[_confuzed_]

just make a new xanga but don't link it on your new xanga. also, comment on who ever you want to know's xanga and make all of your former blogs on your xanga enabled of comments and eprops.
your stalker seems a bit immature, if you ask me, but not a really serious case. don't worry, this loser will get a bit tired in a while.

[jecissa]

Yah i had a stalker. He would call me 24-7 and come by my house. he was a bug-a-boo. jeez, so i told him to leave me alone or i would get a restraining order on his ass. Didn't work. It was funny how he finally left me alone...he called my house one day and i used a fake accent saying that "i'm sorry but katie has moved, and left no forwarding number or address" and when he came to my house i asked a neighbor to answer my door and yell at him never to come back. It worked  he's not too smart  lol, the problem was with my cell...so i just used him as an excuse to get a new one 

LOL. That was a great story! Thanks for sharing!


And to the one who started this thread... Just keep doing what you're doing (ignoring him) and he will eventually get tired. If you give him attention, he'll keep bothering you. That's all he wants is attention so do not give him it!
No need to close down your xanga site.

[so0o_contagious]

what does that mean? killed what?

he meant like.. "damm! you still havent drank all of it yet?" lol. yeah. it was creepy.

[jecissa]

oh.. yeah that is cweeepy!!

[ApunBindaas]

Wow that's a creepy story. I never had a stalker problem and I don't want to experience it either.

[angeloncloud9]

That must be scary. Maybe you should talk to your parents about it.

[xj_liana_tx]

omfg... good thing is, that means your really attractive.. bad thing is.. you know what happened..

man, yeah you should make up a new xanga...

[HikaruTakekawa]

quit using xanga if this is happening again, if you cant then try not to post anything personal about urself on ur xanga then cuz the more he knows about u the more obessive he'll be about you. tell ur parents if this keeps up

[177emories]

you should just ignore him! read his comments but not do anything... don't go to his page and read what he says... don't comment backa nd don't say anything about him... OR you can tell him to f**k off and that ur not interested and that he's wasting his time!

and i've been stalked soooo much!!! actually one incident - i'm being stalked right now. and that B*TCH is annoying the hell out of me... and then her bf calls me to say sorry for her and tell me not to do shit to her! OMG obviously he's scared for her cause he knows i'd fcuk her up. i swear if he wasn't my ex i'd beat the eff outta her already.

[ilauqh]

there have been weird ppl like that online to me, saying they love me and they dont even know me. i try to block & ignore everything they do and say. there's a guy that used to like me and kept following me until i told him to stop but thats not as major. --the online guy for you, what i'd do is try to ignore him and delete comments, block him as much as possible until eventually he'll get bored lol.

[HelloSunshine]

ack..that's scary but no..that's never happened to me...hmm..reminds me of old memories...baad, funny memories

[maia_dc]

Ew, that's really scary... He seems way too obsessed. So annoying.

I've had stalkers before, both online and in real life, but the real life ones were more annoying than scary. Lol. I just kind of... ignored until they got the message. Unfortunatly, most of them didn't get the hint... -_-

[jr0h]

ok wow thats creepy. you better watch out..

[whomps]

Haha, I was once with my sister at the mall, and this dude.. was like.. hitting on her or following her. And my sister is nine years older than me btw.. And I was about like.. 9 years old? Fcuk, that guy was like.. annoying and just kept on asking her questions like if she had a boyfriend and shit like that. Man, I felt like kicking his ass! But I knew what was happening.. and I was like "Judy.. I think we should go now." For some reason, I was just really angry.. felt like going ape shit on that guy.

[toodlepops.]

err, can u report him to xanga or sumthin? iono. change ur xanga if it gets worse.

[fierysky1453]

oh stalkers. mmm. I've had one 'stalker' who jacked my poetry and made my [online] life hell. eventually he'll go away. and if he doesn't you have to tell someone and that would be the xanga officials.

[xsweetxcandyx]

i kindda had a stalker... he kept following me f he sees me and imed me like crazy. I got a new sn, but now he keeps asking ny friends for a new one... i mean i made sure they won't tell and i have my bf and his frienda protecting me.. so guess i'm safe for now.. but yours is reall scary

[bad_girl]

yeah i have been stalked. on a site called "habbohotel" lol. he made this name "ilovenadine" (yes becos my hh name was nadine) and made a room about me too. i just reported him. haha

[Me= Sex-C Love x...]

holy freakin' crap! He's scary! No I have never had a stalker....that's plain creepy. His site is creepy...he's like OBSESSED! yeah...definately OBSESSEd...I'd watch my back if i were u.