My bf's going on winter vacations, a conflict has arise, comment please |
 Oct 19 2004, 11:18 AM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05  Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851  |
well my bf's winter vacation starts from dec 2 to jan 2 (cause he's in university) and as soon as he found out he booked tickets to leave on vac to HK.
which will leave me here without him for about a month (five weekends) which is a long time and ill miss him... i said that thats a long time and stuff basically complaining that i'll be left here w/o him all winter including xmas and new years. he's saying how i still have school and he wont beable to see me anyways... but why does he have to leave so soon? can't even leave a week later? remind you we spend every weekend together we're very attached, i'm basically dependent on him. thus 2 questions.. 1) would you leave on vaca for a month away from your gf/bf for the winter break? 2) should i say something to him more clearly, and state that i want him to leave later instead of so soon? |
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Oct 19 2004, 01:36 PM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
1. I would leave...
2. Sometimes being to attached is a bad thing. So I say just let it be and just keep in touch with him over that month. Sometimes its better to have sometime off from each other...then when you see each other again your love will be twice as strong than it was before he left. Just see where this thing goes. Have fun with your other friends and rekindle past friendships that might have been neglected because of your relationship. |
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Oct 19 2004, 03:52 PM
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 I'm Cat. Gotta problem with that? Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,845 |
1. depends on how much i luv him.... and would i really wanna be away frum him
2. what he said was rite ^.... being attach to ppl is bad |
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Oct 19 2004, 04:05 PM
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 I have eccentric ideas... Group: Member Posts: 169 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,035 |
1) I would... Just because I know that I would be able to survive and have fun myself...
2) Being dependent is bad... As said above... So yeah... Try and see how you can do without him... |
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Oct 19 2004, 04:08 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
1. well, my ex went away on vacation before (both midwinter and spring break), butthey were each a week long. eh, it depends on how much i like/love him.
2. well, if you really don't like it, talkt o him about it. since you're always together, he might understand. |
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Oct 19 2004, 04:43 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
yes ill leave, i dont care how impt the guy is to me... i need time to relax.. hes always welcomed to come along with me lol
yes u should say something or the one thats gonna be left real alone is u |
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Oct 19 2004, 04:55 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 110 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,849 |
1: well, i dont have a gf so -_-
2: well, you should tell him to enjoy the vac. and you shouldnt be too attached because what if he breaks up with you? that would be a bad thing... |
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Nov 14 2004, 03:09 AM
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 i wanna hug <3 Group: Member Posts: 103 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,811 |
well...you cant be TOO attached...give him some space but you cant trust him too much either...i mean its 1 whole FRIKKIN month....i'd be unhappy too if my bf left me all alone for 1 month
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Nov 14 2004, 03:32 AM
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 Magic Crayons Group: Member Posts: 142 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,315 |
1) yeh, unless you got buggy parents
2)no, you might ruin his plans or somethin, and he might start to hold a grudge against you! so play safe and tell him to have a good time! 
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Nov 14 2004, 01:30 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
1) Maybe.
2) I might mention it.. 'cause then you two couldn't spend Christmas together. |
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Nov 14 2004, 01:33 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
1) Sure.
2) Religious Holidays? Screw it. Go party with your other boyfriends.. err girlfriends. |
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Nov 14 2004, 02:03 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 83 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,133 |
actually im kinda in this situation right now
im attatched to my girl and shes MOVING to Texas... so... 1) be thankful hes not moving 2) dont get too attached anymore... i learned it the hard way |
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Nov 14 2004, 02:47 PM
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QUOTE(someflipguy @ Oct 19 2004, 11:36 AM) 1. I would leave... 2. Sometimes being to attached is a bad thing. So I say just let it be and just keep in touch with him over that month. Sometimes its better to have sometime off from each other...then when you see each other again your love will be twice as strong than it was before he left. Just see where this thing goes. Have fun with your other friends and rekindle past friendships that might have been neglected because of your relationship. he's got a point...but do keep in contact with him. yeah sure i'd miss him but if we loved each other we'd know we could trust each other and we'd see each other again after. and btw i love someflipguy's avatar. haha 
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