my bf yelled at me, for sumthin i did 4 months ago.. |
 Oct 24 2004, 05:56 PM
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 my own special world...  Group: Member Posts: 465 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,648  |
my bf lives in sheridan indiana and we met online then we were best friends for awhile and then he asked me out so its been like 1 month 2 weeks since we started datin..yes we've met in person..and my bf has bad temper..but anyways
4 months i was gonna out wit my x(pat) and he was gone for 3 weeks and didnt tell me in advance so i got pissed and told my current bf(andrew) and andrew bitched at pat for not tellin me where he went and for not talkin to me well pat was yellin at me and shit for tellin andrew and i kept tellin andrew wat happened but he wouldnt listen so pat juss kept yellin at me well i was gettin soo pissed at everythin that i almost committed suicide..yeah yeah yeah i kno..but i put a gun to my head and ALMOST pulled the trigger but didnt..my bf andrew was crying and screamin at his computer b/c he didnt want me to do it..so i didnt well 4 or 5 weeks ago my bf asked me y i wanted to committ suicide so i told him and he started to yell at me and shit so he got me in a bad mood so i was juss all bitchin and bit his head off and shit... well last nite my bf was jokin around and asked me wat i would do if he ran around my room and i said i would kill myself jokin around and he gave me the silence treatment for 20 mins and then he finally said"well if were not gonna do anythin lets juss hang up.." so i said w/e bye..then i was talkin to my frien codee and he was tellin me to call andrew and tell him im sry and that i understand y he was pissed well i did call bak but andrew was like"y the f*ck would u say sumthin like that??" at first i didn kno wat he was talkin bout and he said" u kno were rough on that subject" and i said i kno but i didn mean to say it.. then he asked me wat were suppose to do.. and i said idk b/c i was cryin and juss too pissed to say anything or think and i put my face in my pillow and he told me to get my face out of the pillow b/c he didnt want me to try to committ suicide again well i wasnt doin it on purpose..i was juss layin there...so he told me he was gonna let me go so i was sittin there thinkin wat the hell am i gonna do?? well i was gonna cut myself but my friend told me not to so i didn..but i juss don kno wat to do..i have mixed emotions rite now.. can sumone tell me wat to do?? plz i need to kno wat i can do to fix things.. sry so long... |
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Oct 24 2004, 06:07 PM
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 Death is a promise given to us at birth Group: Official Designer Posts: 4,757 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,459 |
spend some apart or break up. You know he got a bad temper. It's gonna happen sooner or later.
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Oct 24 2004, 08:00 PM
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 creepy heather Group: Official Member Posts: 4,208 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,580 |
you both seem like very sensitive people...i just suggest thinking before you speek and DEFFINATELY before you act....when i read that you put a gun to your head i was shocked...that was totally the wrong thing to do and i hope you never do that again...tell your bf the silent treatment is some thing for babies, if he is going to treat you like a baby, do the same to him..
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Oct 25 2004, 07:00 PM
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 SoMehOw iT sEeMs CoLdeR nOw.. Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,718 |
first -- dont EVER even think of ending YOUR life because of someone else. ur life was given to YOU to live.. if other people cause you THAT much stress then they're not worth your time. trust me i've been there..
2nd -- if your boyfriend has a temper, thats HIS problem. not yours. 3rd -- dont let people get to you. whether it be your mom, bestfriend, or total stranger. if you let them get to you, you're letting them win.. and you cant ever let them win. look.. i've tried to kill myself soo many times.. i've been to therapy.. my parents dont care about me.. and i cut myself on a regular basis. I have to hide it cuz i dont wanna cause any unnecissary drama. ...if you ((or anyone)) wants to talk about anything i'm here... my AIM sn is XFataLVixenX or my email address is Imaginary39@hotmail.com i'm always here to help |
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Oct 26 2004, 08:36 AM
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 because i'm worth it Group: Member Posts: 990 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,643 |
 it`s not your fault..honestly.who care abt him. if he can`t even understand that you were kidding whn you said you`re gnna kill yourself....he isn`t worth it |
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Oct 26 2004, 07:54 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
Blah blah blah old boyfriend blah new boyfriend blah argument blah suicide. Say sorry.
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Oct 26 2004, 10:34 PM
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 I'm not mean; You're just a sissy. Group: Member Posts: 796 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,520 |
QUOTE(Heathasm @ Oct 24 2004, 8:00 PM) you both seem like very sensitive people...i just suggest thinking before you speek and DEFFINATELY before you act....when i read that you put a gun to your head i was shocked...that was totally the wrong thing to do and i hope you never do that again...tell your bf the silent treatment is some thing for babies, if he is going to treat you like a baby, do the same to him.. *agrees* |
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Oct 26 2004, 10:35 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
guys should NEVER yell at us girls.
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Oct 26 2004, 10:43 PM
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i cut too, yeah, i ahve the same problems, i tried comitting suicide..my bf stopped me too..life sucks , girl. talk to him..tell him ur side of the story, dont get to drastic and break up cause if u love him u dont wanna do that. so just tsalk to him. good luck
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Oct 27 2004, 05:53 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
sounds like you two need a time out..maybe he won't take everything SOOO serious then....
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Oct 31 2004, 04:38 PM
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 D.J. headPHONES Group: Member Posts: 266 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,807 |
QUOTE(glitter____soup @ Oct 26 2004, 10:43 PM) i cut too, yeah, i ahve the same problems, i tried comitting suicide..my bf stopped me too..life sucks , girl. talk to him..tell him ur side of the story, dont get to drastic and break up cause if u love him u dont wanna do that. so just tsalk to him. good luck <3 HAHA! SHE DOSENT CUT, SHE DOSENT HAVE A BF, SHE HASENT EVEN TRIED TO KILLERSELF, SHE WANT TO SEEM ALL "DEEP" SO PEOPLE WILL FEEL BAD FOR HER! DONT FALL FOR IT. HAHAHAHAH! ITS SO FUNNY! SHE HAS NO BOY FRIENDS, SHES GOT NO FRIENDS. |
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Oct 31 2004, 09:37 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
QUOTE(milky_yumm @ Oct 31 2004, 4:38 PM) HAHA! SHE DOSENT CUT, SHE DOSENT HAVE A BF, SHE HASENT EVEN TRIED TO KILLERSELF, SHE WANT TO SEEM ALL "DEEP" SO PEOPLE WILL FEEL BAD FOR HER! DONT FALL FOR IT. HAHAHAHAH! ITS SO FUNNY! SHE HAS NO BOY FRIENDS, SHES GOT NO FRIENDS. dubya tee eff? 1) your boyfriend sounds like a whiney guy. 2) don't kill yourself b/c if a guy, they aren't worth it. 3) use complete sentences... actually scratch that. i mean,... use periods when they're actually needed. |
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Nov 18 2004, 01:01 AM
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 i wanna hug <3 Group: Member Posts: 103 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,811 |
guys arent worth it...your bf has iSSUES haha...the best is to take a 'TiMEOUT' or just break up
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