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cheated on him, but want him back
angel-roh
post Oct 17 2004, 06:53 AM
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have you ever felt like this before? like the feeling when you want him back even though you cheated on him? i really do regret for cheating on justin park (some members know him) he was such a sweet boyfriend ever, but then we had to break up cause justin wants me to think about who i really love... T___T;; but do you have a feeling that you want him back? i have that feeling sometimes... well right now im very confused of myself... cause i love steven byeon right now...he's my current crush... well we're not going out but i have a crush on him that's all...

so yeah have u ever felt you wanted him back, but then you cheated on him? (girl's opinion only please)
 
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dani41790
post Oct 17 2004, 07:00 AM
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sorry but i wouldnt know cuz ummm i never cheated on my boyfriend
 
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post Oct 17 2004, 07:03 AM
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good for you, heres a flower flowers.gif sniff but i very much regret it T__T
 
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post Oct 17 2004, 08:40 AM
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*sigh* I've done that before and I've regretted it.

I cheated on my ex and later admitted about it. He said it was because he couldn't give me exactly what I wanted so I was trying to find it from other guys. He told me to think about what I wanted.

Everything he said, it made me realised that what I really wanted was him being there for me. And I didn't love that other guy, I loved him. I broke up with him a few months later.

Even now I sometimes think about him and what we could have been. But that's the past. What's done has been done.

I know it's a very confusing feeling. Maybe you're just missing him. Since you said you and Steven aren't exactly dating, maybe you miss that feeling of being close with someone.
 
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post Oct 17 2004, 09:21 AM
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QUOTE(dani41790 @ Oct 17 2004, 9:00 PM)
sorry but i wouldnt know cuz ummm i never cheated on my boyfriend

same here
 
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post Oct 17 2004, 09:35 AM
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well for me...he cheated on me but i want him back,lol
 
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post Oct 17 2004, 10:09 AM
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ya.i want him back. but i never cheated on him. he only thought i did. which is a load of bull
 
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post Oct 17 2004, 10:26 AM
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You're a horrible, horrible person. Branding irons must be shoved through your eyelids to purify your soul. Repent, repent.
 
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post Oct 17 2004, 10:28 AM
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i never cheated.. but i use to like this girl a lot... i mean a lot and yeah when i use to go out with other girls she was like usually alwayz on my mind...
 
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post Oct 17 2004, 11:12 AM
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i never got cought so i never got dumped >< ph34r.gif

i laff at ur j00....

but just to answer in a mannerly way.... i do feel regret and disgust for doing so >< ; and i always end up choosin to stay with the one i love not that one i like.
 
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post Oct 17 2004, 01:06 PM
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I don't cheat. _dry.gif
 
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post Oct 17 2004, 01:51 PM
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QUOTE(Winter @ Oct 17 2004, 6:40 AM)
*sigh* I've done that before and I've regretted it.

I cheated on my ex and later admitted about it. He said it was because he couldn't give me exactly what I wanted so I was trying to find it from other guys. He told me to think about what I wanted.

Everything he said, it made me realised that what I really wanted was him being there for me. And I didn't love that other guy, I loved him. I broke up with him a few months later.

Even now I sometimes think about him and what we could have been. But that's the past. What's done has been done.

I know it's a very confusing feeling. Maybe you're just missing him. Since you said you and Steven aren't exactly dating, maybe you miss that feeling of being close with someone.

I've never cheated on my boyfriends but..amen. mellow.gif
 
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post Oct 17 2004, 03:59 PM
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it seems like you got to get your priorities straight. you can't want your boyfriend back and still have a crush "i love steven whoever" on that guy. its wrong.

and you were wrong for cheating. you SHOULD feel bad.
 
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post Oct 17 2004, 05:43 PM
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uhm..heh nice avatar. you seem to 'love' a lot of people.
 
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post Oct 17 2004, 09:07 PM
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er yeah. I cheated on him, dumped him, and everything else horrible to him. yet I want him back too =] arent I a horrible person ;)
 
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post Oct 17 2004, 09:12 PM
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QUOTE
cause i love steven byeon right now...he's my current crush... well we're not going out but i have a crush on him that's all...


how can you love him..and he's your crush?..j/w..but yeah..i've never cheated..it wouldnt be right in the first place..even if it was tempting.. ermm.gif
 
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post Nov 14 2004, 03:12 AM
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ahha...nope never cheated on my bf....but you really have to think about who you LOVE...love is not about love, pity, sorrow, jealousy, or a little bit of affection...so you really have to think about that....and maybe you just want someone to love you again
 
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post Nov 14 2004, 03:34 AM
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too young to be cheating! biggrin.gif
 
