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 Oct 22 2004, 11:32 AM
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Brie  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548  |
Yeah.
Okay. I don't exactly know how to respond to this. Okay, so my ex just IM'd me.. as usual. So we're talking. He's all "weee! I'm happy" and sh1t like that, so I ask why. He tells me it's in his xanga. So I go and read. Apparently he asked another girl out, and she said yes.. she's a grade older, too, by the way. Okay, so anyway. What the hell should I say!? We only broke up a couple weeks ago. I don't want to be happy for him, because I haven't completely moved on yet, but it's pretty damned obvious that he has. I do NOT want to be happy for him, so what should my reaction be? I want to be a b1tch, but I know I shouldn't. What's a good and neutral reaction to that? -_- |
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Oct 22 2004, 12:46 PM
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 Melissa <3 Group: Member Posts: 195 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,580 |
I would be completely pissed. But just ask him, "Why are you telling me this?"
Cause like, seriously, why IS he telling you that? Unless he's TRYING to make you jealous. Then you have a right to be angry. |
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Oct 22 2004, 02:07 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
O gosh, that sucks doesn't it?
Well, Option 1: He still likes you and he's trying to make you jealous. Option 2: He's an a-hole. Option 3: Maybe he's moved on and maybe he wants you to move on, too. I mean, yeah, it's probably hard to move on. But you gotta do it anyways. OR, You can tell him that you still have feelings for him. or, you can just be all "oh, cool.... i guess" Hope i helped 
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Oct 22 2004, 02:41 PM
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 aka babiebubblez03 :o) Group: Member Posts: 203 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,478 |
Alright... #1 rule... "Kill em with kindness". He obviously wants you to be jealous... any ex would. Its a thing. lol. But act like you dont care... act like you are happy. Seriously, you wont want to, but do it. It's the best way because think about it, how bad would it look on you if you are over there freakin out and his new girlfriend is acting all sweet and there to comfort him.. you want to be the one to come out lookin good not her.. so you want to be the one to make her jealous by acting sweet and nice and then all he will be able to talk about is you :) hehe I'm evil but it so works
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Oct 22 2004, 03:29 PM
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 I'm Cat. Gotta problem with that? Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,845 |
QUOTE Alright... #1 rule... "Kill em with kindness". He obviously wants you to be jealous... any ex would. Its a thing. lol. But act like you dont care... act like you are happy. Seriously, you wont want to, but do it. It's the best way because think about it, how bad would it look on you if you are over there freakin out and his new girlfriend is acting all sweet and there to comfort him.. you want to be the one to come out lookin good not her.. so you want to be the one to make her jealous by acting sweet and nice and then all he will be able to talk about is you :) hehe I'm evil but it so works soo right..... im evil too.... so i would do that too.... u kill them with kindness but really with jealousy.... that always work for guys.... |
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Oct 22 2004, 05:45 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
QUOTE(AzNxJenny91 @ Oct 22 2004, 2:07 PM) O gosh, that sucks doesn't it? Well, Option 1: He still likes you and he's trying to make you jealous. Option 2: He's an #######. Option 3: Maybe he's moved on and maybe he wants you to move on, too. I mean, yeah, it's probably hard to move on. But you gotta do it anyways. OR, You can tell him that you still have feelings for him. or, you can just be all "oh, cool.... i guess" Hope i helped thats good... i am going to go with wut she says. i like my ex to. i just miss him. u know. ya. rawr |
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Oct 22 2004, 08:39 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Ah.
Thanks, guys. I was just lost at the moment. So I just went with "Ah, that's cool. :D" [shrug] Thanks again. :] |
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Oct 22 2004, 09:59 PM
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 Saap!? Group: Member Posts: 568 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,151 |
QUOTE(InTheMudHole @ Oct 22 2004, 8:39 PM) Ah. Thanks, guys. I was just lost at the moment. So I just went with "Ah, that's cool. :D" [shrug] Thanks again. :] wow. the best comeback out of all of these posts and its from the person who started it! 
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Oct 22 2004, 10:35 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 329 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,536 |
QUOTE(InTheMudHole @ Oct 22 2004, 6:39 PM) Ah. Thanks, guys. I was just lost at the moment. So I just went with "Ah, that's cool. :D" [shrug] Thanks again. :] Aww, I'm sad to hear you guys broke up... But he sounds like he was just trying to show you that he's moved on... Totaly jerk, if you ask me... Unless he really trusts you, and feels close to you still? (As a friend). But hmmm, yeah, what you said was good. |
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Oct 22 2004, 11:28 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Eh.
We're really not that good of friends.. so I don't think he was sharing it in a friendly, friend-to-friend way. When we broke up, I was ignoring him for a few hours online, and he's like "Should we still be friends?" so I said "I really don't know, and I don't care. Should we?" and he was all "OF COURSE!" >_< Stupid hypocrite. He's the one who wanted to be all buddy-buddy, but we barely even talk. Oh, well. I like it better that way.. and I'm getting off-topic. o_O |
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Oct 22 2004, 11:34 PM
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 We are the cure. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,936 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,456 |
Go die.
Generic and useful for any occasion! |
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Oct 22 2004, 11:47 PM
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what a freak!!! go kick him in the balls!
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Oct 23 2004, 12:50 AM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
LMAO, Nick.
Ah. Man. I wonder what his reaction would be to that.. Eh, probably something lame like "wut?" |
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Oct 23 2004, 01:05 AM
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Be a damn bitch to him. That's how I was... not my ex doesn't even talk to me anymore
 Haha, but it's for the best because you need to move on
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Oct 23 2004, 10:30 AM
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just ignore him or act like u've moved on then he'll come around
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Oct 23 2004, 10:55 AM
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 Losers rule =D Group: Member Posts: 407 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,592 |
Same thing happened to me, except my ex started going out with another girl about 3 days after we broke up. I was pissed off, and jealous. A few days later my friend Jake asked me out, and I had always kinda liked him so I said yes, but part of me just wanted to show my ex that he wasn't the only guy I could get. BUt overal, my ex's plan worked--he got me jealous. Thats all he wanted to do. Next time your ex IMs you, be really happy for him. Tell him its awesome that he has a girlfriend. Dont let him get you jealous. Pretty soon you wont even care.
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Oct 23 2004, 07:45 PM
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 it's our chemistry Group: Member Posts: 1,151 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,775 |
Aw, that really sucks. What a complete BUTTHEAD! <--- best diss everrr
I guess it's probably best in this situation to distance yourself from him until you've "moved on" and you can stand his need to be "friends"... Still, he's got major case of guy INSENSITIVITY! I'm sorry for youuuu! <33 |
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Oct 24 2004, 11:46 AM
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Jessica Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,118 |
lols he sounds like he wants you to be jealous or something..welps..be nice =]
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Oct 27 2004, 09:18 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
if hes trying to be a jerk...hes doing a great job. im sry, but he might be tryingto make you jealous and mad..just to see if u still hav feelings for him..and he might maybe still care for you...
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Nov 8 2004, 11:37 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 |
What an as$. Go: "That's nice."
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Nov 10 2004, 05:49 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Yeah. I said, "that's nice." every time he ever brought it up after the first time.
[bitchy ex mode] His relationship with her really isn't going anywhere. >:] |
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Nov 10 2004, 09:34 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
dont say anything lols jus say congrats and thats it
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