A Question and tip for the girls..., read it bizatches! |
 Oct 16 2004, 10:15 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful  Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124  |
Ok..... Most of you girls seem to think its a bad idea for girls to ask a guy out......
Honestly why do u think that? Are there rules written down somewhere in the girls network or some sh!t like that? Do u have facts on why its bad? Basically whats the dealio? Me behing a guy, I honestly feel that if girls would stop being so shy and devious and just ask the guy they like out ... they're wouldnt be so much complainin about "i dont have a boyfriend" threads and stuff...and more couples out there... Alot of guys are shy,luckily im not one of em, but yes... You girls are probally gonna be waitin on the guy u like for forever...cuz he mite be too shy to ask u out... Anyways my opinion on girls asking guys out.. I find it very attractive, it shows me that ur offensive and agressive,which in the long run is great. And it saves the both people alot of time....I'm not saying guys shouldnt ask the girls out,im just saying i think its awesome if girls would work up the same nerve as the guys have to |
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Oct 16 2004, 11:25 AM
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dont forget to smiLe today Group: Member Posts: 336 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,095 |
hmm maybe girls are old fashioned? i wouldnt really want to ask a guy out. maybe cuz im shy
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Oct 16 2004, 11:35 AM
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 naners Group: Member Posts: 113 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,394 |
I don't find a problem with it...I have done it before. Though before I did it I never thought I would.
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Oct 16 2004, 11:53 AM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 9 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,928 |
i don`t have any problems with askin` a guy out, `kuz i`ve done it before
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Oct 16 2004, 12:33 PM
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 and then he died... Group: Member Posts: 338 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,047 |
lol i agree mannn
yupp grls should stop being shy. that usually ruins everything. i ask guys out. =] X |
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Oct 16 2004, 12:37 PM
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 it's what i believe in. Group: Member Posts: 187 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,523 |
i agree. i don`t like it when a girl tells me that it`s wrong for a girl to ask a guy out.. it`s annoying. i mean i know it`s old fashioned or "traditionally" but i don`t plan on wasting my time waiting for that guy to ask me out. there`s NOTHING wrong with girls doing asking them out. some girls are too afraid to ask because of rejection.
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Oct 16 2004, 12:45 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
QUOTE(lilteardrop @ Oct 16 2004, 12:25 PM) hmm maybe girls are old fashioned? i wouldnt really want to ask a guy out. maybe cuz im shy yeah, same here. i'm kinda old fashioned, so i would prefer it if the guy asked me out because i'll be too shy to ask him out. but, i was planning on asking a guy out, but then he asked me out first. |
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| *AngelicEyz00* |
Oct 16 2004, 12:51 PM
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Vinny will you go out with me!
 Haha, seriously, I'd never ask a guy out. I'm not like that, I'm too shy. I fear rejection and making myself look stupid, so yeah >.< |
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Oct 16 2004, 03:58 PM
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 Pimp Status Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,200 |
Yeah i agree with girls asking guys out... I kind of find it nice and appealing. It shows that maybe they are willing to go out of there way for me, and taking risks wouldnt become an obstacle later in the relatioship. I hate it when my lady friends tell me how much they like this guy. and how much they care for him, and how she loves all his doings and stuff... ANd i ask them why they arent going out they simply say "He hasnt asked me yet" or "I'm not gonna ask a guy out" kinda thing. Its rediculous... Its like "cooking"... Girls are often given the job of cooking in a family, but they love it when a guy cooks for them every once in a while... Well guys love it when girls ask them out.
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Oct 16 2004, 04:49 PM
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 Linny the dork. Group: Member Posts: 178 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,258 |
QUOTE(luckyxi3 @ Oct 16 2004, 12:37 PM) i agree. i don`t like it when a girl tells me that it`s wrong for a girl to ask a guy out.. it`s annoying. i mean i know it`s old fashioned or "traditionally" but i don`t plan on wasting my time waiting for that guy to ask me out. there`s NOTHING wrong with girls doing asking them out. some girls are too afraid to ask because of rejection. yeah i mean some girls care about what other people will think, no matter what the guy says, and some people look at it as being desperate. i myself recently asked a guy out, but it's really stupid when your friends look at you weird and say that it's sad and shit, but all in all you're right. |
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Oct 16 2004, 05:24 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 44 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,265 |
I think a lot of girls are afraid of rejection... and honestly I do to. but it's not like I don't give any effort into being with the guy I want. I mean it won't work if I just like sit there and wait for him to come... well like, I would obviously give some hints and I keep trying and trying and see if he's really intrested on me or not. Well, if he doesn't seems like he's intrested in me, then too bad... move on =P lol I mean, seriously If I really really do like this guy, I would try my best to make him like me but that don't necessarily mean that I would change myself or nething like that. Well my point is.. I wouldn't ask some guy out unless it looks like he's intrested in me but he's just too stupid to see my hints haha =P
PS: Even the shyest guy would ask a girl out... I know (from my experience.. lol =P). I would say, just keep giving him hints and give your best effort to make him ask u out. If he don't seem intrested, then well that's too bad. He's not the only guy in the world rite? lol |
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Oct 16 2004, 05:29 PM
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 I do it so good, I don't need nobody else! Group: Member Posts: 644 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,752 |
idk why we have to wait for the guys to make the first move..and yeah maybe a fear of rejection and embarrassment..
