friends of benefit, is it right? |
 Oct 30 2004, 10:45 AM
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idunno. me and my friends(girls) were talking about relationships. and they said what girls really want is a friend of benefit and not a relationshiop cuz they last longer and said that girls aren't pressured about them as much as relationships. but my other group of friends(mostly guys) think friends of benefit are pretty shallow and it means that you aren't dedicated to that person to be in a relationship with them. and both sides have good reasons but i don't know which is better.
what do you think? your thoughts would be helpful |
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Oct 30 2004, 11:07 AM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
i heard that sometimes feelings get involed and one of them might get hurt. its a bit risky for some.
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Oct 30 2004, 11:13 AM
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 *rawr baby* Group: Member Posts: 821 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,941 |
QUOTE(LiNHy POO @ Oct 30 2004, 12:07 PM) i heard that sometimes feelings get involed and one of them might get hurt. its a bit risky for some. yea same |
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Oct 30 2004, 11:22 AM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
i thought it was friends with benifits? but okay
i agree with linhy poo. but some people are willing to take that risk |
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Oct 30 2004, 11:47 AM
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 and then he died... Group: Member Posts: 338 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,047 |
welllll
it depends on what you take the meaning as.. friends with benefits.. if you 2 r friends. it should be easy to communicate [in every way] and you should not have any bf/gf feeling for each other in the beginnin. so what shallow r we talkin about. you not gonna date her anywayz. and usually itz all about the sex. but i mean you 2 can still be friends. unless one of them dumb enough put real emotions into it. like b4 you start doin it.. both of you better understand and try ur best not to put in emotions. [itz not impossible] just think about the sex thatz it. lol. itz not BAD BAD. only that both of u get wht you want without any attachment. and therez no pressure. nd iono what you talkin baout. i think most of the guys want friends with benefits. but grls are the dumb ones that put in emotions. X |
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Oct 31 2004, 09:27 AM
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Gackt's Wife Group: Member Posts: 411 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,549 |
no. cause i'd like to only share myself with someone i like^^ - get what i mean?
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Oct 31 2004, 10:36 AM
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 Melissa <3 Group: Member Posts: 195 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,580 |
No. It ends up tearing you apart. That is all.
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Oct 31 2004, 11:00 AM
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What your guy friends said is true. It isn't really even a relationship. Might as well do all that physical stuff with the one you love instead.
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Oct 31 2004, 12:58 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
wow, u got it all backwards.
MOST GUYS , the average perverted pigheaded guy would love to be in a relationship where its all about sex and no feelings. MOST GIRLS would think its sleezy to sleep with someone ur not commited to And friends with benafits dont last longer than real relationships because feelings tend to get in the way and just make everything all bad. |
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Oct 31 2004, 01:59 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
lol, very true...no better words couldve been said...
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