marriage., how do you know? |
 Oct 19 2004, 01:19 PM
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 lovesick+  Group: Member Posts: 117 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,104  |
how do you know if you found that perfect someonE?
your soulmate?... i'm young...not too young but young. i'll be a freshmen in college next year. i've dated alot of guys and i've been frends with many too.. but i haven't had this kinda feeling before in my life... the kinda feeling where it seems as though there could be no one else like him in this world. this guy loves me. he cares about me. talks to me. tells me everything. makes me want to be a better person. takes care of me. and i too, feel the same way. i never want to lose him...ever. |
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Oct 19 2004, 01:26 PM
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 wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
You'll feel it.
When you find that person, you won't even question it. It will just feel right. |
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Oct 19 2004, 01:29 PM
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lovesick+ Group: Member Posts: 117 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,104 |
QUOTE(xquizit @ Oct 19 2004, 1:26 PM) You'll feel it. When you find that person, you won't even question it. It will just feel right. ...i will?...  ...it will?...  wow..this is really tough isn't it? 
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Oct 19 2004, 01:32 PM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
Being ready for marriage is not something that just happens, it takes time and as Roxanne says you will know. When you know you won't question if your ready or not. Just take your time...you might be ready but what if he isn't ready.
Think of other things too... 1. Where will yal live 2. Will yal be able to live comfortably with your current income and many more |
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Oct 19 2004, 01:37 PM
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lovesick+ Group: Member Posts: 117 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,104 |
i think i may be...stupid to ask something like this...
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Oct 19 2004, 04:09 PM
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 I'm Cat. Gotta problem with that? Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,845 |
dont feel that way..... u can ask anything..... if u need relationship help u can just IM me..... at TooAzn2DIE
i think its just a feeling..... u just kno that this is the rite person to be with.... but u hafta consider the other things lyk living together and stuff lyk that.... |
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Oct 19 2004, 05:24 PM
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 E! Online Group: Member Posts: 302 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,082 |
dont feel stupid for saying it. and as others said, i think...youll feel it when the time comes...(er..how i phrased it just sounds odd). but dont just feel passionate. feel logical too--dont get lost in the moment; plan the future. gluck.
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Oct 19 2004, 06:15 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
QUOTE(xquizit @ Oct 19 2004, 10:26 AM) You'll feel it. When you find that person, you won't even question it. It will just feel right. ima have to agree with roxy on this one =] |
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Oct 19 2004, 07:14 PM
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yeah don't worry...it seems like a more intelligent question than some i've heard before.
but to answer your question, i'd have to agree with what some people said before like roxanne. you'll just know. yeah that sounds cliche and whatnot, but i think its true.
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Oct 19 2004, 07:46 PM
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neat banner Group: Member Posts: 281 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,994 |
Well you wouldnt be asking if that person is da right one for you.. you feel it in you and it u truely love that person that things will fall into place
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Oct 19 2004, 08:36 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 875 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,841 |
QUOTE(xquizit @ Oct 19 2004, 1:26 PM) You'll feel it. When you find that person, you won't even question it. It will just feel right. yeah i agree, you might not even have to think about it if youre really feeling it |
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Oct 19 2004, 08:39 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
When you are up at the alter and you won't say no. DUH, not rocket science people.
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Oct 19 2004, 08:59 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
QUOTE(kyootE_krn_bebe @ Oct 19 2004, 2:19 PM) this guy loves me. he cares about me. talks to me. tells me everything. makes me want to be a better person. takes care of me. and i too, feel the same way. i never want to lose him...ever. I know what you mean, I feel the same way about my guy. Actually though, I am only a Junior in high school right now. Many have doubted whether I truly knew what love meant.. but Love is undescribable. Not a single word can exactly pinpoint what love truly is. Sometimes I wonder how I could've pulled through all the tough times without him... The guy I'm with.. he's the only person that can truly make me happy in life.. I mean, there's no exact, typical way that one can know that their significant other is the one they would spend the rest of their lives with. Personally, I believe that if one can wake up everyday to see the face of their significant other, than one has certainly found his/her match. Being able to picture oneself with that person and be happy, being able to tolerate being around one's beloved every day... There's plenty of reasons that can justify that the person you're dating is the love that many others would spend their whole life trying to find. You have to be able to look past what others can say about the relationship... There were some people who told me that I shouldn't have dated the guy I'm with right now. I was mad at them for saying that because they either judged on his looks, personality, etc. I can trust my boyfriend and if I had to, I'd wait for as long as I can to be with him. I'm not sure what the future will bring, but I'll try my hardest to make the relationship work. There will be ups and downs in every relationship, it's reasonable to have many fights along the way. But as long as both partners in the relationship are devoted, honest, and don't let anything tear them apart, then that's all that matters. Love is a powerful word and it's not meant to be tossed around. But I know for sure that I love my boyfriend because he's everything I could ever want.. And most of all, he cares about me more than anyone else has ever done. He's changed my life so much, and I'm so thankful to have such a wonderful person in my life. |
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Oct 19 2004, 09:08 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
wow i agree with just_dream
nd you'll feel love when its there, no doubts :] |
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Oct 26 2004, 12:03 PM
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lovesick+ Group: Member Posts: 117 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,104 |
wow...just_dream..thanks..
thanks to everyone..-.-+ |
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Oct 27 2004, 06:46 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
awwww...well its not too soon...and yur not that young either..you hav a right to make yur own choices..
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