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Oct 16 2004, 05:42 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
uhh i dont think its wrong to ask a guy out. im just to shy to, thats why the most id do is to tell them i like em.
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Oct 16 2004, 05:45 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 177 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,194 |
tru dat. it's just a little scary thats all. i don't take rejection well. but i've asked out guys before. it's better then sitting around bitching about it and stuff...
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Oct 16 2004, 06:53 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904 |
I don't think there's a prolbem with asking guys out.
I was the one who asked my prom date to the prom. He's just too shy to do anything. And we had a great time. See. if I didn't ask him, I'd be dateless and that's just sad. |
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Oct 16 2004, 07:03 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
Girls are more scared of rejection?
In my area, if a girl gets rejected or dumped, they make this huge scene, then have at least 2 quotes in their damned profiles about how their life sucks and how so and so broke their hearts. Drama. If guys are rejected or dumped, they find a new girlfriend.
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| *Expresseggroll* |
Oct 16 2004, 08:49 PM
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i think girls need to step up as well.
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Oct 16 2004, 09:11 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,859 |
haha ya i agree. i told my friends that and they said they like it oldfashioned. and some guys dont like it because it makes them feel less of a man...but i guess its juss some guys...
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Oct 16 2004, 10:42 PM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
QUOTE(lilteardrop @ Oct 16 2004, 11:25 AM) hmm maybe girls are old fashioned? i wouldnt really want to ask a guy out. maybe cuz im shy haha yeah i agree but, it's not like I'd NEVER ask a guy out 
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Oct 17 2004, 01:59 AM
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 03.21.00 <3 LaTe 637 Group: Member Posts: 744 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,890 |
i'm just old fashioned...
I would NEVER ask a guy out... NEVER... but that's just me.. I think it's okay for girls to ask out guys... so yeh
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Oct 17 2004, 02:19 AM
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pffft ... you guys get over rejection better than us..
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Oct 17 2004, 03:20 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
umm..
#1 fear of rejection...cuz like if i KNEW the guy liked me..n i liked him bak ..i wudn't care wtf other ppl say #2..some ppl r jus like that....they r too shy....... #3...this is odd...but alot of guys i know said that they wud think that the girl is too aggressive if she asked a guy out.... but i think these boys have prAO-blems... thats basically it...i've never done it before... but if the guy i liked liked me back n he didn't do ne thing within 2 weeks... i'd ask him out. |
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Oct 17 2004, 08:29 AM
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Gackt's Wife Group: Member Posts: 411 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,549 |
QUOTE(LittleLulu @ Oct 17 2004, 3:20 AM) umm.. #1 fear of rejection...cuz like if i KNEW the guy liked me..n i liked him bak ..i wudn't care wtf other ppl say yepp... im scared of rejection which brings it down to... ill only ask him out if i was POSITIVE he liked me
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Oct 17 2004, 08:44 AM
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QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Oct 16 2004, 4:15 PM) Ok..... Most of you girls seem to think its a bad idea for girls to ask a guy out...... Honestly why do u think that? Are there rules written down somewhere in the girls network or some sh!t like that? Do u have facts on why its bad? Basically whats the dealio? Me behing a guy, I honestly feel that if girls would stop being so shy and devious and just ask the guy they like out ... they're wouldnt be so much complainin about "i dont have a boyfriend" threads and stuff...and more couples out there... Alot of guys are shy,luckily im not one of em, but yes... You girls are probally gonna be waitin on the guy u like for forever...cuz he mite be too shy to ask u out... Anyways my opinion on girls asking guys out.. I find it very attractive, it shows me that ur offensive and agressive,which in the long run is great. And it saves the both people alot of time....I'm not saying guys shouldnt ask the girls out,im just saying i think its awesome if girls would work up the same nerve as the guys have to WELL DONE DUDE!! |
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Oct 17 2004, 09:45 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 110 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,702 |
well i wouldnt ask a guy out because im scared of rejection.
most girls think guys are more "insecure" [no offense] and i think thats why girls think guys should ask them out first its a girl thing i guess.. 
