cyber relationship?? Options

[xj_liana_tx]

well a lot ppl have relationships online. i m not talkin bout dateabuddy.com or stuff like that, but just sometimes purely from chatrooms, xanga....

i ve thought about it when i see some extremely hot ppl (not that i ve ever done it), and yes i m shallow, i tried to imagine myself havin a relationship like that but well, its just too weird i guess.

and plus, it ll be extremely awkward if u end up meetin them.

[Flaunted]

how is it extremely awkward?
sure most chances it doesn't work out
but some do,
for example my cousin amy she met a guy over the internetabout ...3 or 4 years ago...they moved it just this september and they are getting married next year

i mean sometimes the person you will spend your life with can sometimes be across the world or right under your nose.
anything is possible(wow what a cliche.)

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

cyber relationships are retarded . simple as that.

[*autumn.*]

cyber relationships are retarded . simple as that.

i completely agree.

[xquizit]

yeah, i'm a little weirded out by how people can "date" online. but eh, whatever floats your boat, right?

[inthemudhole]

I'm fine with it.
Who says you have to meet them?
[shrug]
I'm currently in an online-relationship.

[Just_Dream]

What if they called each other? Would it turn into a long distance relationship? *shrugs*

I partially it's dumb to have one. But I partially agree that you never know, someone whom you are meant to be with might be halfway across the nation, or even world. So I mean, it really depends on your view because relationships are all based on trust. Being able to trust someone over the itnernet is really tough.

[eversosweet]

well i personally dont think cyber relationships are bad/retarded. because i'm actually in one, as i had to u kno move away from my bf. so we just talk online and call each other

[*autumn.*]

^

but that doesn't count, though. you didn't MEET him online. hope everything works out for you two.

[DaTru KataLYST]

My bio teacher met his wife online. =) They got married last summer and have a daughter now.

[SarahxJoy]

how is it extremely awkward?
sure most chances it doesn't work out
but some do,
for example my cousin amy she met a guy over the internetabout ...3 or 4 years ago...they moved it just this september and they are getting married next year

i mean sometimes the person you will spend your life with can sometimes be across the world or right under your nose.
anything is possible(wow what a cliche.)

wh3wt! Go Sammie!
I agree with her.
I just wish that people'd be more open-minded about it.

[tooeffingcrazy]

"extremely hot ppl"
some people js get some fake pictures. but yeah. i think it is kinda awkward to cyber date or wdeva. and if you end up meeting them, thats kinda scary.

[azn_r4pf4n]

i thought u meant a relationship with cyber sex everyday... lol


well... im against em. u dont even kno them in real life, 50% of the time doesnt work. 50% of the time does.

[*wind&fire*]

i think meeting people over the net is weird.. like its cool i know you guys but i dont really want to "hook up" with you guys...

[LadyXTor]

It only depends if you really can trust this person. Sometimes cyber relationships can be scary, cause you don't know who the person really is. come to think of it....sometimes you can't know who a person is in person either. Cause yeah there's a lot of posers....anyhhoo....^^ Um i think you should maybe try it but not get too serious.

[Winter]

I think it's okay.

I mean if you're just playing then who cares where you date? You'll probably never meet up anyway.

My teacher's friend met a guy who live in Africa. They got married online and now she lived in Africa with him. So it's possible you meet The One online.

[*Weird addiction*]

cyber relationships are retarded . simple as that.

thats harsh!! its not retarded!

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

eh, ur pretending to have something thats not really there,sure it makes u feel good, but at the end of the day when u really analyze the situation, ur situation is just pathedic, if u spend all that time pretending into other stuff like flirting and making urself noticed by others , wouldnt that be alot better?

haha lemmie try to explain this to u in a way u can understand....

Masturbating feels good, but its not the real thing :D *ahahahahahahahah*

[JasonAkAWolf]

eh, ur pretending to have something thats not really there,sure it makes u feel good, but at the end of the day when u really analyze the situation, ur situation is just pathedic, if u spend all that time pretending into other stuff like flirting and making urself noticed by others , wouldnt that be alot better?

haha lemmie try to explain this to u in a way u can understand....