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post Nov 14 2004, 04:11 AM
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you dont deserve him back
 
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post Nov 14 2004, 10:57 AM
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i don't think he will take you back yet. he is still probaly hurt from what you did to him. he needs time
 
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post Nov 25 2004, 07:33 PM
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ermm.gif i cheated on the nicest guy i ever had, and i regret it sooooo much , but all i can really do is say sorry. we had been going out for 6 months, then another guy i had always been crushin started liking me so he said he wouldnt tell anyone. but stupid of me to beleive him, he told my BF cameron i was cheatin on him. its been about 8 months since and were all friends, but i still like cam so much... he just wont take me back, i wish i hadnt cheated

sorry gurl..but ur stuck on this , unless hes a really fprgiving guy, i dont think u got another chance cry.gif
 
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post Nov 25 2004, 09:37 PM
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cause i love steven byeon right now...he's my current crush... well we're not going out but i have a crush on him that's all...


I say use ur words carefully. U said u have a crush on him but *love him* err...right...

and besides, u cheated on ur bf. honestly, sounds like you dont deserve him and he deserves better. I say stay away from the opposite sex for a while cause it shows ur obviously not ready for a real, true relationship.

ps: to answer ur question, no i never cheated. EVER. I never even had temptations. i actually care about my guy's feelings.
 
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post Nov 26 2004, 12:35 AM
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cause i love steven byeon right now...he's my current crush... well we're not going out but i have a crush on him that's all...

u love him, but hes ur crush.. whats ur definition of a crush? to me, its a person u dont know personally, but from a distance [sorta like eye-candy].. so how do u love a crush?

anyway, how does this have to do with cheating? u cheated on ur bf with the steven guy? eitherway, u shouldnt have cheated at all...

goodness, i'll never understand. whats the point in cheating? why dont ppl just break up with their current bf/gf and THEN go out with another person. less stress for everybody. ur basically starting trouble for urself when u cheat on someone.

sorry to go off about that, but it really does get to me. maybe he'll have the heart to take u back. try getting his trust/respect back for u by becoming friends and building up ur relationship from there.
 
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post Nov 26 2004, 03:54 PM
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awww...i hope it all works out!! really..i mean..now you know how precious someone is... flowers.gif =) god bless. and may everything work out the way you want it to.
 
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post Jan 5 2005, 06:14 PM
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:O you cheated on him? what is considered cheating? =(

anyways you know how BAD someone would feel when they get cheated on? :'(
 
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post Jan 5 2005, 06:44 PM
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Gotta live with mistakes. Cheating is wrong. ;)
 
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post Jan 5 2005, 08:01 PM
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i've never cheated before. but let's say i did and broke up wid my boyfriend, i would completely want him back and miss him. and if i did like someone else after i would probably still want him back just not as much.
 
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post Jan 5 2005, 08:22 PM
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well, i didn't CHEAT on my ex. i was single but he won't take me back
cos i lost 'his trust'.. but we both still love each other. how sad.
 
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post Jan 5 2005, 08:25 PM
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What is he, your toy?
 
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QUOTE(angel_roh @ Oct 17 2004, 3:53 AM)
cause i love steven byeon right now...he's my current crush... well we're not going out but i have a crush on him that's all...


.. you don't "love" someone you have a "crush" on. mellow.gif
Never cheated on anyone so I couldn't say. Cheating is bad, kiddies. Live with the consequences.
 
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post Jan 5 2005, 09:52 PM
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I didnt exactly "cheat" on this guy, but i do want him back. its hard to explain.
 
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post Jan 5 2005, 10:51 PM
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QUOTE(angel_roh @ Oct 17 2004, 6:53 AM)
have you ever felt like this before? like the feeling when you want him back even though you cheated on him? i really do regret for cheating on justin park (some members know him) he was such a sweet boyfriend ever, but then we had to break up cause justin wants me to think about who i really love... T___T;; but do you have a feeling that you want him back? i have that feeling sometimes... well right now im very confused of myself... cause i love steven byeon right now...he's my current crush... well we're not going out but i have a crush on him that's all...

so yeah have u ever felt you wanted him back, but then you cheated on him? (girl's opinion only please)
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whos this steven kid? last time i was in CB, you both were so sweet together. =[ man, i'm so out on this stuff.
 
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post Jan 6 2005, 05:06 AM
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forget it, u're already in love.
 
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post Jan 7 2005, 02:59 AM
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wow. cheating is wrong. i could never do that to a bf even if we got into a huge fight..


err... idk im speechless. i break up with some boyfriends and it's really weird for me and i got this weird feeling for a long time... i still have it in me right now.. so yeah. i dislike the guy and have this stupid feeling on me. how weird is that man?! ohmy.gif
 

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