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Oct 17 2004, 10:32 AM
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 *lurks around* Group: Member Posts: 624 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,932 |
Well..you see..our world has become modern and everything..but there are still a few things that are old fashioned..like in the old movies..it was considered kinda awkward if a girl asked a guy out..so we're still clinging to that today..but who knows..maybe in a few years that'll change..and you'll have girls asking you out..haha..but for now..we're old fashioned. Sry guys.
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Oct 17 2004, 10:58 AM
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 can't believe I let people call me Lynne on here 5 yrs ago o Group: Member Posts: 243 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,591 |
 eh...well actually all the boyfriends ive had..i asked them out  ..haha so..yea... 
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Oct 17 2004, 03:22 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 78 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,654 |
probably some girls think if they ask guys out it means they're "slutty"
it doesn't really mean u're "slutty"... it means u like that guy enough to have the guts to ask them
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Oct 17 2004, 03:34 PM
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 Lauren loves YOU. Group: Member Posts: 2,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,793 |
i just like outgoing honest guys. i don't ask them out because if they ask me out then i know that they're my type.
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Oct 22 2004, 09:33 PM
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 jussst mee* Group: Member Posts: 103 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,218 |
hahahahah great advice, but i dun think i'll take it
i guess most girls don't ask boys out coz wat wud u do it u got rejected... i mean i wudn't be able to face that guy ever again.. + if he went and told his friends and it spread around den i wud like totally DIE of embarassment -_- i think i wud onli ask a guy out if i liked him alot, and if i knew that he certainly liked me too. Also i dun think the relationship wud last long if i the girl asked the boy out. Coz he prolly onli accepted to not hurt the girl'z feelings. but u know, when you think bout it... if he flirts wif you alot, then obviously he likes sumthin bout u, so u could ask him out. and i get quite a big chance of succeeding... but den if u get rejected, then so wat, he won't like u so move on girl... i wudn't mind taht, but i think the moving on process is hard, and i wud prefer juz silently liking the guy, than getting rejected and tearful and trying to move on. Alsoooo i'm scared that it'll spread around that i asked him out or sumthin. See... it'z not that acceptable in our school, and then people start calling you slut and things. 
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Oct 22 2004, 09:35 PM
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jussst mee* Group: Member Posts: 103 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,218 |
u know i think they shud make more movies where the girls asks the boy instead of the boy always askin the girl. this shud begin to make it more acceptable
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Oct 22 2004, 10:17 PM
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 push the botton... VROOOOM Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,166 |
hhheeee is so right, why cant the girl ask out the guys, cause some guys are very shy (witch is mee). I think when a girl ask out a guy, it is VERY attractive^^
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Oct 23 2004, 08:35 AM
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well i think for me ~ I wouldn't ask a guy out cuz I dun really know if he's a guy i really wanna go out with. I struggle with the thot ~ Is he or is he not? and yeah rejection is always a bummer ~ especially for me ~ cuz I have alot of pride and so if anyone "hurts" my pride ~ they might as well suicide than face me.
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Oct 23 2004, 08:45 AM
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 *rawr baby* Group: Member Posts: 821 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,941 |
Eh... I would but I'm stupidlly to scared.
.. I should do it one day. To #88 :)> |
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Oct 23 2004, 09:30 AM
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 because i'm worth it Group: Member Posts: 990 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,643 |
yeah. most girls are afraid of rejection..:\
me included. unless i`m absolutely sure that the guy i like likes me too. ahahS. i`m such a w. i. m. p >< |
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Oct 23 2004, 09:36 AM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
i did once. that's only cause i knew he liked me. otherwise..ehh..i'd be wayyyy too shy..
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Oct 23 2004, 09:38 AM
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 We are the cure. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,936 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,456 |
Why not? Is it because women are traditionally less powerful in society than men?
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Oct 23 2004, 10:06 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
I think girls asking guys is fine. its not like a law or something.
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Oct 23 2004, 10:29 AM
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 .::sweet on you::. Group: Member Posts: 509 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,753 |
WOULD ASKING A REALLY SEXY CUTE 'FRIEND' OUT TO THE MOVIES BE CONSIDERED ASKING THEM OUT?....just wondering....todays my b-day
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Oct 23 2004, 02:27 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
im a bit old fashioned. i will only do it, if i realy realy like the guy.
happy birthday |
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Oct 27 2004, 09:56 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
girls wont ask guys out becuz..this is my opinion btw...becuz theyre embarassed of the outcome..and afriad their friends will laugh at them.
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