Masturbating feels good, but its not the real thing :D *ahahahahahahahah*

hahah he is soo right haha :P cybering is retared cause at the end of the day all you have is nothing haha

[eversosweet]

^

but that doesn't count, though. you didn't MEET him online. hope everything works out for you two.

hehe thanks, i hope it works out too

[*Weird addiction*]

eh, ur pretending to have something thats not really there,sure it makes u feel good, but at the end of the day when u really analyze the situation, ur situation is just pathedic, if u spend all that time pretending into other stuff like flirting and making urself noticed by others , wouldnt that be alot better?

haha lemmie try to explain this to u in a way u can understand....

Masturbating feels good, but its not the real thing :D *ahahahahahahahah*

dude ur wrong...cyber relationship is REAL if u want it to be,just bcuz it isnt physical doesnt make it lame....u know what is LAME?? u, for comparing cyber relationship to masturbation!!

[xbladeoffire90x]

depends on the people

[SteveObscure]

I started out like that. We met on Livejournal. We chatted for sometime before we finally met. It wasn't awkward at all. It could have been since there is no way to tell if the other person is lying. But it worked out just fine. It was been 5 going on 6 months. It can be good and bad at the same time.

[XxtremeRickyX]

uhm cyber relationships are a waste of time for the simple fact that if you ever actually get to know the person in real life they will act different, what if they have a twitching eye problem you'll be like " you can stop winking at me now" they'll be like "I cant I have a twitching eye problem " you'll be kinda freaked about it. Then again most people that are on the net act differently in real life (some not all).

[goofipinay]

how is it extremely awkward?
sure most chances it doesn't work out
but some do,
for example my cousin amy she met a guy over the internetabout ...3 or 4 years ago...they moved it just this september and they are getting married next year

i mean sometimes the person you will spend your life with can sometimes be across the world or right under your nose.
anything is possible(wow what a cliche.)

true..
n i hear about ppl meeting online n gettin married..

[*autumn.*]

of course there will be those "i met my love online" stories.

but if i met "the one" online, i would be so embarassed to tell people that.

online dating for me, seems to be like....how do i say this. I'm desperate, and cant get a guy in real life so i'm going to start a relationship online? thats what i have embedded into my brain, and meh. i dont want to offend anyone, though.

[xj_liana_tx]

of course there will be those "i met my love online" stories.

but if i met "the one" online, i would be so embarassed to tell people that.

online dating for me, seems to be like....how do i say this. I'm desperate, and cant get a guy in real life so i'm going to start a relationship online? thats what i have embedded into my brain, and meh. i dont want to offend anyone, though.

yeah thats wat i m thinkin bout too.

well even tho ppl find true love online, but thats like only a small fraction of the whole thing, i think its like 50% danger.

i was watchin jerry springer once, and they wer talkin bout sites for prison inmates and outerworld to connect, and like most of them wer just playin and ppl got hurt n stuff, and this inmate got married to this women he met thro the site, and then after a while he stabbed her daughter 16 times.

[Shattered_Hope]

in cyber relationships...yes..it works out...but only if yur willing to put forth the effort..and do more than just try.
9 outof nine times it wont word out because of shallowness and the fact thatone of the other meets someone else...this is a sad sight..but i mean....everyone has their own opinions...and in life...there's both sides to every story; a good one and a bad one.

[inthemudhole]

I'm f.ucking sick of people talking shit about online relationships.
Just get the f.uck over it.. no one says that you personally have to participate in an online relationship.. so just let it be.

[XaZnX07]

umm it dont really care bout it i guess it could work out but who knows right?


.:tonY:.

[dani41790]

i think cyber relationships are kinda weird. i dont know how people can last without seeing eachother in person. that would kinda suck since you're like missing em alot

[sammi rules you]

it's probably not a good idea to have one when you're young or in high school or college or something. that's your time to have fun with people you can like..hang out with and stuff. and when you're in high school or something it's doubtful you'll meet or something.

they rarely work out before you get outta college or something, when you can actually be together. but ya know, if you really wanna, go ahead. *shrug*

[xxmzkrnpunkster4]

well a lot ppl have relationships online. i m not talkin bout dateabuddy.com or stuff like that, but just sometimes purely from chatrooms, xanga....

i ve thought about it when i see some extremely hot ppl (not that i ve ever done it), and yes i m shallow, i tried to imagine myself havin a relationship like that but well, its just too weird i guess.

and plus, it ll be extremely awkward if u end up meetin them.

...i did it a couple of times..ive actually meet one of them in person...i was soooo frickin nervous..but i decided to not do it anymore..